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writes:How does one move on from somebody they love, and still think about all the time? She moved away, so she broke it off after 3 years. I told her exactly how I feel about her, but she says that this is the end of us. She mentioned that "Maybe some day, but it's pretty unlikely". So now I think I'm faced with moving on. Something I haven't managed to do for the past year. How can I do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): i been with my girl friend for 6 month , i really think she is my soul match and recently there been drama with another couple of ours and she caused it and i supported her threw it , now she wants to still be friends with the girl and i feel betrayed because i lost my job cos of the whole deal, she acts different with me whenever i mention her friends name , and claims i am controlin her life and making rules which in reality i want her to put as much as i put into moving on from a very bad friendship so i chose to move on from her and try to get my life together , it really hurts and i dont know what to do or whether i made a big mistake of leaving her , in my heart i want nothing but to be with her , but in reality i know she is not ready to be as committed as i am to her , i would like to get a responce just to see what others might consider my move , as good or bad?
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reader, dan.1 +, writes (19 April 2008):
sorry to hear about that but yes you will find it hard you have got to get your brain active to get ur mind off her. yes u most proberly meet again in the future. but you need to go out with some friends and have a laugh and before you know it u will have forgotten about her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Well I can't exactly give you any concrete advice man, but I'll try... I personally haven't been in a relation for that long a period of time before, but I've had meaningful ones in my own opinion. The only thing I can really say to you is just keep going on with your life day by day, get involved in another activity, be with your friends more. Eventually you will be able to move on... And especially don't make yourself unavailable to others because of it, explore your options and such, you know, hahaHope this can help out a little bit... Haven't made too many replies on here yet and I'm doing what I can with the experiences I've had. Wish you the best of luck. Just try not to think about it, you'll be fine
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reader, natnatxxx +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Shes clearly told you its over, right now.Dont hold on to her "Maybe some day." it could just be a way of making you feel better.Moving on takes alot of time and effort, some more than overs.It took me over 7 months.Keep yourself busy with things you enjoy, and whenever you think of her, tell yourself its not going to happen, it can make you upset, but sometimes releasing everything off your chest is the best way.Meet new people, and get to know other girls. Maybe for a while just have some fun and dont get into serious relationships. I hope this helps x
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reader, crazy_in_luv  +, writes (19 April 2008):
ahh a tough situation for you i am sure.spend a day looking and thinking and writing about all the things u did together...so that u're head and heart become a little lighter.it helps..trust me.then u could try doing something u have never done before..maybe with a friend or alone..try something new...u'll feel brand new too.veryyy slowly,u'll realize that whatever happens is for the best..a year is not enough to get over someone...it took me three to get over my ex..and now and then still it pains.she is a part of u and ur memories and u cant just omit her..but u can make it pain a lil lesser..time is the best healer..plzz take care,i m there for any help u need
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