Should I leave my girlfriend because of my insecurities?
Q. I have been asking for advice regarding my ldr before, so this is not the firts time im posting, i tried to post a while ago but it was rejected due to lack of information, so i will try to give as much info as i can keeping it short. I have a l...
A. 17 January 2013: Hey man,
Ive read your whole story, and Im really sorry for the stuff you are going through bro hang in there.
The sentence that struck me most was; "she is not that much of affectionate -but she is trying- she almost never says or writes s... (read in full...)
Should I leave my girlfriend because of my insecurities?
Q. I have been asking for advice regarding my ldr before, so this is not the firts time im posting, i tried to post a while ago but it was rejected due to lack of information, so i will try to give as much info as i can keeping it short. I have a l...
A. 17 January 2013: Hey man,
Ive read your whole story, and Im really sorry for the stuff you are going through bro hang in there.
The sentence that struck me most was; "she is not that much of affectionate -but she is trying- she almost never says or writes s... (read in full...)
What is your feelings on someone getting drunk and making out with another person?
Q. Hey guys and girls, about three weeks ago I started dating this girl named lets say Cindy. We spent a lot of time together just watching movies, having sex, talking, and really liking each other. Cindy even bought me a Star Wars t-shirt when s...
A. 31 October 2012: Hey So_Very_Confused,
Thanks for your opinion, appreciated. I do want to clarify something, A. she claims to have been drunk, so why would personality be a factor here, well maybe for females it is.
and B. This guy is basically a "walking broch... (read in full...)
What is your feelings on someone getting drunk and making out with another person?
Q. Hey guys and girls, about three weeks ago I started dating this girl named lets say Cindy. We spent a lot of time together just watching movies, having sex, talking, and really liking each other. Cindy even bought me a Star Wars t-shirt when s...
A. 31 October 2012: Hey Cerberus, Thanks for your reply man it really makes a lot of sense, especially this part; "The one question I would ask myself is this, did she let me know and admit to it because my friends were there and everyone saw her and would she h... (read in full...)
What is your feelings on someone getting drunk and making out with another person?
Q. Hey guys and girls, about three weeks ago I started dating this girl named lets say Cindy. We spent a lot of time together just watching movies, having sex, talking, and really liking each other. Cindy even bought me a Star Wars t-shirt when s...
A. 31 October 2012: Hey Anonymous 123,
Well yeah the whole relationship definition is something that is hazy. We were seeing each other without having the relationship specified. However, she did mention that she only wanted to see me and only liked me more than a f... (read in full...)
I think I like a guy my friend used to date and had a recent break up with. Where do I go with this?
Q. Hey, I have this friend who i've only ever seen as a friend but recently i've started to think differently about him. I think he's pretty attractive but he makes me laugh all the time and ive started to think that maybe i do fancy him and am inter...
A. 31 October 2012: Well this is just a male perspective, But if my best friend did something like this it would ruin the friendship quite a bit.
I really dont mean to scare you, but there is this chance that your relationship with your friend will be damaged.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to want her to wear a different dress? The one she chose for New Year's Eve looks like Lingerie.
Q. Hey everyone, I have a somewhat delicate issue here. First of all my girlfriend and two mutual friends of ours (a boy and a girl) decided that we are going to celebrate new years eve together in a club in town, so far so good. Today she was s...
A. 3 December 2011: hmm I linked the dress, but maybe linking is not allowed. Well its basically a skirt and bra with a see through belly + back part and the top part is also see through. So basically a bra + skirt, that's what it looks like. ... (read in full...)
I used her laptop to watch porn, and now she's mad at me. I don't understand the fuss!
Q. Hey there, I got in somewhat of a shocking fight today with my girlfriend, let me explain. First of all she found out that Ive watched porn on her laptop in her house when she was in class. That day I woke up and she was already at class, I ...
A. 29 September 2011: I just want to add that I did not mean to be disrespectful, I had my laptop with me too, hers was just turned on. I can see how it might be disrespectful but still I must say im a very sweet guy to my girlfriend and I would do alot for her, but she ... (read in full...)
