What kind of man would treat a woman who is all about him like this?
Q. Im hoping someone out there can help me thru this or someone reading this has been thru the same thing where I can find out what steps I should take to get over this and move on with my life: I met my fiancé online almost 3 years ago. Withi...
A. 15 April 2015: is there truly such thing as a deadline to change things? the only way to truly see if he has changed is with distance, if you two separate and he continues to be consistent on improving himself then you will know for sure. all this promising y... (read in full...)
I am feeling uncomfortable with my friend's husband
Q. Dear Cupid.. Am feeling uncomfortable with my friend's husband as of late. We are friends for almost 3yrs . before it was all fine but for the past 5 months i just feel awkaward around him. i find him too much focused on me when we meet, ev...
A. 15 April 2015: you are not bein crazy at all, you have tangible reasons to feel the way you do, you do not like his behaviour towards you. there is no reason to second guess yourself.
if he is infact always putting his hands on you, and giving you prolonge... (read in full...)
Can and girl ask a guy out? And how does it impact on the relationship if the girl earns more than the guy?
Q. Straight to the point! should a lady ask a man out? Whats your opinion on the impact on a relationship if a man earns less than the lady? ...
A. 14 April 2015: i think it should be absolutely fine, just by talking to men i understand the majority do not see anything wrong with it, to the contrary they prefer it. of course all men are different and there are bound to be some that do not like it. it is t... (read in full...)
Should I respond or was she giving me the brush off?
Q. Hi, I met a girl nearly a month ago we met at a party and we've been exchanging messages ever since. She has been on holiday and came back to start a new job. I asked if she wanted to meet up again this week and she said sure what time etc. Well ...
A. 14 April 2015: i actually do think new unexpected things are happening in her life and she has no control over it at the moment, give her sometime, with a new job on the line i am sure she feels stressed enough already. be casual and fun about your text and gi... (read in full...)
How can I cope with my bitter and jealous feelings?
Q. I am very happy for a friend of mine-but also jealous. A friend's husband just got an amazing job promotion. They are going to move to another state and he is going to be making a "once in a lifetime" salary. He was already making considerable mon...
A. 14 April 2015: i can totally understand how you feel, and there is nothing i could probably say to convince you that a bit more money isn't going to make you any happier, but whilst you compare yourself to those who have it, you really taking your life for ... (read in full...)
What kind of man would treat a woman who is all about him like this?
Q. Im hoping someone out there can help me thru this or someone reading this has been thru the same thing where I can find out what steps I should take to get over this and move on with my life: I met my fiancé online almost 3 years ago. Withi...
A. 14 April 2015: i don't mean to be rude dear but, why are you with him? so you have feelings for him, i can understand that but at the end of the day you have to think with your head not with your heart, so please explain to me what is so great about this man you ... (read in full...)
How can I set some boundaries for my boyfriend without him getting angry?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and I wondering where is our relationship is at right now. We have been fighting for awhile and we sometimes said thing to each other that we either mean or don't mean.today he ask me if he want ...
A. 14 April 2015: Hi darling i understand you have your right not to want to be sexually active no one should have a say in your sex life but you. but he seems ready, essentially what is happening here is, your fear of losing him is keeping you anxious and it i... (read in full...)
Why is my sister obsessed with facebook?
Q. I know things could be a lot worse but my 'problem' is that my sister is constantly on Facebook. And it irks me. I don't why. She posts pictures and updates about once an hour. She is 35 years old and has three kids (2 step kids) and is pregnant for ...
A. 14 April 2015: this could be a simple case of, this is the only time your sister gets to ''speak'' with adults. From what you have written it does sound like your sister probably spends a lot of time taking care of children, listening to them, giving them tim... (read in full...)
I am feeling uncomfortable with my friend's husband
Q. Dear Cupid.. Am feeling uncomfortable with my friend's husband as of late. We are friends for almost 3yrs . before it was all fine but for the past 5 months i just feel awkaward around him. i find him too much focused on me when we meet, ev...
A. 14 April 2015: you have to tell him , be straightforward, if he gets offended then it is most likely because he was making a pass and feels rejected. If he was just been friendly and you tell him he overstepped the mark, he will tone it down. either way you got to ... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult to meet women on a dating site?
Q. My name is Ryan and I'm wondering why it's so difficult for me to meet a woman from a dating site. I know they are being very careful cause of not knowing me well enough still I don't understand why so many of them are like that Another question I ha...
A. 14 April 2015: unfortunately i think it becomes a fantastic source of attention for a lot of women. so taking in to account that men outnumber women, then take out those women who are only there to get their moral up, those who will naturally become overwhelm... (read in full...)
Concerned about my boyfriends previous anal sex experiences, when this is something I never want to try!
