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*sarahbabiiex
writes: hay :) i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept asusig him of cheeting we then didnt talk for about a year and then he conted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he would love me to consider to go back out with him i thought about it for about week or so and i decied yes beacuse its what i want i love him and i still do but now his in the army and we only just got back and the next day he got sent to cypurs i miss him soo much but i neeeed to learn to trust him i get this thing in my head saying like his making a fool off me he dnt love me even when he says i love u eveyday its not anoth to me i hear about all amry men cheeet plz plz plz help me hes the one i know it! but i will reck it if i dont trust him : ( xxx
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (18 January 2009):
Girl, it's all you then. You need to feel like you deserve him, which you do. If this is an issue you've had your whole life, I would seek counseling. Were you abused or anything like that? I had similar issues growing up- I was abused physically and mentally, and I was screwed up for a long time.Just know that you're wonderful and deserve all of the good that comes to you in life.
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reader, xsarahbabiiex +, writes (18 January 2009):
xsarahbabiiex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhay ermm no he has been like that at all i just cnt face some1 loveing me coz i feel like i dnt desive it even thought i have done nothing wonge x
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (18 January 2009):
I think this is an incident where you need to learn that you're worth the love of a good guy. Unless he's done something specifically to make you think he's cheating, (you've found weird text messages, seen him with other girls, heard a lot of rumor), you shouldn't have anything to worry about. He obviously cares deeply about you to come back after a year and try to make it work.
Don't be so insecure!
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