A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 16 and I lost my virginity about a month ago. ( didnt bleed but it was the 1st time ive ever had sex) Every time Ive had sex since then I hurt really bad when my bf goes deep and I cant figure out why. I'm worried I could have some kind of problem, Im just too scared to go to the doctor for it because my parents arent aware Im sexually active so i dont know what to do? Any tips and advice on what is causing the pain? Plz help.
View related questions:
lost my virginity Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, RitzaD. +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Ur health concerns me because ur parents are not aware of ur situation, and ur scared of them finding out. Im afraid u won't do anything about it because of ur parents. I would consider u call planned parent hood, or just go to there website plannedparenthood.com
On this website u can get there contact info, and nearest clinics to u.
They offer texting so u can get questions answered right away. or u can call and make an appointment with out ur parents knowing of it.
Good luck and take care!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't do it everyday so and most of the time we've had sex Ive made him not go so deep but when he gets in the heat of the moment its hard for him not to. Its not like a burning sensation its just like stabbing pain when he does it. All in all I'd say we've had sex around 11-12 times. I dont know maybe its just where im not fully used to it yet. But thank you for the link Mandy I'm sure it'll help :) and thanks everyone for ur advice and Ill see if I cant go to a doctor Bye byes! :)
...............................
A
female
reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Hunny why do you keep having sex if it hurts so much?
It would be a good idea to go to the doctor and get checked out.
Are you on any type of birth control?
best wishes xo
...............................
A
female
reader, pepper27  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyspareunia
Hope this link comes out hunny its just a guidline of what can cause pain the doctor can give you more help XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
...............................
A
female
reader, pepper27 +, writes (11 August 2008):
Hi Hunny
You really do need to see a doctor, This could be an infection it could be anything ttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyspareunia#Symptoms_in_women
This is a link just incase I dont want you to get worried as this may not be the reason at all but this is why you need to go to the doctor to get checked out as if you leave it it may only get worse hunny, You may be worried from the firsy onset of pain and are tensing up also this can cause pain. So try if you can to speak with your mum or book an appointment as soon as poss hunny its been a month of pain..Please remember this link is a tip for you and it may have nothing to do with your pain at all but for your own health hunny its important to get all this checked TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
...............................
A
female
reader, superrrshawna +, writes (11 August 2008):
 it still hurts when i have sex every once in a while. your body may just need to adjust to having him in you since you only lost your virginity a little while ago. if you are really concerned, though, see a doctor! you may have an infection or something else going on down there. good luck!
...............................
|
