A
female
age
30-35,
*ustatina
writes:My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year. Previous to this relationship we were both in heterosexual relationships and both have never been with a girl. I personally had many male sex partners she has had a few. We were best friends and somehow hooked up and took it further. We fell in love. She is the only person I have ever been in love with and I still am. The problem is, the first 3 months of the relationship I cheated on her with men because I wasn't satisfied sexually with her and I still saw her as my best friend even though we were dating. I have hurt her so many times this whole relationship..cheating, lying, being sneaky, etc. and she still took me back because our love is so strong. I really love her so much but she will never ever trust me again because of the things I've done in the past. I do not know what to do. She caught me talking to guys on the computer, flirting, texting, and trying to get attention from men but I only want her. How do I gain her trust back? Will she ever truly trust me? Please help me fix the hole I dug myself into.
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (17 January 2009):
 You need to figure out why you still want attention from men.
No, she will never trust you again, and sorry to say that if she does, she's a fool.
Maybe you're not gay. Maybe you just love your friend a lot. Part of compatibility is sexual attraction and satisfaction. They make equipment for lesbian partners, so saying that you can't get the same satisfaction is crap.
Good luck.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): You don't deserve her forgivness, how has your sex life changed now to make you stop cheating? To me you don't sound gay, just a straight girl trying to play a role. Unless your bisexual and giving bisexual girls a bad name.
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