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... Send *hilipgifts a private message | | | *hilipgifts's profile: My name is Philip/Pattrick I guess either name I go by. I'm 21 and I live in Yakima,Wa. I'd rather live in Ireland, I'll probably retire their some day. The one thing Im good at is writing, I give good feed back MOST of the time. Some times its an off day/tired and I cant think, thats like the only time Im off, but not to often though.
I've always worried about people liking me,and wanting them to be in my compony,just for being my self so I'd force my self to be socal.And when that wasn't enough I'd beng after I had ate a lot of food, and lost a lot of waight,until I was happy but my vocal cord our different now that I sing and it must have to do with that.I sound good still,don't get me wrong but its different.I'm passed this point in my life though.
Currently Im going to be a student at YVCC its a local college in town. Im going to get my AA and then transfere to North west university, in Seattle. Need to find a stable job, Im gana find one though, And I may do jury douty, kinda sucks, but its a curve ball in life, you have to take whats given to you even if you dont want it. You know sometimes I think I have my life figured out but life is always changing with doors opening and closing. When I get their, I get there, no need to rush it. But, remember the saying, "Tomrrow is not promissed to us."
My life is like a book but isnt all our lives like a book rich,poor,what ever we all make many of the same mistakes or simalar to it. But thats sometimes how we can give advice ,living it. |
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I moved to be with the man I love, now I have no options
Q. Well, here we go , I am gay who was working flight attendant for one of the best airlines in the world , my life was good , not perfect , but I was me , myself , I was satisfied , but there was something missing which is Love hehe I found the lo...
A. 19 August 2009: I think you should stick it out for your degree at least. Make some friends. If you have time chat with people on here. And put the idea of suicide out of your head. Go for a run, after running for five min. you'll feel happier. Especially if your ... (read in full...)
Is he grooming these men, or should we be more open minded?
Q. i dont really know how to put this , but ill start from the beginning. there is a guy thats about 48 and he is gay - the thing is , my friend and her ex partner met him a year ago, on their first date, this gay guy is really in to his drugs at the ...
A. 17 August 2009: I think that the drug may stimulate the sexual parts in the brain, there are 8 sexual sensations in the brain. Or maybe there just high and bi or gay guys, that want a high and to sleep with the guy.
In any case report him, and let the police deal... (read in full...)
It seems like its his friends or me..and I don't want to be stuck in this situation
Q. I've been seeing a guy for about 8 months now. We ussually get along great. However, we have a small problem: his close childhood friends. His friends mean the world to him and him them, I totally appreciate and respect that. They have known each ...
A. 17 August 2009: I think you both should have to agree to the get to gethers, not just one person. Tell him that you think the partys should have to go through you too. And agree with him on how many times a month you guys can have a party, covering each season ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me in a very mean way, my mom's not accepting that I'm gay and I don't have a job! I feel like my life is falling apart!
Q. Hello, I'm new here and I need help, I'm gay and I have a bunch of problems now, I feel really stressed and lost, first of all my boyfriend broke up with me in a very very mean way, he told me really mean things that destroyed my heart, I really ...
A. 16 August 2009: I would say try to get a job maybe through the school district if you have your deploma or GED.Go for PARA-PRO or substitute. If you're not in school, go to a local community college, its cheap. easily get fafsa, financhal asistance for student ... (read in full...)
He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!
Q. hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other ...
A. 16 August 2009: I think I would call him up and clear the air. Find out if he is gay and if he has any feeling for you. And how deep the feelings are for you. I think he is gay and I think he likes you/ or loves you and thats why he's puting space in between you ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do! My girlfriend is rude and very insensitive to me..Help!
Q. Hey there, My girlfriend is always very rude when I want to talk to her about my feelings or stuff that bothers me. She sometimes makes me very sad or angry, and she doesnt seem to care. Today i had a fight with her about this , and she kept...