Q. My boyfreind of almost 8 months recently confided in me that he had ONLY anal sex with his ex from 3 years ago on multiple occasions b/c they didn't want to get pregnant. (He was 16 at the time). We have never had penetrative sex yet but have done ...
A. 7 February 2014: Why is he talking about his sexual past to you? Did you asking or did he just bring it up? I know you are young, but there is no need to be so spinless. If he leaved you becaus anal that is a weight lifted of your shoulder because that is the ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend keeps pressuring me to perform oral and I hate it.
Q. I don't know how to say all this without coming out like an asshole but please hear me out. My girlfriend keeps pressuring me to go down on her because she goes down on me but I really don't want to. I've tried it before with several girls ...
A. 7 February 2014: If she won't have sex and you won't have oral sex what are you two doing together? Ignoring your passive aggressive rant border lining in political correctness whiles explaining to us how gross women are, but been careful enough to remind us not t... (read in full...)
Why do all women judge me by my weight and looks?
Q. Why do all women immediately judge me by how overweight and ugly I am and give me disgusted looks? No matter where I go in public women look down upon me. The constant glares female strangers give me is really becoming bothersome. I try and smil...
A. 5 February 2014: this comes from the mentality that people are going to like you as you are, whiles i do believe you deserve dignity and respect, we all gets looks and people looking down on us,if not because you overweight it is because your are attractive either ... (read in full...)
Calling all girls in long term relationships for opinions...
Q. Hi. Please do not make any judgements or assumptions. I simply want opinions from girls in LT relationships. How would you feel if your boyfriend went travelling with a boy mate without inviting you for one month to six months? ...
A. 4 February 2014: my ex whom i dated for 4 years went of gallivanting to Romania! for 4 weeks, it was just him and his best mate, they camped and updated me on their woodland adventures everyday. all whiles i had to endure everyone telling me, how can you let him go, ... (read in full...)
I find I am propping up my boyfriend financially. What should I do?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have being dating for 8 months now. What do I do? I can't afford to give him anymore money:( So my boyfriend is having finical problems at the moment and I've helped him. He works but he doesn't save for a rainy day. He...
A. 3 February 2014: until you are married only invest on things that will benefit you as well. - if you pay for holidays, make sure you are going too. - if you pay for food, make sure you are eating it too. - if you pay for rent make sure you live there too. y... (read in full...)
I feel I need to warn other women on the dating website about this aggressive jerk
Q. I need help dealing with a situation. About 18 months ago I met a guy. He was fine and gentlemanly. On the fourth date, he got quite intimidating and clearly wanted sex. He got lairy. I was scared and intimidated but luckily as he did not have ...
A. 22 November 2013: certain websites have a dating experience report where you can write about users from that website on how the date went. and you can give them marks and explain in detail what did go wrong. other websites have forums where you can talk about diffe... (read in full...)
Does anyone else think it's silly that a lot of chicks still think they're virgins after giving bjs?
Q. I just think it's really silly. I mean, I guess they'd be technical virgins, but to say you're pure after having a d--k in your mouth is just absolutely ridiculous to me. But I've heard A LOT of girls say they're still virgins after. Am I the only ...
A. 21 November 2013: the whole term is silly, i wonder who care out with it, virginity to most people is whether you have experience or not, so technique i can see your point...
how can an experience girl be sexual and still be called a virgin at the same time.
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The little death--a man crying after sex?
Q. I want to ask people about something I recently learnt about called "The Little Death" when a guy cries after sex. Why is this? None of my exes did this. Can someone explain this further?...
A. 26 May 2013: little death is just what french people call the state after a male orgams.
little death is ''le petit mort in french'', it is what happens to the male genitalia after they orgasm, for a moment in time 10 minutes for some hours for others... afte... (read in full...)
My fiance says that if I gain weight, he won't make love to me in the same way! How should I respond?
Q. My fiance has told me he hates fat women. He thinks they are disgusting and have no self control. His mother is heavy and he points to her for his reasoning. He told me, while making love to me, that if I ever gain weight, that he will not make...
A. 23 May 2013: your husband is passive aggressive in the way he communicates, he actually told you he will lower his skills if you gain weight, god forbid you ever developed a thyroid problem ( which a lot of women do as they age ) because i don't think you will ... (read in full...)
BF reacted badly when I mentioned my physical insecurities about sex - should he be so upset, and how can I fix this?
Q. Ok, I need some insight. Without being too graphic, my boyfriend of over a year and a half and I had finished having sex and were lying in bed. Somewhere along the lines of us just talking he said that he really like when I’m on top and in reverse, ...
A. 26 January 2013: A bit of an overreaction if you ask me, supporting those you love takes you further than storming out acting all offended. ok! it might not be true that you are not attractive, but you feel that way, and maybe support you since you are doing al... (read in full...)
My bf wants pics of me should I send them?
