Is he beginning to change his mind?
Q. Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are fina...
A. 28 April 2022: HoneyPie
Yeah, definitely. I mean so far, it’s amazing. Both of our goals in terms of work are in the media field, we both want to end up cohabiting as soon as we’re ready, I’ll families love each other and I’ve never felt so appreciated the way ... (read in full...)
Is he beginning to change his mind?
Q. Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are fina...
A. 25 April 2022: HoneyPie
Yeah, I get you. Yeah, it is pretty new to be fair, few months or so. We’ll see what happens, I suppose:) ... (read in full...)
Is he beginning to change his mind?
Q. Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are fina...
A. 24 April 2022: HoneyPie
Hey, thank you so much for your answer! I see you answering a lot of other questions and I always love your advice.
Anyway, to be honest, I think the idea of him proposing is more cute to me than anything. I have been married in the p... (read in full...)
Addicted to soda
Q. My mom reprimanded me again over my addiction to soda which she sells. i steal and drink alot of soda about five in a day or minimum of two and my parents have caution and corrected me alot. i have tried to stop i had gone weeks and months but i...
A. 24 April 2022: I understand that you’re addicted, and your mum may have suspicions, but it’s not equally right of her to assume that you would go into prostitution for the sake of fizzy drinks. Try carbonated water, you can add some water flavouring to it and it ... (read in full...)
Should I give up my singing career?
Q. Hello all, its 3am and i cant sleep. I need really an advice. So here is the story. I am singer, more than 1/2 years of my life, this is already my proffesion and music is my life. Im now in my 50s and still active in music. Since 2020- 2...
A. 24 April 2022: I also work with the entertainment industry, I’m a singer, songwriter and actress. Not in the big names, but it has enough. However, like you, and every other musician who is not quite yet in the big names, it is not a stable income. I would suggest ... (read in full...)
Wasting my time with this guy?
Q. I met a guy and we texted back and forth for a few weeks, after we decided to go on a date. We kissed and everything went well, and we continued chatting and video calling. A week passed and he didnt text me following that I reached out to him and ...
A. 24 April 2022: He seems to be just keeping his options open, I think you should be doing the same. Stop wasting time chasing him around. If you want something serious, something with a goal 10 find someone who wants the same things as you.... (read in full...)
Is he beginning to change his mind?
Q. Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are fina...
A. 24 April 2022: @YouCannotBeSerious thank you for your answer, I appreciate your advice. I’m afraid I didn’t make myself clear. He used to say all of the stuff before we were together, about not wanting marriage and kids.
We have been best friends for about th... (read in full...)
Is my ex playing hard to get?
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend after many years together. I snapped one day after her complaints. I wasn’t in a good frame of mind. We gave it space and I met her again last week as I was in the area. She was star struck, giggling didn’t know what...
A. 24 April 2022: Since you came across as disinterested, she’s probably trying to limit her communication with you, and she’s probably also a little cautious because of you guys’ past. You need to show her you still want her. Like how did you get her in the ... (read in full...)
She and I have a crush on each other. How do I go from here?
Q. Hi A member of staff in my child's school has a crush on me ( I am married) and I also have a crush on her. She is in a senior position. I have known she has a crush on me because she kept checking me dropping time, trying to get my attention...
A. 14 April 2022: Does your wife know you’re doing this?... (read in full...)
Want privacy with my girl but her flirting sister is always around
Q. Lucky 17M dating incredible 17F. My girl’s sister goes with us on most dates because the sister broke up with her guy (who was awful). Used to go on double dates which is why I know the dude was truly awful and no good for her. My girl and her ...
A. 14 April 2022: You need to put your foot down and talk to your girlfriend. It may be okay for your girl to tease you and cuddle with you and all that, but it certainly is not okay for her sister to be doing this as well. You are your girlfriend‘s boyfriend, not ... (read in full...)
Oral sex and the boyfriend
Q. My question is about blow jobs with my boyfriend. A while ago he told me he thought they were overrated and he's never been interested in receiving them from anybody he's been with. I didn't think it was because I did them badly because I've bee...
A. 25 March 2022: Not everyone enjoys them, even if they do orgasm. Orgasms are just a biological reaction, nothing to do with whether he likes it or not... (read in full...)
Should we end it?
Q. Hi all, I've been with my partner almost 2 years (2years in may) we are both 38. I have a 4 year old boy from a previous relationship. He has no kids. I've made it known to him that I would take our relationship to the next level. I.e living t...