A. 17 May 2009: I think she feels incontrol of the r/ship. She feeds off of your emotions, to have a laugh later about. I would dumper soon. Do you want to be in a r/ship with a person who is going to alaways not want to talk about the issues in your's or her ... (read in full...)
Only 20 minutes apart, but she broke up with me due to this 'distance'
Q. me and my long distance gf broke up just over 2 weeks ago becasue sher couldnt handle with the distance, in sempemter am going to university and she going to college but the thing that we will only be 20 mins way from each other could things finally ...
A. 14 May 2009: If both of you would meet at a place in the middle of both locations then it would be ten minutes away, you both would be traveling. She may just want to be free to be able to see other people. Her friends also may have played a part in this ... (read in full...)
She obviously likes me but is throwing mixed feelings around
Q. This is a long one, bare with me....So... I've worked with this girl for 3 years, we work in different departments so haven't gotten many chances to talk in detail, mostly just passing. One day down in the breakroom i get her number, text her later, ...
A. 11 May 2009: I would give her the option to go out with you. Tell her I'm free this week what about you, you want to do something or do you still want to assess the situation. I would text her three times a day, one to say good morning another to say hope your ... (read in full...)
She keeps kissing me, but she has a boyfriend.I can't say no to her.help
Q. My friend and I have admitted to liking eachother a lot. But she has a boyfriend. I had noticed one time a little bit ago that while we were cuddling (we cuddle and rub noses all the time it's just our thing) we had come very close to kissing. Then ...
A. 11 May 2009: Tell her you dont want to hang out anymore at either yours or her house bc you can't comtrol your emotions for her and you don't feel comfortable doing it with the issue with the bf. Tell her that you guys can hang out at school but as for enything ... (read in full...)
How can I skip this boring repetitive play?
Q. I seem to attract alot of attention when i dont try, but when i show an interest..thats when the games begin. so whats the best way to take it from the 'initial interest' and skip this boring repetitive game play? and how can you tell the diff...
A. 11 May 2009: You will know how they are looking at you. This guys hot or this guy is doesn't have a chance. First its eye contact, and a cute smerk or smile from you than they will either show interest or they will give you a look like not a chance. Then you ... (read in full...)
We were together for 4 years, how do I move on?
Q. My ex and i have been broken up for 6 months. Since she broke up with me I took it a lot harder than her. We were together for over 4 years so i knew this was going to be a process. The thing is, it's been six months. i would have thought that ...
A. 11 May 2009: Ofcouce you took it harder the one to brake things off first generaly takes it better than the other person. Don't even weary about what she's up to disconect from her. Loose her phone number and anyway to contact her. Change your number so it ... (read in full...)
He seems to only want sex
Q. hi, I suppose this isn't really a complaint. I'm 18, gay. Apart from a little kissing and fondling with other guys, I never had sex til last year. It was so amazing, I was instantly addicted to this man and we've been doing it now for about 6 ...
A. 11 May 2009: You should tell him that you want to spend a little more social time with him. As for sex, you feel degaded, and you should tell him to ease up on the language during sex. Ask him how he feels about your relationship, if its just mainly about the ... (read in full...)
We are so well suited... But he's not content with JUST me.
Q. I'm a gay man in SF...I'm in a relationship (5) years now with a man who confuses me. I'm 38, he's 53 but the age difference doesn't really matter...in many ways we are well matched. We disagree about sex...I want monogamy, he doesn't. The...
A. 8 May 2009: I would leave him, bc you seem unhappy with him. "Monogamy in greek means mono, one or alone and gamy, marriage or union" I think this game is not going to stop, look at his age, he is a bachalor. I don't think you should wait another five ... (read in full...)
The answer in the face of question
Q. I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Things were awesome at first! But my fears became true, the honeymoon phase ended and now all we seem to do is fight, argue, and not get along. I can't say that the ...
A. 26 April 2009: I think that your spouse has a lot of issues. I think that you should treat your self to stuff instead of always giving him things, new shoes/clothes, now and then. You focus way to much on his needs and wants. He has a hard heart, or others may say ... (read in full...)
