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I think he might feel the same way, but not sure?

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Question - (31 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *at1trippy writes:

im still very much in love with my first. by my first i mean the guy i lost my virginity to. it happened in the summer 19 days after my birthday. after our experience we hit it off very well and i was in high hopes that we could end up in a relationship, but then along came his along ex and ruined it. hes bi so after his ex ruined it he decided to stop going out with guys indefinitely. we continued talking for another month as if we were in a relationship then slowly began losing contact. then one day i reestablished it. now we talk frequently and i feel as though we never stopped talking. i care about him a lot and i still wish for a future with him. i have never met a guy who i have felt so connected with. hes the nigh perfect guy for me! i feel that maybe he might feel the same way but im not sure. what is the answer?

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A male reader, dat1trippy United States +, writes (2 September 2010):

dat1trippy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

An update on this question: we got back together for a bit and then he went back to his ways again. sigh....

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A male reader, dat1trippy United States +, writes (31 May 2010):

dat1trippy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Back when I first asked this question, I found out he still liked me and I was happy. But things have changed. I no longer talk to him. He has changed and has taken a path I can't follow. I will forever remember him, for he was my first.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (31 December 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntYou'll never know for sure until you ask him. Let us know how it turns out!

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A male reader, paulofessex United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2009):

paulofessex agony auntI feel you need to ask him to be honest with you (and himself) by asking him if he feels the two of you can resume a relationship as partners. That way you will no where you stand. Be prepared for a 'No' but do consider remaining friends with this guy

You say he is the perfect guy for you, well he is not the only guy out there

Best wishes

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