Is he still interested in me??
Q. I'm having trouble. I don't think my boyfriend is interested in me any more. We've known each other for about 5 years now and dating for about a month now. he doesnt act like he's interested in me any more even though he says he is. For some reason ...
A. 21 January 2009: Kind of sounds like you're the go to girl when he's in between girlfriends.
If you're cool with just being friends with benefits, great. If not, I would inform him that you will no longer be his booty call in between serious relationships.... (read in full...)
Too embarrassed to face him again....
Q. Me and my friend went to a restaurant with our mums and we both fancied the waiter and the other day we saw him in town and started to follow him around for ages and now we don't want to go in the restaurant again because it's too embarrassing but ...
A. 19 January 2009: Either tell them the truth, or just go with your parents. Maybe he didn't notice. If he did though, what can he do? He's probably flattered by the attention. To be safe though, don't follow him around anymore. ... (read in full...)
Is he still interested in me??
Q. I'm having trouble. I don't think my boyfriend is interested in me any more. We've known each other for about 5 years now and dating for about a month now. he doesnt act like he's interested in me any more even though he says he is. For some reason ...
A. 19 January 2009: What does he do that makes you think he's not interested?? I think we need more info because I would say that knowing someone for so long and then beginning to date them would definitely indicate they're interested. Maybe he just doesn't know how ... (read in full...)
I want to trust him but I don't
Q. hay :) i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept asusig him of cheeting we then didnt talk for about a year and then he conted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he ...
A. 18 January 2009: Girl, it's all you then. You need to feel like you deserve him, which you do. If this is an issue you've had your whole life, I would seek counseling. Were you abused or anything like that? I had similar issues growing up- I was abused physical... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 18 January 2009: I can understand why it's important to you because it's been ingrained into your psyche for so long that that is way you think life is supposed to be. The best thing you can do is befriend people who have the same values as you and hope for the best... (read in full...)
Period started but could I be preggers?
Q. I've practicually worried myself to death, I had sex on the 11th of this month, it was unprotected. I started my period today. It's only been 6 days, I read up on some forums that girls can still be pregnant, and get their period. How likey is t...
A. 18 January 2009: I doubt you're pregnant. The times are too close together. Of course it's possible, but highly unlikely.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with my partner anymore
Q. Ive been with my partner for 4 years we have a 15 month old child together. I started a new job recentley and met a guy on my there we were totally friends, but then on a group night out we ended up kissing and i ended up staying at his and having ...
A. 18 January 2009: I agree, you probably have not been feeling your partner for a while because stuff like that doesn't just happen. Do you think you all could fall back in love? 4 years is about the length of most relationships because that's about the time the love... (read in full...)
He's too shy to make a move
Q. I've liked this guy for almost 2 years and can't seem to get over him. He's a little shy, so if anyone would make the first move it would have to be me. I can't do it :(. We're such great friends and I value the friendship. I don't know for sure ...
A. 18 January 2009: Tell him how you feel. If you've been hanging out for 2 years and he hasn't had a love interest he's either waiting for you or he's gay. Once you tell him, you'll either take it to the next level, or things will be weird for awhile and then you... (read in full...)
My b/f hates my past
Q. Hi, I'm very hurt. I've been with my boyfriend for little over two years. In the beginning everything was fantastic. It still is, usually. However he hates my past. I didn't do anything wild. Just normal. But he hates it because this is a small...
A. 18 January 2009: He needs to get over it. If he's bored alone with you, he'll be bored in public with you. So what if you run into guys you kissed?? he should be flattered because you're with him. If he can't get over it, dump him.... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm raising 3 children instead of two
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 3 months. i moved in with him a couple months after we were together. he is 30yrs old and lives with his mother. he used to work but got laid off do to work conditions. well now we have a b...
A. 18 January 2009: Well, I wouldn't throw in the towel if this is your only issue. I know it's frustrating, and it sounds like you have yourself a momma's boy. It may get better when his mom moves, or it may get a heck of a lot worse. Don't cater to him. I... (read in full...)
How to disagree and still be nice
Q. How to be nicer on the internet? Things that annoy me about people: 1-when they are really young and into sex already and trying to grow up too fast 2-dumb people on purpose or to annoy 3-mean and insulting people just because. (It's differe...
A. 18 January 2009: Ignore people on the internet that annoy you. It's the ones in the real world that are in your face... if you can learn to deal with them, you're ahead of the game.... (read in full...)
I'd like some peace
Q. How do I become a more peaceful person? As in having peace of mind? For most of last year and a little of this year has been stressful on me emotionally and physically as well as mentally. Alot has gone on. Please help me if you have any tips on how ...
