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What qualifies you to help people?
Thats a hard one, im still young but i reckon i have alot of common knowledge (if thats what you call it) to help solve problems. After coming out of a bitter divorce i learnt alot about peoples relationships and reactions to different situations. But i dont have any grades in any pertitucal subject, apart from GCSE's in the basic subjects.
Where do you live?
I live in the midlands, in england, it rains alot, i hope to live in america when im older, life seems more fun there.
What makes you tick?
I enjoy being socialable. I like to be in a big group and noticed by people in it. If someones upset like a friend i always turn into a conseullor and can be over protective over certain people. I get annoyed when people say uncalled for comments or go out of there were to irratate me. But ive learnt to calm myself in agreesive situations.
What's your relationship status?
Im currently in a relationship, half a year now :)
So im completely loved up as you might say hahaha!
Well that took me a while at 1am ! xx
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I want to stay a virgin until marriage but what's the use!
Q. I would really like to stay a virgin until I'm married but it doesn't seem like there are any virgin girls left so whats the point? The whole chastity thing really doesn't work unless both people are in on it. It's all just really irritating 22 ...
A. 13 March 2010: It seems like your a looking back and regretting your choice. But you shouldn't if you believe that sex should be special and for only once married. Then keep to this path if you believe in it. However if your starting to look on the downfalls of ... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: Wow, this is a long question :D
It sounds to me like your mum did the right thing as a kid. Considering most teen pregnauncies are terminated, she went through with it and gave you to someone who could give you a better upbringing than she coul... (read in full...)
How effective is the pill "microgynon 30" ?
Q. hi guys, just a question about the pill im on.. im on microgynon 30 and i was just wondering how effective it is? when my doctor put me on it, i asked her if my partner and i still need to use condoms, and she said that as long as im taking the pill ...
A. 10 March 2010: I was on the microgynon for 3 months before changing to another pill. All pills, if taken correctly everyday for 21 days straight are quite effective. If you want to be sure the pill is working, do the first 3 months with condoms. As this is when ... (read in full...)
We met while clubbing, but he won't let me club anymore!
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend who wants to go clubbing and drink. We have been together for 2 years, we met at a club and for the first 6 months always went clubbing together and we went to every music festival ...
A. 10 March 2010: If he is controlling your life like this you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. Your young and this is the main time of your life where your making your own decisions and doing what you want when you want. So why are you letting an ... (read in full...)
Why does doggy-style cause me to bleed and cause me pain?
Q. When me and my boyfriend do it doggy style sometimes it really hurts me although other times it is quite pleasureable. when we tried it at the weekend it really hurt and there was blood in my cum. I have two questions, 1. Should I be worried about...
A. 8 December 2009: I have the same problem..it might be the position is tight for the penis to get in. Try using some lube when you do it :) everyone loves lube. And just make sure you use condoms if you have bleed cause if its cuts inside it could cause an infection ... (read in full...)
I can't force myself to go on anymore
Q. Hi everyone, I have broken up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago and we had been together almost 8 years. He went to study abroad and we therefore decided to split, but its very very hard and i cry everyday. The thing is im also suffering from p...
A. 7 December 2009: After 8 years this is such a big change in your life. But your still young and youve got so much to live for. Allow yourself to grieve but dont let it overcome you. Get on medication for your depression and for your panic attacks as these were ... (read in full...)
Does this happen to you??
Q. has this happened to you??? on several occasions my wife and l have had fantastic morning sex before l go to work. i mean fantastic sex and not just a quickie. my wife always climax's during intercourse. on several times this has happened she has ...
A. 12 October 2009: Its a hard question to answer. Men masturbate, freely and frequently. but when women do it during a relationship, they're not so happy. My boyfriend asked me to do masturbate for him, and when i did he went in a mood saying he was "out of the job"... (read in full...)
Is he pushing me into sex?
