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writes:Ok. well as you know by my name im a youngiin to be accurate im 14. And yea i do have a bf of 2 months now(( today being 8/13/08 )) but i still havent had my first kiss, cuz i wanna have that with someone i truly care about and i really do care about my bf. like alot. but im super nervous about what he might think of the first kiss or if i do something the wrong way. i mean any tips? not to sound desprit or anything cuz im far from being that.so yea. Help a fellow teenager out? :] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): Hey Girl, I was 19 when I got my first kiss, kinda old huh?? I was soo nervous. As long as you trust him and he trusts you I know it will be a wonderful experience, and I second the opinion on progressing to the French kiss after you get the simpler ones down. Oh and a minty chap stick not only will help hide bad breath (not that you have any, but my bf definitely did lol) , but it tastes good too. Kissing is soo much fun so enjoy it.
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reader, MidtownToDowntown  +, writes (14 August 2008):
Most of it comes pretty natural.
When you're leaning in tilt your head to the opposite of him and gently let your lips land on his. Just follow his lead and you'll be okay, most of it comes pretty natural.
Oh, and remember, breath through your nose and do not, I repeat, DO NOT bite =p
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reader, youngiinchick527 +, writes (14 August 2008):
youngiinchick527 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok well thanks you guys for the advise
ill keep all them in mind. And bf
knows about my nervousness and told me
no matter if im decent or an amazing
kisser we both will help eachother with
it, so makes me feel better;
but hey still feel free to give advice
:]
my ears are open
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 lean in, close your eyes, lips slightly parted, no chapped lips! and if he is more experienced, let him do the leading. you'll understand what i mean when it happens.
honestly i wouldn't go for a french kiss right away. get used to pecks, open mouthed kisses first. french kisses can kind of be an acquired taste. at least it was for me.
as for your hands, hug him, put them on his shoulders, waist, chest. but only do it if it comes naturally! don't think about it, or else you'll forget to think about the kiss!
good luck, and happy kissing.
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 well first of all just relax, everything becomes natural.
Dont open your mouth too much, prepare yourself with soft lips and a really nice fresh breath.
Good luck(:
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Don't really stress about it. I know it sounds simple, but it's the best answer I could give you.
So don't overthing about all of this, or else you'll be nervous when the moment happens and you will probably not kiss good at all. Kissing is a natural action for humans and if you just go with the flow, kissing will come naturally for you.
But as an extra tip, keep your lips mousturized. Bring a chap stick or a very clear lipstick. It will not only bring softness to your lips, but it will enhance the sensation too.
Good luck and hope your first kiss will be magical!
Ps. If you're really from Honduras, please message me!
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