How should I express myself?
Q. I'm a heterosexual straight guy who loves women and everything associated with them but lately there has been a guy who has me interested. we are best friends and we talk all the time( aim ) etc we go to the same school and we trust each other. im ...
A. 14 February 2010: I would hold off making any kind of move. Perhaps make him aware of how easy you find he is to talk with and that you feel you could trust him should you have any private issues to express in the future. Perhaps get him to open up about his past rel... (read in full...)
My penis was wet after having sex with her without a condom, will she get pregnant?
Q. hi...i am 16 and my girlfriend has juz turned 18 last month.... today when i was at home with her fooling around.....i put my penis ingide her vegina juz 4 times without a condom....well i wasnt cuming when i had sex with her but my penis was ...
A. 11 January 2010: Thanks for updating us. Please remember though it's not just the female who should use protection, use a condom next time and everytime
Best wishes ... (read in full...)
Should I say yes and go out with him?
Q. Hi im a 16 year old boy from england and i recently gor asked out by another boy. He is gay, i am not. It started with a talk on MSN and he asked me if i would go out with him i said no, but then i kept on thinking that gay sex might be ok and i sh...
A. 9 January 2010: 1) If your asking, then you already have doubts, trust your own mind 2) You haven't mentioned if you have already met him, if not then please ensure to meet in a public place and make sure someone you trust knows the detals 3) Yes Rachael is right... (read in full...)
Will it last???
Q. dear cupid, im in a relationship with this guy but he is not over his ex.they have been separated for a year and we have been dating for 8.he says he loves me and wants to be with me as i feel the same for him. but this whole hes not over hi...
A. 8 January 2010: I would be up front and honest and say to him 'look l feel you are not over your ex, l think you need time and space to decide, its not fair on either of us at the moment, so l suggest we go our seperate ways and hopefully when your ready we may be ... (read in full...)
How can I satisfy my wife?
Q. I have multiple sclerosis and i cannot achieve an erection. I want to share the enjoyment my wife would have with a man who can provde her with an erect penis. We play and touch but nothing replaces an erection. Any advice?...
A. 8 January 2010: Hi l have copied and pasted the following from www.mssociety.org.uk as l have no knowledge of MS but was touched by your question.
Approximately 70 per cent of men with MS experience erectile problems, although these generally start some years af... (read in full...)
My first blowjob???
Q. I'm sixteen and a guy I know at school has offered to give me my first blowjob. What are the potential consequences of having a blowjob both emotional and physical? Is it really that big a deal?...
A. 7 January 2010: I would say that you have to be in the correct emotional state of mind prior to and during the oral sex otherwise it won't be like your no doubt hoping. What do you know about this lad, is their history between you. Can you trust him, is he using... (read in full...)
How can I get my 7 year old to stay in bed and sleep???
Q. Hi i know this is a site about relationships, and this problem is about my relationship with my 7 year old daughter in a round about way. I'm at the end of my tether with her at bed time, for the first few years she went to bed with no trouble, but ...
A. 6 January 2010: I think Caringguy and Honeypie has covered most of it. I would just add that if you are happy to obtain 3rd party help consider asking to speak to the school nurse attached to your daughters school, they are a valuable source of help and support ... (read in full...)
My penis was wet after having sex with her without a condom, will she get pregnant?
Q. hi...i am 16 and my girlfriend has juz turned 18 last month.... today when i was at home with her fooling around.....i put my penis ingide her vegina juz 4 times without a condom....well i wasnt cuming when i had sex with her but my penis was ...
A. 6 January 2010: If you really don't know the basics you really shouldn't be having intercourse let alone unprotected. Remember it is possible for sperm to 'leak out' resulting in pregnancy, just because you may not 'cum' as you understand it, dont mean she may not ... (read in full...)
How can I accept that I might be gay? Or should I continue to try and hide my sexuality?
Q. Greetings from an Asian teenager.. Few questions before I begin to tell y'all my lifestyle.. #1 - Am I Gay? (even tho I may already know what I am) #2 - Should I continue being gay? #3 - How can I accept what I am? #4 - Where could I go...
A. 6 January 2010: I just really have one main comment at this time.....lose the term 'What l am' its not what, its 'who' If you are Bi/Gay etc you are still a human being and l'm sorry in my opinion it don't mean a thing about what the bible states about hom... (read in full...)
Why is he telling everyone about us?
