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writes:I feel crap all the time. My friends don't like me, I'm lonely, bored and pretty miserable. I don't do anything all day, except text this girl I met on a Pro-Ana website and isit Pro-Ana sites. And I feel like a fraud becuase I'm not even thin.Noone understands me, even though my friends read my diary where I pretty much said all this. They don't even care.I don't know what to do and I just want to sleep all day everyday.
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reader, natnatxxx +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Have you tried speaking to someone?
Close family/friend? Conseullor? Ect?
Of course your friends dont understand you, being teenagers themselves, there all wraped in their own problems and worlds, and if something doesnt make sense to you and doesnt make sense to them, there not going to try to understand because it will confuse them, there your friends, not trained proffesionalists at the human mind. If your friends dont like you there not exactly friends? The only problem with young social groups are, if you become a dull, depressed person who never comes out (like you, all you do is sleep all day) people soon give up trying to help you out, and drop you for someone more fun. Its life and it happens. Being young myself ive commited that crime against people who've hung out with me. If somethings to hard to do and the person doesn't mean exactly mean a huge amount to me, ill give up after a while, ill just get bored and annoyed with not being able to solve the problem.
The problem is teenage hormones, they trigger off a variety of problems in our heads, we can get emotional over things that have happened in our past, or over things that upset us, and we can dwell on it for a long time. Then we become depressed, once depression kicks in, you dont want to socialise, become lonely and feel as if no one understands you. The best help hunny is to talk to someone and explain whats going on, once you release it and get the proper help, you'll find it easier to move out of this depressed state and enjoy your life, get back in touch with your friends, and feel better about yourself.
Hope this helped x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): I am going through the same thing, but not exactly. I pushed my friends away because I wasn't happy, I am losing weight, and working on myself, because I feel like I am worth a happy life, and praying to God has helped me and my low self-esteem.You are beautiful, and worth it and if you feel bad about your appearance then change it. Work out, find clothes you like.Stop caring what others think because the only opinion that matters is yours and if your opinion is negative then change it.Take things one day at a time because nothing happen over night.
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 You sound like you have a low self esteem.What other people think of you is not important.Its your opinion of your self that counts.Find a way to be happy by yourself with yourself. People are complex creatures.Don`t worry if no one understands you.How much do you really understand yourself? Worrying all the time will only drag you down.Think up solutions to your problems.You have internet.There are plenty of people online to talk to.Just enjoy life and be happy with who you are.
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