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writes:ok well im confused, ive got a girlfriend who i have been with 8 months and i really do love her, but me and her constantly argue and even tho i do love her things between us never seem to be going well.but on the other hand ive met a girl about 2months ago and i gotta admitt i think shes amazing, me and her have so much in common its scary, and she really is a lovley person and i think the world of her.however, at the moment i feel torn between 2 decisionswich is to stay with my girlfriend or leave her and i dont mean leaving her for a chance with the other girl, i just mean im confused wether to stay in the relationship or not..... any advice will be apreciated thank you . Reply to this Question
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reader, Saleem  +, writes (11 August 2008):
I dont think you should just leave her.
Every relationship has its ups and downs.
My gf and i used to argue constantly for about 2-3months.
We were close to breaking up many many many times but we somehow always decided that we wanted to be with each other.
After we spoke about it a couple times and decided to work things out one by one alll out problems started fading away..
My point is, if you both try to work things out TOGETHER then it can work, but both of you need to do it together..
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs. +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Hey (:Well maybe,you both should sit down and talk about things,explain to her, that if she don't make it work, its going to have to be over, it might be for the best, you never know.Or on the other hand,these arguements, might be making you both closer to eatchother,and apparently in a realtionship making up in an arguements the best thing,and come on, throwing 8 months away, must be painful for you both,but people do say, oh its only young love, no its not like that, young people do have alot of disagreements with there boyfriend/girlfriend, but it is love, and people say your too young to understand what love is, noo, young kids from age 13 + they do no what love is, its the best thing,but maybe billy, you might have to think about this also yourself, as ur making the decisions, not us (:and as for this other girl, Stick by her, just be best friends? as you agreed, you don't want to make an arkward position for you both.it might be best , that you and her stay friends, and as u say, that u and her both have alot in common, well you don't want to ruin things with her do you?have a think (:hope it helps.xx
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs. +, writes (11 August 2008):
Hey (:
Well maybe,
you both should sit down and talk about things,
explain to her, that if she don't make it work, its going to have to be over, it might be for the best, you never know.
Or on the other hand,
these arguements, might be making you both closer to eatchother,
and apparently in a realtionship making up in an arguements the best thing,
and come on, throwing 8 months away, must be painful for you both,
but people do say, oh its only young love, no its not like that, young people do have alot of disagreements with there boyfriend/girlfriend, but it is love, and people say your too young to understand what love is, noo, young kids from age 13 + they do no what love is, its the best thing,
but maybe billy, you might have to think about this also yourself, as ur making the decisions, not us (:
and as for this other girl, Stick by her,
just be best friends? as you agreed, you don't want to make an arkward position for you both.
it might be best , that you and her stay friends, and as u say, that u and her both have alot in common, well you don't want to ruin things with her do you?
have a think (:
hope it helps.
xx
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reader, RitzaD.  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 I agree with Hope. U are young but love doesn't have an age.
And ur gunna come across a lot of confusion since you're going to meet a lot of new girls through out ur life since ur still in school.
But communication is the key. Tell her how u feel, and arguing won't get u nowhere but lonely.
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reader, Abcdefghij +, writes (11 August 2008):
Why dont you just tell your girlfriend you feel like this? Then she might make a bigger effort to make things work.
As for the other girl maybe you should just leave her out of it and date yourself? Cause if you want someone thats exactly the same as you thats where its headed..
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reader, ask sweeney :) +, writes (11 August 2008):
ask sweeney :) is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks a lot for your advice i really apreciate it you give good advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): You are still quite young and things probably won't last forever with your current girlfriend, I mean if you're arguing now imagine how it will be in a few months.
If things aren't right then don't stay with her. And don't stay with her because she will be upset if you don't. I've been in that situation a few times and really need to do what's right for YOU.
And if things go well with this other girl then that's good :) !
Good luck !
xx Hope xx
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