I used her laptop to watch porn, and now she's mad at me. I don't understand the fuss!
Q. Hey there, I got in somewhat of a shocking fight today with my girlfriend, let me explain. First of all she found out that Ive watched porn on her laptop in her house when she was in class. That day I woke up and she was already at class, I ...
A. 29 September 2011: Well Its not that I lack empathy, and ive sent her a nice card saying im sorry because she wont pick up the phone.
well thanks for the responses, appreciated.... (read in full...)
She said I smother her!!!
Q. Hey everyone, I'm really really confused right now, and kind of sad. I havent cried in over 2 years but I really feel broken right now. I'm kind of friends with my ex-girlfriend right now. She has a lot going on in her life (eating disorders, e...
A. 29 June 2010: Hey thanks for all the great replys,
Yeah I probably should just give her some space, Although she initiated contact a few months ago, after not talking with her for a few months.
She kept telling me how she was much worse off without me and h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend blows me off and gets nasty and I am not sure what I should do
Q. So my boyfriend of a year has gotten very controlling and jealous. I had to delete my facebook and every guy in my phone because of him. He blows me off every weekend for friends and barley talks to me on weekdays. Then when I go hang out with...
A. 3 April 2010: Hey natx3,
You need to ask yourself the question, Do you really want to spend your time with a person like this?
Maybe you still love him, and don't want to break up, but what he is doing is totally rediculous. Him ditching you for frieds is ba... (read in full...)
Worried husband will leave me if we can't have a child!
Q. My husband and I have been together 17 years. We are now approaching 40, and we have no children. We both really want a baby so we have tried fertility treatments - no success. We are now in the midst of an IVF cycle. I have loved our 17 yea...
A. 3 April 2010: This is really alot to digest,
But anyway Id like to ask you the question; 'Do you think getting a kid is going to solve your problems?'
And really I cant understand that he has such a view on the 17 years of marriage with you, that only a kid w... (read in full...)
Eating disorder relationship...
Q. Hi guys, just wondering if any of you out there are in loving relationships with a partner who has an eating disorder and what are your experiences and sacrifices over a “normal” relationship? I am in a 6 month old relationship with a woman wit...
A. 3 April 2010: I understand that my reply to this question is somewhat late,
But I can relate with very much what you are saying.
No let me start of that I am somewhat younger, but I was in a relationship with a girl who was dealing with anorexia for a year. ... (read in full...)
Went out with my ex and its the same old rollercoaster ride
Q. Hello everyone, Yesterday I had a date with my ex-girlfriend, we date like a year ago, then she broke up and we did not speak for several months. Now she innitiated contact and I aggreed to go out with her. Everything went really wel, she ...
A. 3 April 2010: Yeah, the docters actually only gave her a few months at a certain point, just imagine the damage done to a body when you starve yourself all the time.
Anyway, she still is saying that she doesn't need help, that she will do better herself.... (read in full...)
Shes verbaly abusive! Should I split?
Q. Hey there, This story might be somewhat long and tedious, but here I go. I just had a big fight with my girlfriend. She made a comment that was makeing me feel very sad, so I made that clear. But she was saying that I am manipulating the situa...
A. 28 July 2009: Well ive been with her for over a year, and i think i really love her. But this has just hurt my feelings so much, i dont know if i do love her anymore.... (read in full...)
I don't trust her when she goes out with her mates.
Q. Hello there, I'm currently in a relationship with this girl (for almost a year now.) She is really outgoing and a mostly a nice person. But she likes to go out a lot, with her 'girlfriends'. This bothers me somewhat, because all sorts of g...
A. 15 June 2009: The awfull truth I guess. Though its very hard to break up with someone you love so much.... (read in full...)
I told her secrets to another and now she doesn't trust me!
Q. about 4-5 months ago I told one of my girlfriends secrets to a friend of mine. She found out about it by reading one of my IM chats with that friend, she was furious about it. But now 4 months later she is still angry about it, she doesnt trust...