A. 18 January 2009: Life is all about perspective. When something happens to me that worries or upsets me, I say "will this matter in 5 minutes? " "Will this matter in 5 days?" "Will this matter in 5 months?" Things that relax me are taking baths, walking outside ... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable about my body
Q. hey, um how do i get over this feeling. I'm a bit uncomfortable with my body. I don't like talking about breasts and stuff. I mean i'm mature about it and stuff, but when other people talk about it around me, i get embarrassed. Now i've alway...
A. 18 January 2009: I was so excited to get a bra when I was younger. Hmm...I wanted to grow up so badly, so maybe it is that you don't want to grow up (just like someone else said). Some people are just more shy about things like that. I don't think there's anything... (read in full...)
Mom doesn't like me talking to this guy
Q. What should I do, my mama don't like the boy I talk to, we are just firends n she don't have a reason to be mad, cause we not seeing eachother. We talk on the phone for 4 or 5 hours on the phone sometimes, yes we got close over the last few months ...
A. 18 January 2009: Hmmm... she let him come over before you know him? Why? Were they romantically involved and you don't know about it? Maybe it's driving her nuts because 4 or 5 hours on the phone is a lot! I would ask her what about him bothers her, and really ... (read in full...)
Do I give him time? Or just say "see ya"
Q. So I just met this guy who is 18 years older then I and there was an instant chemistry between us. We had only been talking for about two weeks when he expressed finacial issues that he was having with a business he started about two years ago. So ...
A. 18 January 2009: He's probably depressed. Financial issues affect every aspect of your life and he probably can't get his head out of whatever he's dealing with right now to keep up with a relationship. I would let him initiate any further contact.... (read in full...)
If I don't give him what he wants, will he drop me for someone older?
Q. Hey people I'm 13 years old + I'm going out with a 16 year old guy. I know technically it doesn't matter but I've been told by almost everyone I know that it is "immoral", he is "too old", and I should "stick to people my own age". Please don't gi...
A. 18 January 2009: The question you're asking is the reason why people are telling you he's too old. The truth of the matter is that he may not want more physically, you may just be afraid he does and you're projecting that. Of course most young men always want to ... (read in full...)
Was I just a good time to him?
Q. I just recently had sex with this guy that i really liked and i thought he liked me but one night i came over his house and we had sex and now we barely talk at all. Did he use me or what? I need help!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 18 January 2009: Yes, he used you. Unfortunately, sex for guys is not emotional like it is for girls.... (read in full...)
I think shes still attracted to my friend
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and I have a question for everyone. When we first met, she was interested in a good friend of mine. However, after getting to know eachother, she decided she wanted me. Based on having similar t...
A. 18 January 2009: Go with your gut. She's trying to make your friend jealous so he'll realize what he could have with her (hence the three of you hanging out)...young girls can be insensitive, and you sound like a decent and mature guy. ... (read in full...)
Old feelings for ex are creeping back
Q. My boyfriend -well ex now- thought I was cheating on him with my guy friend because he and I talk a lot an stuff. I told my boyfriend that me and my friend aren't dating. That's when he became distant with me, I knew he was mates with this girl w...
A. 18 January 2009: He already gave you his answer- he wants to make it work with the other girl. There's really nothing you can do about it.
This guy is a loser- he THOUGHT you were dating some other guy, so he conveniently started dating another girl? You're bett... (read in full...)
Can a student date and EX teacher?
Q. Is teacher dating his ex-student prohibited? Is it frowned upon? He's just... i always said i would never get married after watching my parents' marriage fail, but i think i'd be happy with him. we have so much alike. he's 10 years older than...
A. 18 January 2009: Since you're so young, you're probably still in school. If he is still a teacher at that school, it is prohibited.
I would also be mindful of statutory rape laws. They vary from state to state, but legally he could go to prison if you were to h... (read in full...)
Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?
Q. My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he ...
A. 18 January 2009: I wouldn't go see him. Move on with your life and forget about him and the crap he did to you.... (read in full...)
Cheating only a drink away..
Q. I'm 18 and in a relationship with the most gorgeous and sweetest boy. I met him at a friends party, he's 21. We've been going out for a few months now and everything is going great. If i'm being honest he' probably my first 'serious' boyfriend. I'm ...
A. 18 January 2009: I don't think you're ready for a serious relationship with anyone. You're in the prime of your life, you like attention from guys, and are very aware that there are plenty of cutie pies out there to have fun with. I would suggest you tell your ... (read in full...)