Q. I am in a relationship with my best friend I am gay and he is Bi curious . All my friends know i am gay and he said i am his first guy. He always says to me i don't know how much he loves me. But anyway i just found out that he is telling my friends ...
A. 5 January 2010: Sorry but l really not understanding what your asking. Not sure if it is just me, please clarify ... (read in full...)
Text Message Communication Problem - Opinions Needed
Q. Hi, I wonder if someone can read through this series of text messages and just give your unbiased opinion along the way of who is right and who is wrong or if we're both wrong (I know there is no right or wrong, but we just need someone to media...
A. 4 January 2010: Life is to short to continue this petty agrument, as others has said....move on .... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to fancy my teacher, especially since he is the same sex and a lot older?
Q. I am a 13 year old boy. In school, my P.E teacher (who is in his twenties...or thirties) is a close family friend. He comes round my house often and we all get along really well. He favours me over the other boys and he treats me like a really good ...
A. 4 January 2010: As far as l see it, having a crush on the guy is nothing to uncommon however you have to face the harsh fact that nothing will ever come of it not only due to the ages but he has so much to lose i.e. career if he did become involved with a person ... (read in full...)
Does helping each other masturbate make us gay?
Q. My friend says that helping each other masturabate is gay. Is this true? Please help...
A. 4 January 2010: Reading between the lines l would say that your friend feels he is gay and is placing the seed of thought into your mind that you are gay too, or his own satisfaction l reckon.
Main thing to remember though, as long as you are comfortable with it ... (read in full...)
Telling people you're gay
Q. im 17 gay male. i think i should tell my friends beacuse its getting hard to keep in. but how do you tell people you have known for 10 years your gay?...
A. 4 January 2010: Perhaps first of all tell a couple of people who you are pretty sure who won't be TOO shocked as this will give you the confidence to tell others, also news spread, so there must be at least one 'gossip' in your circle of friends who will do it for ... (read in full...)
After this last week he has scared me a little, should I stay with him and get married or leave?
Q. Dear Cupid I am involved in a gay relationship with my best friend. He is married but now separated. We have been together about 1year and 5 months. We have never had sex as yet but we do sleep together in the same bed when I go spend the night ...
A. 3 January 2010: I would second Shania's very good answer (Rated your answer Shania as it is clear and concise)... (read in full...)
Will I ever be able to have a committed relationship the way I feel about sex?
Q. I am a masculine gay young man, but I fear that my sexuality is very *selfish*. I enjoy having anal sex with other men and receiving blow jobs, but I find being on the receiving end of anal or giving blow jobs utterly repugnant and a total turn off. ...
A. 3 January 2010: I feel you are being too hard on yourself, l'm sure there are loads of guys out there who prefer to be submissive. To enable you to obtain your dream of having a committed relationships is to be open and honest with any potential partners from the ... (read in full...)
If I'm bi... can he?
Q. i am a straight guy with bi tendancys... does that make me completly bi? i have made love to both man and woman and like it equaly. so why is it when i kik it with one of my guy friends i feel a strong pull twords this person then nrmal?? he is a ...
A. 31 December 2009: Once again someone who feels the need to label themselves.
If you are happy and comfortable then thats ok, you are who you are but be sure to use protection, look after your health
Don't put extra stress in your life by trying to label yourse... (read in full...)
Am I right? Can this guy really be gay or bi?
Q. Here's the story a little bit better explained. Two fridays ago, we were placed in groups and tasked the writing of Christmas cards to a chosen person. Luckily I was paired with him. During this time, he once again looked into my eyes and said ...
A. 31 December 2009: To be honest l'm a little confused as to your posting is really saying/asking.
I would say let this lad make the moves towards you, he knows about your sexuality and if he is interested in you he will make it very clear
Best wishes... (read in full...)
I think he might feel the same way, but not sure?
Q. im still very much in love with my first. by my first i mean the guy i lost my virginity to. it happened in the summer 19 days after my birthday. after our experience we hit it off very well and i was in high hopes that we could end up in a ...
A. 31 December 2009: I feel you need to ask him to be honest with you (and himself) by asking him if he feels the two of you can resume a relationship as partners. That way you will no where you stand. Be prepared for a 'No' but do consider remaining friends with this ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with twin brothers
Q. okay...so listen please, i am 15, and i am practically crazy over these twins. They are my age and i have known them since pre-kindergarten, or since i was four. so one of them is absolutely crazy over me and we are always looking for chances ...