Q. i have only been with my boyf. for a day and he already is saying that he wants to have sex And im not ready at all but if i dont i will get called fridged and i dont want that to happen so am i just going to have to have sex with him or is ...
A. 12 October 2009: My friend had this problem. if he wants sex with you after a day, hes way to far forward, even if you WERE ready for it i wouldnt do it just to see if he stuck around with no sex at all. Your obviously not ready to do, and if your not, dont do ... (read in full...)
I feel really alone now that I've finished school.
Q. I feel really alone now that i,ve finished school. I,m 17 years old , I didn't get into any of the collages i applied to and I can't get a Job , I dont really talk to my friends , I can't drive , I hate asking my parents for a loan of money so i ...
A. 12 October 2009: i know the feeling, when i was at school i was surrounded by people wanting my company, and now it feels like im completely forgetten about. but after speaking to a few friends, who did not return to my high school for studying and went to college, ... (read in full...)
She read my e-mail, about her weight, and dumped me, any advice?
Q. My girlfriend of 11 months invaded my privacy, went through an email and saw an email I sent my best friend which said exactly this: "I love my girlfriend. She has a beautiful face, but she is letting herself go. How can I get her to drop 15-20lbs?" ...
A. 12 August 2009: She has invaded your privacy hoping to clear her mind and find absoutley nothing negative, of course shes angry - if i was her i'd be very angry.
Women do not like there bodies to be picked up on, though we frequently do it to men. We hate it back... (read in full...)
Why do I always get cheated on?
Q. im going to make this question short and sweet... why is it every relationship ive been in theyve cheated on me? i mean is there maybe something im putting across? ...
A. 12 August 2009: What i relised is, in your teens, you get bored of people pretty easily. Theres so many more fish in the sea, and people find another one in a matter a time that may seem more of a catch? Most people will get cheated on sometime in there life, and ... (read in full...)
I've had my period but could I still be pregnant?
Q. Hi, im 16 and lost my virginity on july 8th, I had sex 3 times that day WITH condoms, my period was suposed to be on july 16 or 17th. Its was 10 days late. My period came on july 27th and was only 3 days long and very heavy. In JUNE before I lost m...
A. 12 August 2009: the chances your pregnaunt are pretty much slim as can be. When you have a period, you shred the lining of the womb the fertlised egg would have attached itself to and you will also lose the egg. When some people have sex for the first times (or ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as too perfect a relationship???
Q. Basically before this guy, i didnt believe in serious relationships in your adolescence. i met him freshmen year and now we're going into junior year and still together, even though i switched schools. our relationship has been nearly perfect with ...
A. 12 August 2009: I dont see why your complaining lol, you have a relationship thats works well, that hards to come by, every relationship needs work but yours seems quite the easy type. Enjoy it while it lasts, you never know what might come next that could split ... (read in full...)
Is our short-term relationship worth maintaining?
Q. I've come home from university for the summer, and I've started seeing a local girl. We seem to be having a nice time together, and we both have already started to get a little attached to each other. The problem is of course that I will be going ...
A. 17 July 2009: Either way you look at it, its still going to come to an end if your both not prepared to carry it on long distance.
I dont see why not, if you both relise that it will come to an end. Enjoy the time you have left together?
However, if you get ... (read in full...)
I've been having my period for a month?
Q. okay so i just have a question... i am 17 years old and i got my period for the first time when i was about 13. ive never been regular... sometimes i might skip a month and stuff like that but about two months ago i got my period twice in one month ...
A. 17 July 2009: I know my friends older sister had her period for a month, and the doctor thought it may of been a miscarriage, turned out it was an infection in her womb. I'd go see another doctor, im not sure if its safe to be losing so much blood, x... (read in full...)
I just want to sleep all day and none of my friends like me....
Q. I feel crap all the time. My friends don't like me, I'm lonely, bored and pretty miserable. I don't do anything all day, except text this girl I met on a Pro-Ana website and isit Pro-Ana sites. And I feel like a fraud becuase I'm not even thin. ...