I want to trust him but I don't
Q. hay :) i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept asusig him of cheeting we then didnt talk for about a year and then he conted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he ...
A. 18 January 2009: I think this is an incident where you need to learn that you're worth the love of a good guy. Unless he's done something specifically to make you think he's cheating, (you've found weird text messages, seen him with other girls, heard a lot of ... (read in full...)
He makes the dining that much finer..
Q. Ok, so here's my dilemma: For about the past year or so I've started to like this guy who works at a restaurant I go to quite frequently. I think he (and possibly some of the other employees there) may be catching on that I like him. But I just ...
A. 18 January 2009: First of all, since you're a paying customer, you may speak to whomever you want to. Ask to be seated in his section so he has to talk to you, and then start a conversation (How long have you worked here? I've seen you the past few times I've been ... (read in full...)
Am I just a plaything to her?
Q. okay so i am 17 years old and my girl is 16 it seams like i do everthing for here and she always gets wat she wants i love her alot but it seams like all she wants is a little plaything she gets all pissed about everything i do and she tells me im ...
A. 18 January 2009: She's a 16 year old girl. She's probably pushing your buttons to see how devoted you are to her. I use to do it all the time to guys. Sorry, we're a pretty vicious species.... (read in full...)
Male perspective: Haven't spoke to boyfriend since x-mas
Q. I have not spoken to my boyfriend since before xmas. I had a death in the family of a close relative. I have three children. Youngest is his. We dont live together. Many years of togetherness and he has been fairly supportive. things just got ...
A. 18 January 2009: I know you want a male perspective, but maybe you can just clarify a couple of things---
Who broke contact? Why? He seems ready to talk, so I would give him a call and see what's going on.... (read in full...)
I hate my stupid boyfriend!
Q. I hate my boyfriend!!!!! We have been together for coming upto 5 years, we have a 1 year old little girl. He drives me insane, everything he does is totally annoying Im sure half of it he does on purpose surely no human being can possibly be that ...
A. 18 January 2009: It kind of sounds like you're really mad right now about something he's done. I'm sure you don't walk around with all that rage pent up all the time...
Do you want to live the rest of your life this way? It's HARD living with someone and bein... (read in full...)
He's not texting me back... is this him trying to let me know he doesn't fancy me?
Q. There's this guy who I really like. He's one of my friends and I tried to get over my crush on him but didnt succeed. He normally texts me and talks to me for hours on end. We are really close and he pokes me, laughs at my stupid jokes, stares at ...
A. 18 January 2009: Okay, if my answer is ridiculous... when is the last time you saw him in person? That will tell you right off the bat. If he avoids you, I stand by my original answer. If he doesn't, then maybe it was a phone mix up.... (read in full...)
Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected.
Q. So my baby's daddy left me an broke my heart an he's dating an ugly chubby chick now. I'm 7 months pregnant and can't find a guy to date. Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected. How can I get a boyfriend? ...
A. 18 January 2009: My answer is the same- you need to show your baby that happiness is only found within yourself. Unfortunately you'll have to be the mother and father to your child, and you need to be strong. ... (read in full...)
Does it always hurt first time???
Q. Is it always the case that when a woman has sex for the 1st time then she should have pain while doing intercourse with her husband...... or not?...
A. 17 January 2009: Your vagina is set up to expand and contract. The very first time you have intercourse it does hurt because you're shoving a foreign object in there, and the vagina shapes itself to fit it. Also, you may have still had your hymen intact, which is ... (read in full...)
I cheated on her with men because I wasn't satisfied sexually with her and I still saw her as my best friend even though we were dating.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year. Previous to this relationship we were both in heterosexual relationships and both have never been with a girl. I personally had many male sex partners she has had a few. We were best friends and ...
A. 17 January 2009: You need to figure out why you still want attention from men.
No, she will never trust you again, and sorry to say that if she does, she's a fool.
Maybe you're not gay. Maybe you just love your friend a lot. Part of compatibility is sexual a... (read in full...)
I fell out with her because she was better at shooting than me!
Q. My girlfriend and I went to this summer fair (I live in Australia) and we started playing this ball game when you knock down milk bottles. I was horrible at it, I couldn't make a shoot so my gf grabbed the last ball and knocked down some. She even ...
A. 17 January 2009: Yes, you were a jerk. If you get married to a woman who makes more money, are you going to do the same thing?
I understand that guys have a certain image to uphold and all, but so what? She's better at throwing a ball than you. Would you be as u... (read in full...)
He wants a 2 week break! If I haven't heard from him by Tuesday do you think it is best to contact him?
