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*ceania
writes:I really need helpI am desperate, i have a "thing" going on with one of my male friends for over 1 month and a half.Everything was going perfect, he was very happy, i was very happy, he was amazing. Funny, smart, loving.Until i got frustrated. I am a very desperate person so i was expecting to see a move from him and he NEVER did anything. By a move i referred to ask me on a date or tell me that he liked me... whatever.Now the situation has become AWKWARD. very much :(yesterday i hang out with him and some other friends, we didnt even put attention to "us"...we weren't together. My friends always ask me... what going on between you and him? do you like him?Now i dont know what to answer anymore.He is very weird, some days he is wonderful and caring, but others he is just a complete stranger who ignores me. WHATS GOING ON? what should i do? please help.By the way, he thinks I'M the weird.... Reply to this Question
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reader, Oceania +, writes (26 July 2008):
Oceania is verified as being by the original poster of the question i ask him
what was going on between us...
i follow your advise
and he was such a girl.
he just told me.. umm nothing right?
so yeah... end of story
thanks for the help i guess
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (26 July 2008):
 ok i know we all think guys should ask us out but it is the new world were everything is now even.. so why havent you asked him out ? i had to ask my bf if he liked me and he did it was just he was way too shy and ddnt want to get hurt if i said no..so it looks like unless you make a move things are going to continue..maybe hes hurting that you havent made a move or flirted..you have two choices tell him or dont..do you really want to be with this man ? so what if he says no not the end of the world.. and if he says yes then you can see were it goes.. thats my opinion hope it helps xx
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