Which guy is playing me and which guy likes me?

Tagged as: Dating, Teenage, Trust issues

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Question - (30 September 2008)

3 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2008)

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I just want to know which guy is in playing or likes me. I would like to have a male point of view but females can too. The thing is with these guys I don't even flirt with any of them, I just act like myself, and I am shy,but generally people say I'm real nice, or a sweetheart,etc, cause I have never been in trouble and I am not one of those loud talking female, more of the quiet type.

Guy Number 1-I work with him, he is a little touch feely, and he's funny. He keeps telling people that we are going to get marry and have kids, I deny it, then he flirt with my cousin because I wasn't paying him any attention him after we had arguemnet as to why I don't pay attention to him. I already told him I don't like him(thats the first boy I ever did that to, I felt bad, cause everyone was laughing after Isaid it), and everyone at my job thought we were going out, saying he is fine girl, I even gave him a number of a friend of mines who wnated to talk to him but he ripped it up. so I don't know.......

Guy Number 2- He alwways in my face, touching my hair, and asking me personal questions about my life, and always staring at me which creeps me out. We got into argument about why I don't talk to him,he threw mean comments my way after that argument, Well he did the yelling at me, so I paid him no attention kept talking to my friends and even making more friends. Then he tries to come around my friends and I and talk to me, and I just grin and bear it, I find a way to end the conversation and let my friend talk to him since she likes him. I can not belive I use to like him, it was like what was I thinking momment for me.

Guy Number 3-He is always callling my phone, and the only reason why I gave him my phone number is because he said he needed help with homework. I did not know he would continue to call and text me leaving me messages, after that its annoying. My friends says its cause he like me and I don't like him at all. When he called I was not going to answer my phone, my friends said that was wrong, but it gets on my nerve. I don't want to come out and say I don't like you cause he never said he like me, it really bugs me I turned my phone off to doged him but can't cause I see him like almost every day and I don't want to mean about it.

Guy Number 4-This boy is a year younger and taller then me , he say some things to me sometimes at work normal conversation only work stuff. I really didn't say much this way my friends boyfriend and he dumped her because he said she was to loud. When she told me that I was like wow!, but its true, I told her maybe you shouldn't talk about what yall discuss or do in private at work. I did not think it was necessary to do that just because everyone does not need to know,and I did not want to know, but couldn't help but to hear her cause she was so loud even after our talk. so one day her now ex told my mom that he liked me, he wanted to go out with me. Of course I turned him down cause number 1 this is my friend ex, 2 he a year younger, 3 when my mom told me I thought it was a joke.

Some guys approach me, and I can't belive that some would tell my mom they like me before they tell me, because this is not the only time this happens. and a question for you guys why do you stare at girls so hard if you do? it kind of weird to a shy girl like me

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