How can I help my friend to relax more in public?
Q. Hiya, I'm 16 and I would like to know how I can keep one of my mates relaxed in public places as he get very tense around other people and saying "relax" definitely does not help. For instance we went to see a comedy gig tonight and he was never...
A. 25 March 2009: He may have a people fobea, like when theres a lot of people around him. I had that issue for a while and I would look up and amagine that I was above everyone on the space above me or if I was with my friends I would focus on them. With me though ... (read in full...)
How do you get tested for HIV/AIDS? Is it a urine test? or what?
Q. This is probably going to be a long one but I'm worried! Recently I've been thinking about getting a HIV test but I'm too scared to do it and to tell anyone, I'm not sure if I'm positive or not, I've had sexual intercourse with about 7 people u...
A. 25 March 2009: Its a blood test that I think goes through the hapital b/c they have the equipment for it, but I believe you could go through your doctor but they'll send it to the hospital to run the test. I would say get erected before you put on the condom, ... (read in full...)
I feel that she is using me and will not leave me alone.
Q. Hello, This is not a romantic question, but it is bothering me. Some time ago I met a girl at my current institute (both of us are freshmen) and we became more or less friendly. Some time later, she and her friends invited me to move in with them ...
A. 22 March 2009: I think the proofreading isn't to bad, but to ask you to bring her lunch and having all the same classes together is a bit to much. With the notes I think is fine because some people just don't know how to take notes. She may like you, like want... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I becoming distant and now we're going on spring break
Q. My girl friend and I have been on rough terms lately. We got in a fight b/c of something she did then I needed time to think and didn't talk to her for a while. She said she was drowning that week and she blames me for it b/c she thought of me as ...
A. 18 March 2009: Just assure her that you care about her and you want your relationship to grow, and one of the ways for any relationship to grow is to be onist with eachother.Then teller the things that have been bothering you. Then at the end of the conversation ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I becoming distant and now we're going on spring break
Q. My girl friend and I have been on rough terms lately. We got in a fight b/c of something she did then I needed time to think and didn't talk to her for a while. She said she was drowning that week and she blames me for it b/c she thought of me as ...
A. 14 March 2009: I think the main issue was with her friends,not being able to spend enough time with them. So she put your relationship on hold,for them and her grades.I would consider leaving her,if I were you.She should have put her friends on hold,the high... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with my senior colleague!
Q. I am a 26yr old gay guy. not out n dont intend to be out as it is going to affect a lot of lives adversely. i think i have a deeply infatuated with one of my seniors. i am just too obssessed with him and cant stop thinking about him. i work very...
A. 9 March 2009: I think that in any work place it would be a bad idea for anyone to be together,but you already know that and I think you just really wont the reassurance to do this.Then do it,but (first) make-sure that he feels the same way,it may mean you'll ... (read in full...)
Good boyfriend or a head-fry? How do I keep her interested and happy?
Q. I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 18... we met last September and have been on and off since. When we first got together I wasn't into her as much as she was into me although I was into her a lot; I tried to stop myself falling in love because I wasn't ...
A. 6 March 2009: I believe every relationship diserves work.from both partys.Plan(A)I think first less text to her,and when she says hay why havent you texted me all day,say that you've been bizzy.Play hard to get,maybe it will get her atention.Do it every other ... (read in full...)
Is it right to keep her close to me even though I'm going to break up with her again? The sex is good!
Q. Hi my name is Sam this is the second time i come for addvise on the same relationship. my previouse question was answered with appreciation. Well i,ll start by saying that there is much to say but i will keep it short. I have broken up with my girl ...
A. 6 March 2009: You shouldnt pull someone a long just b/c the sex is good.Brake up with her,and find someone els.You may even wont to move-out afterwards,so that disire isnt there,and dont tell her where you moved to.Go and find someone els,move on and dont do ... (read in full...)