A. 31 December 2009: Sorry to say but you are setting yourself up for failure. Stick to the twin you already have a closeness with,and make it clear to the other twin your not interested anymore. Otherwise your only other option would be to finsh with both twins ... (read in full...)
Lied about my age .. again :(
Q. Help :( I have always had a problem with revealing my true age, I guess it relates back to primary and high school days where I was bullied and I guess I have had a "make up for lost time" kind of attitude towards life. I am currently 26 and...
A. 30 December 2009: Only one true way this can be resolved, you have to tell him and tell him exactly what your you have told us i.e. your reasons. You are only talking 3 years, not 10+. Hopefully he will be understanding, and please from this point on be truthful ... (read in full...)
Is it alright for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old??
Q. Is it ok for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old? ...
A. 30 December 2009: Cant see any legal issue as long as your partner is not in an employment that is considered to be in a posistion of trust i.e. Teacher, Social Worker, PCSO etc etc
Best wishes... (read in full...)
I'm really confused about my sexual feelings
Q. hi im 17 year old male and im confused about my sexuality. i think i like boys, when i masterbate i think of them and i watch gay porn. ive been reading other questions and they seem to say that this dosent always mean your gay. ive been out wi...
A. 30 December 2009: Why are you trying to label yourself. You are you, your sexuality will work itself out given time. Try not to read into things too much. Mutal masterbation is more common than you think and this doesn't make you gay, nor does watching str8/gay ... (read in full...)
Abusive brother and drinking problems...
Q. I dont like having ACCIDENTS, spent 6 hours in A and E.Dislocated my shoulder told people i fell over. A bit os laughing gas and then a morphane injection and my shoulder was back in place but at the time i was in agony. Doctors refused to put me to ...
A. 26 December 2009: I hope you come back to see the responses here. I would urge you to contact Childline 0800 1111 (free from a phone box)and chat to someone about what is happening to you right now, no one is going to force you in doing anything right now but ... (read in full...)
Can sperm on clothes make you pregnant?
Q. Here`s the thing... I`m virgin and last night I had a wonderful time with my boyfriend, but I`m wondering; can girl be pregnant if guy ejaculate in his pants and she sits close on him? Can the sperme go trough clothes and so on? I know this is a p...
A. 25 December 2009: I'm going to be a little unkind here, but l mean it with good intentions.
If you have to ask a question like that, are you really ready for sexual relationships
Best wishes... (read in full...)
Everything in life seems against me right now
Q. Look I don't know why but I always find myself depressed. I lost all my friends. My family is a broken one in which I have no one to relate to. My school work is terrible at this rate i don't see myself succeeding much in life. I'm also gay it's all ...
A. 25 December 2009: Agee agree with both previous posters. Work hard on improving your school work so you will hopefully be in a better position to move away and on to better things when the time is right in the future... (read in full...)
He got me to agree to threesomes but it's so hurtful, now he's having sex with other men
Q. I am a gay man and have been in a relationship now with my partner for 10 months. We have so many things in common and he is both very caring and loving. We came to a point where he wanted to have threesomes and at first I was okay with this and ...
A. 25 December 2009: Firstly l feel Uncle Phils contribrution to the subject should not have made it through morderation. Using the word poofter is disrespectful and not all gay men catch AIDS.
Back to the OP.....l agree with the other comments, your partner dont car... (read in full...)
Confusion about masturbation
Q. Well, im a 16 male and i masturbate quite a lot maybe evan 3 - 5 times a day and its kind of like a habbit to me, for some reason im getting really horny really easily but then sometimes when im horny i wont get an erection but i will masturbate ...
A. 24 December 2009: Masturbation in its self is ok and 'normal' however as you are doing it so often you may find that reaching climax during intercourse will be a struggle as your penis will be used to the grip of your hand rather that than of your partners body, if ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gives horrible oral, but is more than happy to give it, how can I make her better at it?
Q. I'm with a girl who I love a lot, and things are fantastic... to a point. When I give her oral sex, she loves it, moaning and grabbing and clawing... all the things I could imagine are good signs. But when she goes down on me (she is very willing to ...
A. 24 December 2009: Sounds odd but l wonder if giving her a demo on her thumb would be any good.....oh that does sound odd.
Best Wishes ... (read in full...)
I watched porn the other day, is that okay and normal?
Q. Okay so I'm 14, and a couple days ago I watched porn with one of my best friends. I liked it a lot and everything, but I was afraid her parents would catch us. Anyways, is it okay and normal for me to do that? ...