A. 9 March 2022: You should try talking to him about how distance your relationship feels. You guys might just be at two different stages emotionally in your lives. You want to settle down and have kids, he wants to pay the boat a bit.
I understand your concerns... (read in full...)
Should we end it?
Q. Hi all, I've been with my partner almost 2 years (2years in may) we are both 38. I have a 4 year old boy from a previous relationship. He has no kids. I've made it known to him that I would take our relationship to the next level. I.e living t...
A. 9 March 2022: You should try talking to him about how distance your relationship feels. You guys might just be at two different stages emotionally in your lives. You want to settle down and have kids, he wants to pay the boat a bit.
I understand your concerns... (read in full...)
Foster Parents Nice But Awkward
Q. Hello smart people. I need to have some advice. I understand not to use real names so I will use fake names that are close or maybe real but you don't know. LOL Me = Miguel. Foster Dad = Shawn. Foster Mom = Sarah. Foster Brother = Patrick. I have ...
A. 9 March 2022: What they are doing is completely out of love and I think they’re just trying to give you a chance to explore your heritage as any good foster family should be doing. Just let them know before somebody else tells them though. Would be more ... (read in full...)
Wife had a secret hysterectomy
Q. Wife and I have been married for years. For years we (or I) tried to impregnate my wife. After many Dr. Visits to see if it was me, wife claimed it was her. We went on with life. Few months ago I was going through papers I found on a closet. ...
A. 4 March 2022: Not sure how she could’ve hidden that from you, but okay. Doesn’t mean she was cheating, maybe she had some medical issues that you didn’t know about. Maybe she just doesn’t want any kids. If your posts are genuine, then just ask her about it... (read in full...)
Do you think I was unfair?
Q. I recently had a break down in a relationship and am struggling with feelings of guilt and regret, I am 64 and my "boy"friend was same age. He was in rented lovely cottage in great location but very expensive, he had lost his property previous...
A. 3 March 2022: Anybody who tries to get you to sell your stability is not worth being with. He basically wanted you to have nothing to stand on, and to be fully reliant on him. No house, no job, just him. That sounds toxic to me. He’s trying to get you to make all ... (read in full...)
Female friend / colleague blanks me outside of work
Q. A girl started working for me a couple of years ago and we hit it off instantly. We had a similar sense of humour and although she is a bit socially awkward (by her own admission), we just seemed to get each other and enjoyed each other's ...
A. 3 March 2022: She sounds like she doesn’t know what she wants. On one hand, she’s trying to draw a line because the level of you guys’ communication was getting uncomfortable, put on the other hand, she gets upset when she didn’t hear from you.
I think pe... (read in full...)
He doesn't have a job. what should I do?
Q. I need some relationship help? My fiancé and I have been together going on 6 years. He proposed to me when we were together only 6 months but I wanted to wait to get married to see how things would play out because I was in a previous relationsh...
A. 3 March 2022: I’m not sure of the fact that you’d be jealous if he was with someone else as a good reason to be with him, considering you’ve complained about everything else about him in the post. Personally, I think your relationship has run its course, but ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my 70 year old mother?
Q. I’m starting to worry about my 70-year-old mom. Last April, my husband and I took our first shot of the Covid vaccine, then drove to see our families for Easter. I remember telling my parents I’d just received my first shot. They had just had the...
A. 3 March 2022: To be fair, my mum kind of does the same thing and she doesn’t believe me. She keeps mentioning something to me to see if she gets the same answer. I’m only telling you this because from your description, your mum isn’t struggling with anything ... (read in full...)
My exhad sex with a much older guy shortly after breakup. Did she move on too
Q. I’m so confused. Thank you for listening. I will forever be in your debt for those that take the time to swift through the emotions Yeah I broke up with my gf after 9 years, I moved out prior to lockdown due to mental health reasons (I had an...
A. 3 March 2022: Your guys’ love lives or any other business for that matter have nothing to do with each other anymore. She can’t be telling you whether you can or can’t see other people, and you can’t be telling her when she can or can’t sleep with other people. ... (read in full...)
I found a dildo in the closet. I know wife has used it
Q. Been married for 35 years. My wife is still very hot. She mentioned to me that she and a friend went to a sex toy store and they laughed a lot. She did not say she bought anything. I did not ask. In the past 10 years sex was really for me. Usually 4 ...
A. 3 March 2022: It’s a sex toy, not another man. You didn’t ask her if she bought anything, and she didn’t tell you. Doesn’t mean she’s hiding anything, maybe she just doesn’t see it as a big deal. Maybe she just wants to use something when you’re not around. She ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend feels trapped and blames me
Q. Hi Aunts! My long-time live-in girlfriend of 10 years keeps saying that she feels trapped in our relationship and doesn't see a way out except for suicide. She says I am controlling and despite my many good qualities we are not compatible and s...