Do actions really speak louder than words when first dating someone?
Q. Do you think its a bad sign if the person you are dating never commits to plans? OK, so I'm not a kid anymore, I'm in the later part of my 20's ... dating should be easier, more straight forward right? Well, I met this girl about a month ag...
A. 4 March 2009: Me personally I dont like to talk on the phone,b/c it takes to much time.Maybe she thinks the same.First question,has she kisses a guy yet,or is she a vergen.Go on a picknick or a walk through the park to see if you can kiss her there.You could ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to wish that my g/f would simply banish her ex from her life?
Q. I need help to stop being an idiot, and would appreciate any insight. I am in love with whom I believe to be (despite a lifetime of DISbelief in the concept) my soulmate. I've been in relationships before, was married for ten years, and throu...
A. 4 March 2009: I think that she just doesn't want to loose that friend ship.It's like a best frend,its nice to know there around and your the one who's marrying her,not the other way around,right.You have this in your hands your the guy, soon to be,not him.If you ... (read in full...)
I've fallen off the wagon and I'm hiding it from my girlfriend
Q. A few years ago i was treated for alcoholism and for that period off time i stopped drinking for a complete year then only having a few beers with friends on a friday night. Everything was fine until last october when with pressures of work and my ...
A. 4 March 2009: My dad was a drinker for a long time around 20 yrs, until we moved about 40 minutes away from town.But he was also indenile about it.I say tell your girlfriend the situation I'm sure she will understand and will wonder why you didn't tell her ... (read in full...)
How can you know if a guy likes you for what you are?
Q. How can you know if a teen age guy likes a girl only for her looks or likes a particular part of her body and nothing more? How can you know if a guy is not interested only in her looks and likes her for what she really is (personality)? How can ...
A. 3 March 2009: I think that guys usually checks out a girl first before they talk to girls,it a natural reaction.If they wont to sleep with you like the first moment you meet them then its obvious,but its hard to say every guy is different some see woman as a one ... (read in full...)
How can you know if a guy likes you for what you are?
Q. How can you know if a teen age guy likes a girl only for her looks or likes a particular part of her body and nothing more? How can you know if a guy is not interested only in her looks and likes her for what she really is (personality)? How can ...
A. 3 March 2009: I think that guys usually checks out a girl first before they talk to girls,it a natural reaction.If they wont to sleep with you like the first moment you meet them then its obvious,but its hard to say every guy is different some see woman as a one ... (read in full...)
Could there be something in the works with this guy?
Q. How do I know if this guy is interested in me or not? He's in one of my lab classes, and we talk and kind of flirt a little bit during lab, but we never hang out or talk outside of class. We barely know each other, but he invited me to this part...
A. 3 March 2009: I think that he likes you,maybe you can ask him do you wont to go out for coffee or a movie some time.But with coffee you'll talk more and interact than just a funny movie.And before you ask think of things you can talk about.I'm even a chatter ... (read in full...)
I would love to call myself gay, but I feel unsure about it...
Q. I am 16 and unsure what to consider myself. I pretty much watch exclusively gay porn, but women occasionally attract me. I feel an attraction to men and not to women in public. I would love to just call myself gay, but for some reason I am unsure. I ...
A. 2 March 2009: There are other words people may call you especially being 16 in high school.The up side is all the guys will know your gay,and some will wont to go steddy with you.But you'll have those guys who are not gay and wont feel comfortable around you in ... (read in full...)
How can you build a relationship without solid trust?
Q. Hi all. I'm writing this here because I don't know who else to ask or talk to. Earlier this month, I found out my boyfriend had been receiving sexually explicit letters from a long-time female friend. Years ago, when I first asked him about ...
A. 1 March 2009: I thik that you should tell him,I trust you to an extent but with the resent letters it rocked our relationship slightly.Tell him that,it makes me question everthing that your doing and I hate to feel this way but I cant just turn off my ... (read in full...)
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