A. 17 July 2009: Have you tried speaking to someone?
Close family/friend? Conseullor? Ect?
Of course your friends dont understand you, being teenagers themselves, there all wraped in their own problems and worlds, and if something doesnt make sense to you and does... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair just to get sex?
Q. I need some help. My husband and I have been together for 7 years (married for 2). My husband doesn't want to have sex. I always try but he is never interested. I rarely have the courage to talk to him but when I do he either says he doesn't ...
A. 17 July 2009: An affiar wont solve anything. It will damage your marriage and leave you feel empty after a one night stand then losing your husband.
In a relationship, you have to have comminication, so you need to speak to him about it and ask why he no long... (read in full...)
For the Ladies: What do you mean when you say, "Hey, you're cute!"
Q. Dear Ladies and Girls, Would you please enlighten me, and many other men no doubt, as to what you ACTUALLY mean when you say to a guy the following:- "Hey you're cute". Thanks. ...
A. 17 July 2009: If she says it in a giggly flirty voice, shes means your good looking, aka attraction cute.
If she says it in a patrionising tone like she say to a little furry puppy or a baby, then she thinks your adorable just like a furry puppy or a baby.
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Why do I miss him more in the mornings?
Q. My boyfriend and I recently called it quits. These last couple days have been a struggle, but I'm slowly getting by. I want to know why I only miss him in the mornings, I mean I will wake up and I will long for him and I will want to call him and ...
A. 17 July 2009: It sounds like you still have feelings for this guy, and waking up to a fresh day without him being apart of it can be unbarable, but its early days of the break up and you broke up for a reason, right?
Maybe he used to talk to you in the morn... (read in full...)
When should I take another pregnancy test?
Q. Hello all. I recently asked the same question, however I was wondering when I should test again. I took a pregnancy test a day before my missed period, it was negative. I've since missed my period. I usually have period symptoms a few days before my ...
A. 12 May 2009: Wait til your a week late for your period. If its still negative, wait and see if you skip another one. If you do take another test and see a doctor. Periods can be late for stress and illness or many unknown reasons, if you have had protected sex, ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for a gay boy
Q. I'm 16, and recently i've begun to really like a a guy in my school, i knew he was interested and i think he knew i was intertested too. anyway we swapped numbers and it wasn't long until he admitted he was gay, i was devastated! but he told that ...
A. 11 May 2009: i no many lads who have changed sexuality like people change clothes. its like a trend for teenagers. You need to ask him if hes gay, if hes saying hes interested then he has to be attracted to the opsite sex, making him straight or bi. Find out ... (read in full...)
I've been having sore pains in my left breast, what could this be?
Q. ok ive been having sore pains in my breast. but only on my left one. now i just noticed that it is a dark brown color around my nipple and very sore.ppl say that it usually means ur prego but i just had my period and it ended ...
A. 11 May 2009: Your boobs could be just going, or tender from times in your menstraul cycle. Or Maybe youve just knocked it or hit it roughly. However there are alot more serious causes like types of cancers or other problems. Its best to get it checked out if its ... (read in full...)
I care for my ex but he doesn't care at all
Q. okay me and my ex broke up. But the next day as we broke up he asked somebody else out! its killing me. its been on and off. but we have been together for 1 month. we "loved" eachother. before when we broke up i didnt care. but he did he always ca...
A. 11 May 2009: Youve broke up, and hes asked out someone else. Its the hard truth but its time to move on. Hes not calling you because hes interested in someone else, hes not calling you because you've broken up and he doesnt want to get back with you! Stop ... (read in full...)
How long before a lovebite fades away?
Q. Ok so I have this really big ugly lovebite on my neck, how long do they normally take to go away?...
A. 11 May 2009: Oh god i know how you feel! My mum was helping me dye my hair, and she noticed a huge one on my neck, id managed to hide it with my layers for a few days, but it went into a horrible colour and in the end everyone seen it. Someone said toothpaste ... (read in full...)
