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writes:ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. we were close before that so we're even closer now. but he hangs out with MY best friend (shes a girl) more than me. and it really bothers me. they live close to eachother but when they hang out they're usually with one of my bf's friends which doesn't live close to them. and i'm never invited. it seems so messed up to me. and he tells me "she lives close so its not big deal" and "me and you have been fighting so.." or "you have nothing to worry about" i know he wouldn't do anything with her like that because they're just friends but still. it bothers me so much.. do you think i have a right to be mad or am i just being way too jealous?.. thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2011): I don't think its your boyfriends fault, your bestfriend should not be doing this to you! She is not a true friend and I suggest dumping her as a friend if it continues. Your boyfriend loves you, don't forget that, and he's worried that you're mad at him, but next time he should at least invite you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionidk, it's kinda like my bf's friend and my best friend have a little thing. like they flirt a little bit and stuff. i know my bf and my best friend would never do anything behind my back like that but it seems so messed up to me. and my bf and best friend just met each other this year and i met him a couple months after she did. so it's not like they've been friends forever. blah it just bothers me so much and my bf doesn't seem to get it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): No Sweetie... I would have a problem with my boyfriend hanging out with my best friend, more than me. But, I would be just as with my best friend for hanging out with my boyfriend....It's all about respect and boundaries, on both you friend and boyfriends part. So, yes, you should be concerned. Best of Luck!
~~~~The GabberJack
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 What's going on with your best friend?
why dont you tell her how you feel, she needs to understand, you are not making a big deal about it.
Obviously you are not going to end their friendship, that would be over the top, but you can tell your best friend to stop hanging out so much with him. You know give him space. She should be faithful to you.
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