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writes:Is it always the case that when a woman has sex for the 1st time then she should have pain while doing intercourse with her husband...... or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): Oh I hope not. I'm still a virgin, but I guess when the right man comes along, I wouldn't really mind the pain. I think.
--25 year old virgin.
Plus, I think I'd be wet enough for him anyway so it wouldn't hurt too much I hope. I would probably also use some lube.
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (17 January 2009):
 Your vagina is set up to expand and contract. The very first time you have intercourse it does hurt because you're shoving a foreign object in there, and the vagina shapes itself to fit it. Also, you may have still had your hymen intact, which is a membrane barrier. Wait a few days before trying again. Make sure your vagina is well lubricated, either from ky jelly, or your natural moisture, and try to relax!Have fun!
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (17 January 2009):
there will always be some sort of pain. some women have it worse then others. i personally thought my first time really hurt and was really horrid. it was not pleasant at all and all i kept thinking throughout was "i wish he would hurry up and cum" i know i could of asked him to stop, but then pain did ease of a little bit. it did hurt the next day. was kinda like a small sting, nothing major.
all i would say is give it a day or 2 after before you do it again. it does get much nicer the more you do it. also if you have never had anything penetrate you before i suggest you give it ago before you have sex, it does help to loosen up your vaginal entrance.
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