A. 18 February 2022: So, she’s basically just using you as a Sugardaddy. She obviously isn’t attracted to you anymore, she blames you for all of her problems, yet she sponges off of you, and refuses to accept help.
Sorry, this might make me sound harsh, and other ag... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he seriously likes me or not
Q. almost a month ago I met a guy at this bar and he ended up coming home with me, however, we just hooked up no sex. The next morning I woke up to his alarm and him cuddling me, even pulling me closer each time it went off and I took nothing from ...
A. 18 February 2022: Maybe you should just ask him what his deal is? Find out what he wants from this bond you both have seemed to established.
I agree with HoneyPie c ask him out on a date.
Also, might sound silly, but try getting in touch with him on a different ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of the Covid vaccine
Q. I'm so scared, as my partner and parents have taken the vaccine. I wondered if anyone has had any luck convincing loved ones not to get boosters? If so, I would love to know how you were able to do that? I'm so scared of losing everyone I l...
A. 18 February 2022: Sorry, but you can’t dictate whether or not people get vaccinated, no matter how you feel or how much you love them. It’s their own body, and their own choice. Just like it is yours not to get it.
If it is at all reassuring, the Covid vaccine ... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriends ex cross the line or am I overreacting?
Q. So my boyfriend’s ex keeps asking too many personal questions about our sex life, and it’s starting to bother me but I don’t know if I’m overreacting. Like one example is that she wants to know if he’s still a virgin, to which I responded, “I’m not ...
A. 12 February 2022: Hi all
Thank you for your answers.
I told him she was going to ask him, and when she did, he told her he wasn’t comfortable answering those kinds of questions.
Since then, we’ve kind of been avoiding her.
@Honeypie, no she’s not r... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriends ex cross the line or am I overreacting?
Q. So my boyfriend’s ex keeps asking too many personal questions about our sex life, and it’s starting to bother me but I don’t know if I’m overreacting. Like one example is that she wants to know if he’s still a virgin, to which I responded, “I’m not ...
A. 12 February 2022: Hi all
Thank you for your answers.
I told him she was going to ask him, and when she did, he told her he wasn’t comfortable answering those kinds of questions.
Since then, we’ve kind of been avoiding her.
@Honeypie, no she’s not r... (read in full...)
One of the teachers has a noticeable crush on me
Q. Im 20. As part of my university degree I'm studying abroad at a Spanish language school. One of the teachers there has a crush on me, strong enough for all the students to notice. I'm genuinely attracted to her and last Saturday we were da...
A. 9 February 2022: I’m not going to comment on her lack of professionalism or the fact that she’s crossing the Teacher-Student relationship boundaries, as I’m sure you’re quite aware of this already.
But if she likes you as much as you think she does, and you like... (read in full...)
After 2 years, my boyfriend ghosted me
Q. I don’t know what to do anymore. My boyfriend of over 2 years ghosted me! There were no major issues, as far as I was made aware. I work with families and I’m so gutted that some have asked me what’s wrong because I look so miserable and I have no ...
A. 9 February 2022: I think the biggest concern here is the fact that he invaded your privacy and put you in harms way. That needs to be reported!
You’re absolutely right, he is definitely a coward and a lunatic.
As difficult as this sounds, you have to stop revo... (read in full...)
Which contraception is best and will least affect my body
Q. Hi just wondering which contraception is best and will least affect my body? I’m turning 16 next month and going to start having sex with my boyfriend when I am legal. He said he will use condoms every time but I just want to be extra safe and go on ...
A. 9 February 2022: Hi, you could always ask to speak to a female GP if you feel uncomfortable. ... (read in full...)
Which contraception is best and will least affect my body
Q. Hi just wondering which contraception is best and will least affect my body? I’m turning 16 next month and going to start having sex with my boyfriend when I am legal. He said he will use condoms every time but I just want to be extra safe and go on ...
A. 5 February 2022: The best method for you is dependent upon a few factors such as your BMI, and your medical history. Therefore, we can’t really advise you on this; you should ring your GP or sexual health clinic near to you. They’ll be able to ask you questions and ... (read in full...)
The more I know about his life, the more I want to walk away
Q. I’m in a relationship with a man with kids. I don’t have any and not thinking of wanting anytime soon. I haven’t met his kids and I don’t want to push him on meeting them. The more I get to know the situation with his life, the more I feel like ...