A. 24 December 2009: I feel l must add that in my opinion that the intercourse usually seen in porn movies is not reflective of sensual intercourse between two people when in a loving relationship. Just my opinion of course
Best Wishes ... (read in full...)
Both my friend and I fancy him, but he sends mixed messages
Q. Well tbh I need some advice. Basically what is going on is that I have liked this boy since I first started secondary school with him and he asked me out frequently over the years but I always turned him down because I thought I would only get my ...
A. 24 December 2009: I would put all your cards on the table and be honest with him. Let him know that yes you fancy him, always have and regret not telling him sooner, however you are now aware that your friend is hoping to date him and that there is no way you want ... (read in full...)
Hi everyone, I really need advice on how to convince my boss to make my temp job permanent.
Q. hi there everyone i a currently working at my local supermarket as a christmas temp and i really want a permanent job on the department that iam working on and i am asking if anybody could give me any tips on what i could do to make my managers...
A. 23 December 2009: I feel l can't give any better advice than you have had already, just want to wish you luck with securing full time employment in the future... (read in full...)
She thinks she loves me but we've never met and I'm just not feeling it.
Q. There's this girl I'm friends with. We've been friends for a while now but never met because she lives in a different country from me. We talk on the phone alot and have become really close. She tells me that she loves me, I'm the first boy to treat ...
A. 22 December 2009: I would really consider where this friendship is going, because that l feel is all it is, a friendship. Just what is the likelyhood that you will actually meet. Are you being fair to each other?
Also l don't mean to stereo type here, but l wond... (read in full...)
My girfriend cheated on me and I have feelings of hatred, but still love her!
Q. my gf had oral sex with her friend in a cinema theatre and gave him a *******....she said it happened because she was too desperate and was out of her mind at that time...she feels terribly guilty now and regrets it and has cut all communication ...
A. 20 December 2009: I consider oral sex to be on of the most intimate sexual pleasures between partners, therefore if my partner cheated in that particular fashion there is no way l would continue the relationship. Best wishes... (read in full...)
She's a party girl and I found messages saying I was boring
Q. 32 yr old male here...long story short..been with a girl 9 mo now and i love her deeply..we have been having some issues about her liking to go out alot more than i do and where we are at in our relationship. i recently found an e-mail from her to ...
A. 20 December 2009: l would say that be not contacting you after 3 days she is telling you its over. It appears that your were not compatible in respect of interests together. I would consider sending her a letter saying sory for accessing her emails and advising her ... (read in full...)
Should I bring it up again? I told him I liked him but no response.
Q. anyway about a month ago i told this guy in one of my classes i have a crush on him.he never answered me he just walked away. he still talks to me and all but i dont know if i should bring up what i said and if i do so how. should i live it alone ...
A. 19 December 2009: This is a difficult one really
1, If your sure he heard you l would leave it alone
2, He may have heard you but is nervous to bring it up, make a move etc
I would suggest if you can to try and arrange a trip bowling, cinema etc with other fr... (read in full...)
How should I surprise him when he gets home?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend now for 2 and half years, im sitting in alone tonite as hes gone out with all his lad mates, a lads night out... im totally ok with it, we often have our own night, him with the lads, and me with the girls, as well as out ...
A. 19 December 2009: I find your problem slightly confusing. You want him home etc because you fancy a cosy night etc, however you can't arrange anything for when he returns as you have to be up very early, so if he did come home just how long would you be having a ... (read in full...)
We built our relationship up so high only to be knocked down again. What can I do to get him back by my side again?
Q. Well me and my best mate are gay 14 year olds, we have been going out for about a year. I think he's lost interest in me for our other mate we hang out with. He's bin spending a lot of time with him now and doesn't pay any attension to me any more. ...
A. 19 December 2009: As the last replier rightly said, l doubt if a realtionship would last forever at the age of 14yrs, in fact at any age, as hard as it seems you need to accept it may be over, yes ask him how he feels the relationship is going.....but please please ... (read in full...)
I'm always in a sexual mood!
Q. Alright so im a guy and im 15. And i'm always in a sexual mood now a days.And i always find myself horny, or aroused,sometime for no reason at all. Is it normal to be horny all the time? I mean i guess i would say im a sexual person, siunce im ...
A. 19 December 2009: Yes it can be and is normal to be sexually aroused alot, seeing as your of young age also. You have alot going on for you at the moment so l would suggest plucking up the courage to call Childline (your too old you know) they can help you perhaps ... (read in full...)
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