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Does helping each other masturbate make us gay?

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Question - (4 January 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My friend says that helping each other masturabate is gay. Is this true? Please help

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A male reader, DeadEyeDick United States +, writes (7 January 2010):

DeadEyeDick agony auntNobody has actually got to the crux of the question!you used the term,"helping" this could point to many different actions in this spectrum, were you helping each other, because one of you is an amputee? was one of you holding the blinds up to watch for people coming home? so the other one was trying to help you finish off? there are many different scenarios that could tie into "helping someone masterbate" but if you guys got naked and jacked each other off, that is gay! so why does it matter? are you scared of being gay or something? if you get off jacking and being jacked, and you like it, your gay, big deal, i like to help girls masturbate! that makes me straight! whats the difference? preference!

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A female reader, EPIC United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

it is kinda gay ... there's two cocks ... kinda gay not in a bad what do what you want but you got to admit what you want is ...kinda gay

PS do you think about girls... or your friend?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010):

you are giving sexual pleasure to another male. this an act of homosexuality.

your actions we're in fact "gay", but as for yourself... that's for you to decide.

personally i wouldn't have done what you did :P

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010):

It's certainly a big step in the right direction.

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A male reader, Eh dont ask United States +, writes (5 January 2010):

Eh dont ask agony auntOne of you might be gay I thinks. Normal straight boys usually don't jack each other off. :P. I personally used to do it with my close friends when we were in Sixth Grade, and now I'm Gay. Sooo yeah.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

ive done it and really enjoyed it and now im gay... so i think it depends on how much you liked doing it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

soon567-Ok well I am shure many people have done it. Thanks for your input though.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Is there a name for this action? (street or scienitfic)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks. (soon567-haha not funny)

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A male reader, paulofessex United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2010):

paulofessex agony auntReading between the lines l would say that your friend feels he is gay and is placing the seed of thought into your mind that you are gay too, or his own satisfaction l reckon.

Main thing to remember though, as long as you are comfortable with it and not being forced into doing what your doing then it is pretty harmless

Best wishes

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A male reader, DeadEyeDick United States +, writes (4 January 2010):

DeadEyeDick agony auntLOL this is great, hey bro, Id say your fine, but if you start getting the urge to have him put it in your butt, that is gay, or if you perform fellatio on each other, what your doing now, is teetering on the edge of gay and straight!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010):

Well, thats really up to you. Are you gay? Is it the other guy that turns you on in the first place? Teen boys masturbating with friends is commen and normal but actually doing the work for them is something else. No-one can say whether it's gay or not, the question is, are the people doing it gay?

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A male reader, fullvee United States +, writes (4 January 2010):

Not gay, just experimenting at your age. As long as you are both within three years of each other, you are just growing up and trying out your sexuality. If your friend is much older (3 or more years), that is statutory rape and you should run run run to an adult.

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