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writes: Hi, I'm very hurt.I've been with my boyfriend for little over two years. In the beginning everything was fantastic. It still is, usually.However he hates my past. I didn't do anything wild. Just normal. But he hates it because this is a small town and some guys I fooled around with, well, he knows who they are.So we usually see each other, watch TV, some movies, etc, but it's just the two of us. He says he's becoming bored with it, but I'm not.He says we can't go out to pubs because we'll probably run into some guy I kissed in my past and that will ruin everything.What can I do? I love him, but this is hurting me, yet I don't want to leave him. Reply to this Question
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 um...controlling much?
What does he care if you two run into someone you kissed??
How will seeing someone you kissed in your past 'ruin everything'?
(ARGHHH That guy you KISSED once is IN OUR VICINITY!! This has Destroyed our Relationship!!!!!!!!)
That's kind of the nature of small towns. This guy is seriously jealous for no reason.
These are BIG FLASHING WARNING SIGNS, babe.
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 He needs to get over it. If he's bored alone with you, he'll be bored in public with you. So what if you run into guys you kissed?? he should be flattered because you're with him. If he can't get over it, dump him.
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reader, BradsBabyGirl +, writes (18 January 2009):
Well my babys dad left me cause of my past so from my expierence the other people in your past don't matter the people who are in your future do though you can't make him stop hating it I know I tried but he either likes you for who you are now or just forget him an I know that would be hard because it happend to me but try to tell him how you feel hopefully he understands an not just get pissy not every guy is a immature deusch like my babys dad hope you fix things : )
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