Fooling around...and now I cant pee!
Q. My boyfriend and I were messing around last week. Afterward, it hurt a little more than usual in the next couple of days, and a pain kept lingering. Yesterday, we got... um... naughty in a pool and now every time I use the bathroom I feel a searing...
A. 11 May 2009: best thing to do is go to your doctor. Theyre really confidental so you wouldnt have to worry about them telling your parents about you and your boyfriend. This could of just been from him "playing" to rough which has caused your area to get sore, ... (read in full...)
How can we stay safe?
Q. Right, me and my mate and her friend (all of us 15) are going to a gig next weekend. The problem is its abour 200 miles away and we'd have to stay overnight on the street. We really want to go and we've planned the train journey and we have the ...
A. 11 May 2009: There is no way your safe, your not even near your own home, which makes it just as worse. Have you thought of staying at a hotel? If a parent knew you were staying there they could go with you and look after you, or even someone older like an ... (read in full...)
On my period, how do I tell him?
Q. my boyfriend and i slept together for the first time on saturday, and im seeing him tomorrow and think he wants to do it again. i want to again, but not tomorrow as ive just come on my period. however im quite shy about things like this and hes my ...
A. 11 May 2009: Normally if youve had sex, your more sexually open? Are you sure you're ready for a sexual relationship with him? If your not comfortable with saying it to his face, say it before you meet up through text or msn. Or when he tries to get intimate ... (read in full...)
Why do blokes ask for your number after one night stand then never get in touch?
Q. Why do blokes ask for your number after one night stand then never get in touch? I meet this lovely bloke the other night and i ended up going back to his (i was quite drunk). We got on really well and the sex was great during the night but not so g...
A. 11 May 2009: If you give it away to easy, lads will rarely stick around. All guys are different, he was obviously a nice polite guy and maybe even a nice boyfriend, but getting down to it when youve just met is showing him signs that this could be all you want ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend I've got my period?
Q. Hey, I don't know what to do. I have this friend that yea she's nice and i can talk to her about anything...except periods, anything sex related, or anything dealing with body parts. She absolutely terrified to say one word. If she asks me what's ...
A. 17 January 2009: I dont understand why some girls find this awkward since all girls get periods and the same body troubles.
If your mate is hurt about your "personal problems" then explain to her your on your period or that time of the month, and she should drop... (read in full...)
My boobs are really embarrassing for me!
Q. my boobs are really embarrassing for me :( first off, my nipples are really big and really gross and really not cute! secondly I always get pimples on them! third, on my left boob I have two cysts and getting a third. what's wrong with ...
A. 22 December 2008: Nobody's body is perfect.
But if your worried about anything (epsicaly the cysts) its best to get it checked out by your doctor to be your mind at rest or get the problem sorted out. ... (read in full...)
When should I give him his stuff back?
Q. me and my boy broke up should i give him his stuff back? its only been like 4 days or should i wait until we get back from christmas break? to show im stronger!! WOOO!...
A. 15 December 2008: If you give him his stuff back now, itll look like your doing it more out of spite and anger than the fact you dont want it.
Wait for him to ask for his stuff back, or bring up the subject that you still have some of his stuff does it he want it b... (read in full...)
Is this a foolish thing to do, appropriate, selfish or what?
Q. About August of last year I developed a crush on a friend in one of my classes. I've kept it quiet. January of this year she asked me if I liked her. I replied that I did. She informed me that she didn't feel the same way and wanted to continue ...
A. 15 December 2008: Spilling out all your feelings onto paper may not be the best choice to do. People can get very scared off by strong feelings, espcially if they dont feel the same way. Sometimes abit of space can do the world of good, but i wouldnt let her no that ... (read in full...)
I'm one of his best friends, and yet he's ignoring me. What is going on? I'm so confused.