Q. Hi Recently my bf asked me to send pics of myself in underwear I love him and trust him and I want to do it... its not I don't feel comfortable with it and he said if I don't want to do it its fine but I don't want him thinking I am some kind...
A. 10 December 2012: I don’t know what is it 15 year olds do this days! Or what is cool or hip!... or why is it you are so eager to photograph yourself wearing underwear and show it off... But We cannot advice you to do that for legal and moral reasons! good luck.... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to be more accepting of my cannabis use? She's gone from being a nice loving woman to a total nag!
Q. I am 28 and have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. I recently made new friends and they have introduced me to smoking cannabis again. This is something I have not done since I was about 18. My girlfriend hates it though and has gone from a nice ...
A. 10 December 2012: she is not trying to change you! you were not doing that when she met her... you are the one who is expecting her to change... she went from a loving woman to a complete nag... you say! Well, you went from an average none smoking guy to a guy who ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my girlfriend to have anal sex with me?
Q. Hi, i need some advice from the ladies. I have a wonderful girlfriend and we love each other very much. I love her to bits and she is super hot. I would like to have anal sex with her, i noticed that when i touch her, or lick her there, it arous...
A. 9 December 2012: Please, please, please, DO not do it while drunk, make sure you both know what you are doing… Plus for what I read from 99% of anal posts you have to concentrate on stimulating her clitoris, other ways there will be no pleasure for her… I cannot a... (read in full...)
My bf wants pics of me should I send them?
Q. Hi Recently my bf asked me to send pics of myself in underwear I love him and trust him and I want to do it... its not I don't feel comfortable with it and he said if I don't want to do it its fine but I don't want him thinking I am some kind...
A. 9 December 2012: is called possession of child pornography, since you are under 16*, you could not send him those sort of pictures if you wanted too without running a high risk!... even if he is your own age.
Don’t do it... (read in full...)
How do users and abusers live with themselves?
Q. Dear Cupid I have a generic question, the abusive boy friends or the ones who use people for their purpose and throw them away like dirt, how do they live with themselves, knowing that they hurt several people. I have a bf I believe soon to ...
A. 8 December 2012: in response to your answer someone said it below! he gained your trust then abused it, but that is not how he sees it, he justifies it to himself by blaming you for your stupidity and trusting him, people like that use code words that only they und... (read in full...)
How can I avoid becoming one of her punching bags at work?
Q. What makes some people fly off the handle so quickly? There is this woman at work. I have heard her get so aggressive so quickly at work. She acts like she has to fight so fiercely over issues that are nothing more than day to day things. So far I ...
A. 8 December 2012: you probably won't be able to escape this... who knows why she does it, some people do it to test your character... so the best you can do is not fear her, if you do! then you will become one more of her victims. like you said she flips over l... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont have sex or go anywhere near my "man parts" when she's on her period.
Q. Is it wrong for me to be extremely frustrated at the fact that my girlfriend won't go anyone near my genitals when she's on her period? We can be hooking up and it will get intense and she'll stop us and tell me she "doesn't want to get too horny, ...
A. 7 December 2012: Stop winging is only 5 days a month...
Concentrate on nurturing her throw it so that it will pass fast smooth and you can both go back to the sex life you both want...
is normal that she be horny during that time of the moth, but the pain may be t... (read in full...)
Would you commit to someone who treated you like this?
Q. Hello -- I've been with a girl (30) for 15 months now. Initially everything was great, but as the months wore on, some issues have came to light. She's pushing hard for commitment; living together, marriage, kids eventually, etc, and is threatening ...
A. 3 December 2012: Seriously, none of us can emphasize how urgent it is you leave this relationship! Your own sanity is in danger. And you know what is worst? You cannot see it right now, you can't! is hard for your to see the scars because they are not there yet! you ... (read in full...)
Would these be deal breakers? Does it suggest I should be calling the wedding off?
Q. My boyfriend, now fiance are planning our wedding and deciding on a wedding date. We have been engaged for one year. Dated for a year prior. I don't know if it is butterflies in my stomach but a few of his behaviors I am starting to ques...
A. 30 November 2012: Did you post asking advice about him taking pictures of women in the beach? Because i remember a question like that a while back? Everyone made it very clear that that is not normal behaviour... is creepy desperate and the fact that his girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Is my behavior my fault, or the fault of the person who caused me to behave this way?
Q. SIMPLE QUESTION: if i tell someone (in this case a family member) not to do or say a certain thing b/c it'll get me really angry, and then they go ahead and say or do what gets me angry anyways, and i blow up and get mad, am i at fault, or ...
A. 29 November 2012: You are not to blame for what you feel, but you are to blame for your reaction... you can be upset yes, but you dont have to blow up, as an adult or child emotions are emotion.
But if you flip and loose it ... well whatever happens next is enti... (read in full...)
Help me to be reasonable and rational about this matter please? My Bf wants me to use Birth Control Pills but I think it's risky.
