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*mikem2
writes:i am a straight guy with bi tendancys... does that make me completly bi? i have made love to both man and woman and like it equaly. so why is it when i kik it with one of my guy friends i feel a strong pull twords this person then nrmal?? he is a realy close friend to me.. we go places together and even pik up chiks ( no afence to women ) aswell. im not sure if he is bisexual or not but from my experience anything is possible.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (12 January 2010):
 I would say that if you enjoy it equally you are bi. As for your feelings for the (male) person... sounds like it's just an extension of your strong friendship. Nothing to feel bad about. Remember, MANY bi people have extended - even monogamous, relationships with persons of the same sex.
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reader, paulofessex  +, writes (31 December 2009):
 Once again someone who feels the need to label themselves.
If you are happy and comfortable then thats ok, you are who you are but be sure to use protection, look after your health
Don't put extra stress in your life by trying to label yourself
Best wishes
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (31 December 2009):
 YOu made nasty with a guy so your Bi
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (31 December 2009):
I think you need to relax and not try to establish "how bi you are"... If you think about it, there's straight and gay (think of it as 100% and 0%)... if you're equally attracted to men and women you're at 50%... but your reality is likely to be that you're attracted to PEOPLE and not sexes... you may meet a woman that you're 100% head over heals for, and 100 more that don't interest you at all.... and a guy that lights your fire, and another 100 don't make a dent...You're going to probably see the attractions swing throughout your life, and in fact could end up at one end of the spectrum. I suspect that for the next 5 or 6 years you're going to be getting a better understanding...Strong feelings for one person is certainly normal, only you can figure out if there's a safe way to proceed.
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