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writes:Yer this may sound stupid but i need some advice:I went to this rave the other day and literally as soon as i got there was this girl who was interested in me (without doing anything). All my mates tried to get with her and failed miserably, so as i was pretty wasted i thought i'd give it go.. Anyway to cut a long painful story short, i also was unsucessful even tho her friend's boyfriend told me to make a move (hmm yer i know). I seem to have this mental block when it comes to getting intimate so i was just wondering how other guys do it OR how women prefer to be approached? (btw i'm not like perverted or anything, i'm just single) Reply to this Question
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 Never put a LOT of attention to the girl, be more mysterious, not so desperate.Try to be a little bit mean with her, in a soft way, of course.Feel like a MAN, lead, take the desicions, control the situation. Women love Men, as simple as that, men need to realize that. Don't show how nervous or insecure you are, on the contrary, feel like a king :)
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reader, hijackedheart +, writes (26 July 2009):
agreeable with the answer below lol, but also tell her you like her. what people fail to realise is that when exposed to the whole concept of "he likes you" "she likes you" even if you do not fancy them you see that person in a different lite. but regardless, take a chance and approach he a little bit sober ;p it's good to have a drink, but then the thoughts of drink = the actions is a completely different matter :]. get to know her slightly before you tell her, but fTW dont get to know her too well because the moment some people are put in the friends box... there kept in there;]. so let her know you like her.... subtly. also ask her out to a 1 on 1 thing. because by the sounds of it she might of felt like you were conforming to your friends trying it with her. and not your feelings or blah are going towards her. but hey your man enough to ask soo nps :) -
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