Q. I have been seeing this guy almost for a year. We are thinking about starting to have a future together soon. We are no longer use condoms every time after we became exclusive and came clean to each other about STD history and all. We sometime...
A. 26 November 2012: i don’t take the pill... i can i already have messed up hormones... i now at least 5 women who have being affected by the birth control pill in a few different ways!
one of them was quiet funny!... my best friend did not get a single period for the ... (read in full...)
With holding of sex
Q. why is it when my girlfiend with holds sex its okay but when i do she gets mad about it?...
A. 25 November 2012: are you guys doing it on purpose? to piss each other off?... i can’t ask your girlfriend, but are you? do you do this to control her or are you genuinely just not in the mood? because that is not withholding...
your question races questions!... (read in full...)
Ladies only please: My partner makes stupid remarks about age and offends alot of our customers. Am I just being too sensitive?
Q. I m pissed. Ladies opinions please, as I understood that in this question men are no help, sorry. My business partner who is a guy makes stupid in my eyes comments and asked out customers questions that simply inappropriate. For example, 2 older w...
A. 22 November 2012: i am only 24 and i already get annoyed about the age comment, is scrutinizing... i most of the time get told i look younger which is fine by me. but there is the occasionally I get told that I infect look older, i don’t know what glass are they ... (read in full...)
Debate: GIrls love being treated like dirt!
Q. Girls are weird. Whether u all admit it or not. Most my school and teen years I used to see guys being docks and girls getting hurt and complaining. I always wondered why they didn't go out with nice guys like me who would not hurt them. F...
A. 16 November 2012: i will never hurt them...! Life is not that black and white, you never think you are going to be a jerk or a bitch to someone you like until you are, and then you realise that there are more sides to you than you do care to admit. Unfortunately ... (read in full...)
GIrls: Do you like hairy guys?
Q. Hi This question is for mostly for girls. Do you find attractive "hairy men"(hope you understand), who has hair in chest,back and legs,or maybe you will dump them.Also do you think guys with classic beard are attractive, even I think this depen...
A. 16 November 2012: I don't like a hairy back... but the rest of your body is fine, chest and bits since we have to operate around there when getting sexual you might want to trim and keep under control, don’t let it get bushy but by all means don’t get rid of it! f... (read in full...)
All the girls go for my good looking friend instead of me!
Q. A friend of mine is the total opposite of me. He is 6'2 with blond hair and has stunning looks and he works out. I'm 5'8, work out and play sports, but don't look stunning like he does. I've been told I am handsome by older family and that is it. ...
A. 16 November 2012: you keep saying he is soo much better than you, yet he sleeps with women he doesn’t respect, talks smack about them behind their back and he is generally undesirable. Basically you respect the fact that he can be a douche bag and perhaps you feel... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and broke up with baby's dad. He says he doesn't want me to breast feed the baby! Should I take legal advise re access? It was amicable up until this ....
Q. Im 29 weeks pregnant with my first child. Me and the babys father have separated due to him being unfaithful (not the issue here tho). We are both trying to be as involved as we can, he has been to all scans and classes and he is going to be prese...
A. 16 November 2012: I know you will probably find a million facts on the internet so I don’t need to write a long extensive comment about how breastfeeding is better… but stick to your guns. It is absolutely the way it was intended, you only breastfeed your kids for ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with people these days? They say I look like some-one that I don't look like.
Q. people say i look like sheldon's girlfriend from the big bang theory. i do have thick stright hair and glasses but i don't think i look as ugly as her, i have long straight hair (some people say it looks silky) i have some reading glasses, no ...
A. 16 November 2012: that does not necessarily mean you look exactly like her, but rather that your style reminds them of her... everyone says my best friend looks like brad pit... and he takes it as a complement, and in a way i think he does, but nowhere near as ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with my long distance B/f anymore, I feel he's a liar and I don't want to relocate for him. What should I do?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship, it's been long distance for 3 months but the whole relationship has been 5 months. My boyfriend never really texts me like he used to, he's changed and acts more like in a friend who's a girl. He won't reply back ...
A. 9 November 2012: i am glad you realised it on time, if his mood is like this now he doesn't have you quiet yet, can you imagine how is he gone treat you when he does have you? When you are trapped on his nest?
wise girl, not don’t let his emotional blackmail stop... (read in full...)
Is she only giving me BJ's because she loves me?
Q. Dear Aunts: My girlfriend and i have been together for 5 months. I love to have bj's from her and it turns me so much on when i finish in her mouth,i remain hard and makes me want to f*** her hard right away. We love each other very much, She s...
A. 8 November 2012: Sounds like she is doing the famous deep throat, that is when it goes to far in and it triggers your gaging reflects, it also makes this mucus like flame come out and project everywhere!!! is disgusting really... plus there is no way you can look ... (read in full...)
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