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writes:Okay so I'm 14, and a couple days ago I watched porn with one of my best friends. I liked it a lot and everything, but I was afraid her parents would catch us. Anyways, is it okay and normal for me to do that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): Remember that what you saw is almost certainly NOT representative of actual, real-people sex. Porn is intended for adults who know better--you're still young yet. DON'T let the stuff you see online (or wherever) distort your impression of what lovemaking really is.
Like they say on TV: "Don't try this at home!"
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Its perfectly normal as long as you dont get caught.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): I consider it normal because me and some other people i know have our own porn stash. but just don't let it get to your head and all that because sex is not usually like that. trust me i know... I lost my virginity at 13 and my girlfriend is going to be having a baby soon( and her parents are really pissed off) and it is not always a very pleasant feeling the first time for a couple because it can be quite awkward the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): It is fine for you to be curious and look at porn but remember there's an age limit on porn, and depending how you saw it, you can easily be caught.
For example if you looked at it on a computer then the data will be stored in the history and cache of the browser you used and is easy to find.
Take it from someone who knows, most porn is completely unrealistic, it's acting not reality, and in most of it women are degraded for the pleasure of men which are by far the largest consumers of porn. As long as you can maintain a grasp of this concept you'll be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): People do watch it but i personally dont. Just stay safe and make sure it doesnt ruin any future relationships as, believe me, that can happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): hi, well i think theres no problem
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reader, paulofessex  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 I feel l must add that in my opinion that the intercourse usually seen in porn movies is not reflective of sensual intercourse between two people when in a loving relationship. Just my opinion of course
Best Wishes
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (23 December 2009):
 Yeah sure :) just dont open any links anyone sends you of "porn". Oh god, my life will never be the same again o.o
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reader, JustMex +, writes (23 December 2009):
 Yep perfectly normal!
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reader, LadyLauren +, writes (23 December 2009):
 To be honest, lots of people watch porn, men and women, and it is seen as a natural thing. I don't personally watch it, but i have in the past with friends once or twice. I wouldn't be afraid your not normal because of this, as so many people watch it everyday. It's an everyday thing for most people. Don't stress :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 December 2009):
Perfectly. Just be careful what you watch, and be careful it doesn't turn into an addiction. Always be safe.
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