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Am I just a plaything to her?

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Question - (18 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *aker9114 writes:

okay so i am 17 years old and my girl is 16 it seams like i do everthing for here and she always gets wat she wants i love her alot but it seams like all she wants is a little plaything she gets all pissed about everything i do and she tells me im her world i dont see it as that when ever i ask for her to do something for me she says no and even when i am holding her hand she like trows it away and just walks next to me and when i try to hold her close to me she pushes on me and tells me to let go but as soon as i say something about it she says sorry jk am i just wasting my time or is she just playing with me ???

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A male reader, lovelynightmare United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

lovelynightmare agony auntThat's a bit like my first g/f; she was the leader, I was the tagalong. She'd reprimand me on stupid crap and I was a bit irritated by it.

I'd say to talk it over with her, ask her to make some concessions for you, and if she's too stubborn, yank the leash from her hands and move on.

lovelynightmare

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (18 January 2009):

Griffo agony aunti agree with PunkyPippi.

Hang in there, sometimes its what puts the spice into the relationship and leads onto better things with her.

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A male reader, Mr frosty United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

id just let her go, shes probably not playing around if she acts like that all the time when your being serious, id let her go...

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A female reader, PunkyPippi United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

PunkyPippi agony auntShe's a 16 year old girl. She's probably pushing your buttons to see how devoted you are to her. I use to do it all the time to guys. Sorry, we're a pretty vicious species.

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