Q. i am really confused my friends being really wierd with me. one miniute he saying. o louise (thats me) your like my best mate. certainly one of them... the neXt miniute he bloking me on Msn with no reason...telling me he cant teXt me because ...
A. 19 April 2008: Ask him whats going on to his face, so he cant hang up, ignore you or block you. Say youve had enough of it, and if you are his best mate he wouldnt treat you like this. There has to be a reason, so hear him out to see if its a good one. Maybe h... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but I'm not sure how or when I should do it?
Q. hey, prom is coming up and im going with a freind. there is this girl ive liked for quite a while, weve been freinds for years, recently she told me she likes me but still has feelings for a mutual freind of ours. i want to ask her out but im not ...
A. 19 April 2008: Just ask her. If you dont you never know what could happen. Ask her when shes alone, and explain how much you like her ect. Girls like to be told why they are liked so much too. eg. amazing personality, looks. x... (read in full...)
How to move on from someone you love and think about all the time
Q. How does one move on from somebody they love, and still think about all the time? She moved away, so she broke it off after 3 years. I told her exactly how I feel about her, but she says that this is the end of us. She mentioned that "Maybe some ...
A. 19 April 2008: Shes clearly told you its over, right now. Dont hold on to her "Maybe some day." it could just be a way of making you feel better. Moving on takes alot of time and effort, some more than overs. It took me over 7 months. Keep yourself busy with t... (read in full...)
I live with my girlfriend but getting in deeper with someone else. What do I do?
Q. Hi, need some help! I have a gf who i live with and have done for two years. The past 6 months have been pretty crap and i ended up meeting another girl katey who is a year older than me (24). We were meeting up and having a laugh every time then it ...
A. 19 April 2008: A smart thing to do would be to find your own place now. Talk things out with your girlfriend now, come clean and explain the relationship isnt going well lately. If you cant fix things up, move out and talk to Katey about going steady. You sho... (read in full...)
I re-used a condom 3 wks later. Am I Pregnant?
Q. hey... so ... here is my problem... me and my boyfriend had sex with a re-used condom about two weeks ago. the condom we re-used was first used about three weeks before we used it the second time.. does the sperm die off or what? he cleaned it out ...
A. 19 April 2008: Re-use condoms? Does any ever read the instructions nowadays? "Dont re-use condoms, put on a new one." I wonder if you or your boyfriend got an infection from that dirty condom, which should of been disposed of after sex - the first time.... (read in full...)
Determined to move on, but I still always think of her!
Q. Determined to move on from my ex, but I'm finding it hard. I keep telling myself that I will find somebody better, and I'm starting to believe that more than I used to. But anytime I so much as hear somebody with the same name as her, hear a plac...
A. 19 April 2008: Dont worry about it. This happened to me. When i broke up with someone i really loved, i kept remebering the times we spent together. Slowly after the time i started thinking about them less and less, and the feelings faded away. Yet whene... (read in full...)
I don't want to date other girls...is it because I am not over my ex??
Q. hey, My girlfriend broke up with me some time ago now (about 4 months) and it was extremely hard, we fell out even thought she said she wanted us to stay friends. We have recently started talking more and we are becoming friends again but i ...
A. 19 February 2008: Just because you dont fancy anyone yet, does that mean you have to turn back to your ex. It might be sensible to cut down on talking, not breaking off comminucation with her completely, but keeping a distance so you dont end up growing to close. ... (read in full...)
My b/f's in prison. Do I accept it's over between us?
Q. been with bf for 13 years i cheated on him which i deeply regret hes in prison he rings me 3x a day comes home on a weekend he tells me he doesnt luv me and hes using me til something better comes along but yet he still does things for me and hes ...
A. 10 January 2008: Well first of cheating was wrong. But just put to life experience. If it helps get it off your chest. Since it seems your relationships broken anyway.
Why are you letting this lad treat you like this?
Using you until something better comes al... (read in full...)
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