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writes:My guy wants to try doing things that are more sexual. I have given him oral before but he wants me to start deep throating it. I tried it and its really hard because I feel like I am going to gag. Does any one have any tips on how to please him without gagging. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): HI
i think you have other things to please you B.F better than deeping throat . { Golden Advice } keep him away from porn movies
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): I suggest that he stop watching porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): heya,i hd this problem too,i would suggest practice,dont go too far down if u gag,just try it gently and slowly and u will get used to it,i did!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): my girl had the same problem. but she wanted to get better. she started getting a rhytm with her head and started inching down a little by little. keep swallowing and get comfortable going down. dont rush yourself. once you get to a point where you feel it getting too much. just keep going up and down to that point and eventually youll feel more comfortable. practice and try lol only way goodluck
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reader, RitzaD. +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Well to start off, if u don't want to learn then u don't have to and don't feel pressured.
In the other hand, there are products for this type of situation. I recently went to a passion party and learned so much about products that help u with any problem. I personally bought this pruduct. Its called "Great Head" only because I would gag even without deep throating.
This is a lubricant which comes in several flavors, I personally like the cinnamon. U put it on the tip of his head, (a little goes a long way) and while u start giving head this lub numbs ur throat, and since it taste so good, u will forget that ur giving head. =) it makes it easier to enjoy it urself. And gives him the greatest head ever lol. Well here's the website
PureRomance.com
Hope it works out.
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reader, Spiffeh  +, writes (11 August 2008):
Practise makes perfect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): Practice. Try to think of it as swallowing a hot dog. You could even practice by getting some of the thicker ones from the grocer, warm them up a little in the microwave, and work on swallowing them whole. **Make sure you get the ones that are ok to eat without cooking.** After downing a few of those in one piece, I think you'll find deep throating a lot easier.
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reader, Angela.B +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Deep throating is something that most of us can't do, and is more the preserve of the professional porn star than the average girl in the street.
The gag reflex is quite natural, and we have it for a reason - to stop us choking amongst other things.
The way round this most people use is to use a hand to "shorten" the length of his penis while still giving him the feeling of having it completely enclosed. You do this by placing your hand around the base of the shaft, leaving the top of it free to perform oral on. This "shorter" penis isn't long enough to trigger your gag reflex meaning you can go to town on it!
Whatever you do don't feel pushed into trying things that you aren't comfortable doing - remember, it's meant to feel good for you too, and gagging certainly does not feel good.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 August 2008):
I am sure some of the other aunts will offer advice on technique so I will say this:
If you don't like it then don't feel you have to learn. Deep throat is something I don't want to do as I'd end up vomiting over my guy and that is not sexy.
If he keeps pushing then do it and throw up, preferably on his bed / new outfit / face. He'll stop nagging after that.
Never do anything you are not comfortable with.
Good Luck!! xx
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