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writes:Ok, so here's my dilemma: For about the past year or so I've started to like this guy who works at a restaurant I go to quite frequently. I think he (and possibly some of the other employees there) may be catching on that I like him. But I just don't have the confidence to walk up to him and start a conversation, partially because I think it would be weird to do so, and because the other workers there would probably be wondering why I'm talking to him. I really would like to get to know him, but I just don't know how to. The only thing I know about him is his name, lol, which wasn't that hard to find out, since he was wearing a name tag. If anyone can help me out with this, or if you've gone through something like it, can you give me some advice please? Thanks.
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reader, sestephe3 +, writes (18 January 2009):
sestephe3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well I should've explained this better, but it probably wouldn't be that simple to start a conversation with him.....you have to order your food upfront, at the counter. I've noticed though he occasionally takes peoples orders, so he's at a register, but the rest of the time he's either in the back of the restaurant or tending to the drive-thru, lol. And if he would ever take my order, I'd just think it would be kind of weird to start asking him questions. But thanks for the responses!
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (18 January 2009):
 First of all, since you're a paying customer, you may speak to whomever you want to. Ask to be seated in his section so he has to talk to you, and then start a conversation (How long have you worked here? I've seen you the past few times I've been here, and this is my favorite place to eat..what school do you go to?... etc). If he seems into it, give him your number or ask for his.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): me and my friend had the same proberlem we fancied a waiter in a resterant we went to the best thing to do is just look at him when he comes to serve you and smile then look away he will then see that you are frienly and he might talk to you
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