A. 27 January 2022: Sadly, there are a lot of men in his position who need to stay on the ex’s good side to see their kids, unfortunately, that’s not going to change for a good few years. At least, not unless he takes a stand, which personally, I think he needs to, ... (read in full...)
I think my husband has a crush on a younger female friend
Q. Hi I need some advice about my husband, I think he is crushing on a younger female friend of ours. He always compliments her when he'd had a bit to drink then says he's trying to insult her as a joke! and I've seen him staring quite a bit. I have...
A. 27 January 2022: You need to tell your husband how uncomfortable it makes you feel, and then I think you guys need to distance yourself from this woman for a little while. It certainly doesn’t help that she seems to be enjoying the attention, as that’s fuelling him ... (read in full...)
I want to experience first love in high school
Q. high school is the time when I want to experience my first love. I want to feel these new feelings. Having my first kiss is something I want to experience with my bf in high school. I know it shouldn’t be rushed. I feel im ready and excited ...
A. 27 January 2022: You might be excited about it, but honestly, you’ll have the best result if you let it happen at its own time. Otherwise it’ll just be awkward and weird.
Why not try doing something romantic? Like a romantic date at the park, or the beach, o... (read in full...)
Why is she lying to me?
Q. Hey, so I'd like to ask what to do as I was told awhile ago my partner was taking people home after work, not work colleagues shes taking men back to there home after her shift and she works in a pub. The pubs closing time is 12am midnight but shes ...
A. 27 January 2022: So she lies to your face and emotionally manipulate you into trusting her. That’s kind of disgusting to be honest, not gonna lie. Even if she hasn’t done anything wrong with these men, the point is she’s lying about it. And that for me at least, ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my wife to cheat?
Q. Is it completely absurd to fantasize about your wife doing something with another man (ex hand job, BJ, just kissing, intercourse)? My wife is extremely attractive, younger than me, and I have no desire to be with anyone else. However, I do ...
A. 25 January 2022: I don’t know what kind of people you or your wife are. You might be that kind of couple who is up for anything, and if that’s the case then fine. But personally, I feel that sex is a very intimate thing between two people. And I am worried that by ... (read in full...)
I'm worried because I can no longer keep up with my husband sexually
Q. I don’t know why but I feel really insecure because I don’t want sex as much anymore and my husband may end up leaving me because of it. Last week during a boozy get together with my husband and another couple we got talking about our sex lives. I...
A. 25 January 2022: You might just be someone who’s not really into sex all that much. When you’re in your early 30s, I think that’s when you settle into who you are properly so maybe that’s why you’re just not a very sexual person anymore. If it is concerning though, ... (read in full...)
Have I been too forgiving?
Q. I’ve given my sister the benefit of the doubt after she tried to kiss my boyfriend on New Year’s Eve because she was drunk but have I been too soft on her? All of my friends seem to think so. Me and my boyfriend had a party at ours with a load...
A. 25 January 2022: Yes, she definitely crossed the line, but you don’t have to be angry and aggressive to be assertive. I think you handled the situation in a very mature way.
If it is still bothering you, I would bring it up to her again, and let her know that it ... (read in full...)
Is my partner a sex addict
Q. I think my partner is a sex addict. I cant be sure but having read online articles I am finding alot of matching information that match his habits. I'll give you a run down. My partner likes to masturbate at least ten times a week. His sex dr...
A. 25 January 2022: There isn’t any way of going about this without hurting him, the truth does hurt. Plus he doesn’t even seem to care about how you feel. He seems more worried about pleasing himself. And that’s kind of dangerous. In my point of view, that could lead ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about my partner's personality change too much?
Q. Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, but we moved in together in April 2019. I'm 29, he's 28, no real age gap to be honest. We're both "bear"-type men, although not obese, but certainly no gym bunny either; just healthy. H...
A. 24 January 2022: You really don’t know everything about someone until you start living with them, that’s why when a couple moves in together, it’s either the making or the breaking of the relationship, that’s why moving in together is such a big deal. I think you ... (read in full...)
My parents don't like my LDR boyfriend
Q. I uhm hi...these days I have been very stressed with school and stuff. I have a strict Asian parents and they doesn't like my long distance relationship boyfriend, what should I do? I love him so much and we've known each other for a long time now. ...
A. 24 January 2022: I remember being your age and feeling exactly the same way. Honestly, I know this isn’t what you want to hear, but your parents are just looking out for you, you are very young and you are still there responsibility. Have you met this boy in person ... (read in full...)
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