Q. Hello everyone My break is almost over with my boyfriend. We have been going out together for 4.5 years. He broke up/went on a break with me 2 weeks ago saying our relationship is just going round in circles, that he is unhappy and doesn't want...
A. 17 January 2009: I wouldn't contact him. I'm not sure what this break is about, but quite honestly there's probably another girl he's experimenting with. I'm sure he loves you, but he himself said he can't handle a relationship right now which is a HUGE clue that ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being jealous and envious??
Q. Sometime I get jealous of friends and family that are doing better than me, I know I shouldn't be feeling that way, I should feel happy for them. But I just can't help to have that sour and jealous feeling toward them. Do I have a problem? How can I ...
A. 17 January 2009: No, you don't have a problem, other than the fact you're human. When you feel jealous of other people, just think of what they had to do reach whatever achievement it is you're jealous of, and if that is something you want, ask them how they did... (read in full...)
He's not texting me back... is this him trying to let me know he doesn't fancy me?
Q. There's this guy who I really like. He's one of my friends and I tried to get over my crush on him but didnt succeed. He normally texts me and talks to me for hours on end. We are really close and he pokes me, laughs at my stupid jokes, stares at ...
A. 17 January 2009: Yes, I believe you are correct. I wouldn't avoid him, but I wouldn't go out of my way for him either. Guys are weird, and they may try to convince themselves that their friends that are girls are "just one of the boys," but I think your friend has ... (read in full...)
What do you think is really the problem and should I even consider her request?
Q. I met my ex at a coffee shop where she worked, where I had been going for some time. We dated for 8 months during which time she said it was great - I was her soul mate, best friend, best lover, etc. She dumped me about 6 weeks ago after I had a ...
A. 17 January 2009: It's probably hard for her because she still loves you, and seeing you makes it harder for her to keep her resolve. For whatever reason, her seeing your relapse with alcohol made her realize she could not handle a relationship with someone with ... (read in full...)
Hey aunts... your advice worked!!!!
Q. I am 24 years and in a relatioship of 5 years, due to the advice I got from one of my questions I asked lately concerning wanting to get married. My fiance is now serious about settling down and he's sharing his plans with me about getting married. ...
A. 17 January 2009: Do you want to get married? Are you financially ready? Do you have any other goals you want to meet before being with one person for the rest of your life? Only you can decide what you really want, but those are a few questions you need to answe... (read in full...)
Am I giving my ex the wrong signals?
Q. My ex is always coming around me and staying over, we don't have sex but we do kiss goodbye and hello. What's up with that? ...
A. 17 January 2009: Yes, you're giving the wrong signals. Unless you're still interested in having a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with this person, you shouldn't be kissing him. You should put some distance between the two of you so you have time to figure o... (read in full...)
If you loved someone and it didn't work out, would you always love them but in a differnt way even if it's not romantic any more?
Q. If you loved someone and it didn't work out, would you always love them but in a differnt way even if it's not romantic any more? or would you just care! I'm having a hard time understanding as I'm 7 years younger than my partner, we have a daught...
A. 17 January 2009: I wish he could see how ugly his ex wife is and take it at that and forget about her, but they were together for so long--it sounds like maybe they were high school sweethearts, and young love that lasts into adulthood is bittersweet because it's ... (read in full...)
Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected.
Q. So my baby's daddy left me an broke my heart an he's dating an ugly chubby chick now. I'm 7 months pregnant and can't find a guy to date. Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected. How can I get a boyfriend? ...
A. 17 January 2009: Oh honey... at your age, there aren't going to be a lot of guys who want to be saddled with a pregnant girl. Plus, dating someone at this point is the least of your worries. Focus on your baby and your health. I know it's just natural to want tha... (read in full...)
My ex hates me... but we still have a connection?!? Someone help me figure this out asap!!
Q. Hi! So here's my story I would like to know what other people think. So my 'ex' and I were almost together for a year, we've been broken up for 5 months now. At the start everything was okey...i had another ex still up my butt trying to make ...
A. 17 January 2009: 1- He turns on and off because he doesn't know what he wants
2- He is controlling, and he says those things to keep you under his thumb
3-Stay away from him
4- This goes back to the control thing
I'm sorry to say this, but from the description ... (read in full...)
Unusual period cycle.
Q. I am 13 years old and just started my period in September(2008). It has been really unusual for the past month because it hasn't really cleared up... it's been here for nearly a month and I don't know how to get rid of it. What can I do. Please ...
A. 17 January 2009: Well, you can't get rid of it. You need to see a gynecologist to see if you have any issues with your reproductive system. If not, he/she will be able to suggest a long term solution.... (read in full...)
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