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writes: There's this guy who I really like. He's one of my friends and I tried to get over my crush on him but didnt succeed. He normally texts me and talks to me for hours on end. We are really close and he pokes me, laughs at my stupid jokes, stares at me in my eyes, he has nicknames for me and I held his hand and he was still friends with me but when I try texting him now he doesn't reply and I wanna know is this a sign that he's realised I fancied him and he doesn't want to tell me he doesn't feel the same way or what is he trying to tell me? Please help.
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 Okay, if my answer is ridiculous... when is the last time you saw him in person? That will tell you right off the bat. If he avoids you, I stand by my original answer. If he doesn't, then maybe it was a phone mix up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe hasn't text me back for around 2 weeks. He normally texts back straight away. I held his hand a few months ago so wouldn't it be weird for him to stop speaking to me now?
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (17 January 2009):
 How long has it been since he texted you back? Or saw him in person.
maybe his cell phone has no minutes/broke/lost etc...
the answer above mine sounds ridiculous.
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (17 January 2009):
Yes, I believe you are correct. I wouldn't avoid him, but I wouldn't go out of my way for him either. Guys are weird, and they may try to convince themselves that their friends that are girls are "just one of the boys," but I think your friend has realized that you're not "one of the boys" and he doesn't know how to treat you. He's doing what he can to spare your feelings, and confronting him about it will just really hurt. Guys hate talking about feelings, so they take the easy way out. Sorry...
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