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*oribabee
writes:okay...so listen please, i am 15, and i am practically crazy over these twins. They are my age and i have known them since pre-kindergarten, or since i was four. so one of them is absolutely crazy over me and we are always looking for chances to see each other. we have gone really far, really the only thing we havent done is sex. But the other twin, i am crazy over him too, is always flirting with me and whenever we are alone we makeout,touchy feely, you know the routine, but whenever someone asks him or when i ask him who he likes he says this girl diana who i used to be friends with. he never sees her and always sees me. but i dont understand why he does all of this stuff with me if he doesnt like me?? do you think he likes me and is hiding it or just using me ?
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reader, Dan_Dan  +, writes (31 December 2009):
Drop both of them.. yeah you have known them for all those years but im sure if they found out you liked both.. i think you would end up loosing them all together. And as for 1 of the twin u was talkin about.. he is using you...your a year younger than me... and ive realized that when guys don't tell people they like you and they are doing stuff with you than its ovious that they are using you. Move on you can do better girl ;)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 December 2009):
He's using you. You wouldn't feel too good if someone was doing this to you and your sister. I think you need to focus on yourself for now.
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reader, unique899 +, writes (31 December 2009):
 using you to just touch he wouldve said he liked you when people ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2009): i don;t think the other twin likes you, and gosh i hope for your sake that the other twin who genuinely likes you know you're making out with his brother! Xx
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reader, JaneMarie +, writes (31 December 2009):
Could the one twin who wont admit he likes you be jealous of his brother? He may just see how far he can get with you. IF you aren't crazy about the one twin you really do everything with, stop! Both of you will end up getting hurt. Plus, I wouldn't recommend getting involved with more than one guy at a time, especially not since they are brothers. Wait until you find someone you like who likes you back and is able to admit it.
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reader, paulofessex +, writes (31 December 2009):
 Sorry to say but you are setting yourself up for failure. Stick to the twin you already have a closeness with,and make it clear to the other twin your not interested anymore. Otherwise your only other option would be to finsh with both twins altogether
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reader, fluffyblueslippers  +, writes (31 December 2009):
Dear toribabee,
In my most honest opinion? At 15...most probably the second option. I mean, if he actually likes you, why hide it? It's not like you rejected him or anything.
Also, I wouldn't advise you to get used to liking and fooling around with 2 guys at one go. Yes, you're 15, you're not married or anything, but it's not going to be something easy to break out of even when you're 25, and that would probably mean a lot of problems in your future relationships. Consider making a choice.
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