A. 21 May 2009: well the secrets was very big, id say a 9 or 10. It was something that was slowely damaging her, but she wouldn't seek help from others. I had a hard time watching her inflicting this stuff on herself, so i tried to get some support from a friend.... (read in full...)
I told her secrets to another and now she doesn't trust me!
Q. about 4-5 months ago I told one of my girlfriends secrets to a friend of mine. She found out about it by reading one of my IM chats with that friend, she was furious about it. But now 4 months later she is still angry about it, she doesnt trust...
A. 21 May 2009: I appologized for the 20th time, and i told her i cannot change the past, but she refused to talk to me.
She was also angry about me seeing another girl when we broke up, this was the person whom i told this secret to ( this girl was a very goo... (read in full...)
I honestly do not love this girl anymore, but I am afraid to break up with her, and I don't know why...
Q. Hey there, Thursday I was on the phone with my girlfriend, I had to address some issues. For example; It bothered me that she never came up with ideas for dates. I always came up with stuff to do, I always ask her; hey do you want to hang out? She...
A. 9 May 2009: I have tried communicating but she doesn't seem to care, she only cares when she feels like caring. And when she does not, she does not give a rats ass bout my feelings.
Would it be a good solution just to ignore her ?... (read in full...)
When I want to discuss my feelings my g/f is the rudest person on the earth!
Q. Hello guys. I have been using this site alot lately, thanks everyone for answering my questions. Ive got one more though. My girlfriend met a guy on facebook, and she is arranging to see him in real life. She claims they are; 'Just friends...
A. 27 April 2009: I dont know, we are together 10 months now, I kind a really love her, but I cant take it anymore.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has jealousy issues
Q. Hello, everybody! Most of my friends are guys, ages 14-17 (I'm 15) and my bf (14) seems to dislike it. I don't think it's that he doesn't trust me--he doesn't trust THEM. My ex and I are very close, and I know of a few of my friends that just bro...
A. 27 April 2009: You are a sweet girl, my girlfriend just tells me to shut up when she is meeting boys and I am jealouse.
Just reassure your boyfriend that he has nothing to be worried about, be sweet to him for a while, he might feel more love from you and then... (read in full...)
My son was suspended for sniffing glue. Why would he do that?
Q. My 14-year-old son was suspended from school today for glue-sniffing. He came home at 11:30 this morning, and I was surprised to see him. I asked him "What are you doing home so early?" He admitted he'd been suspended from school for a week...
A. 27 April 2009: Actually sniffing glue is farm more dangerous than smoking pot for example.
Prevent him from sniffing glue, it can damage his brains really bad.
You asked why ? Kids are curious, they do weird stuff when bored.
And about him saying he woul... (read in full...)
I'm depressed, she doesn't seem to care..
Q. Hey there, Ive been in this relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months now. But very often im crying, and she does not seem to care, she just keeps hurting my feelings. I must add that I am depressed right now, im trying to seek professiona...
A. 26 April 2009: Thanks guys for being so suportive.
I know a relationship is a two way thing, but she claims that she loves me and that she misses me alot when im not around. Its very confusing for me.... (read in full...)
I'm depressed, she doesn't seem to care..
Q. Hey there, Ive been in this relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months now. But very often im crying, and she does not seem to care, she just keeps hurting my feelings. I must add that I am depressed right now, im trying to seek professiona...
A. 26 April 2009: Im having a hard time standing up for myself. Certainly when its concerning my girlfriend, I dont know, I dont want to lose her.... (read in full...)
My man fancies someone on the big screen
Q. Should I be concerned that my partner fancies a woman in a film? As in, gets hard over her and finds her asthetically pleasing? I worry he won't find me attractive anymore, and will think of her when we have sex... We've been together three...
A. 24 April 2009: Wel this is pretty paranoid. But it would bother me too, if my girlfriend would say something like that. I dont want to know if she fancies anyone on tv, i dont care.
Maybe you should tell him that next time, that you do not care if he fancies ... (read in full...)
Am I immature and difficult or just another common misunderstanding?
Q. Well, my boyfriend and I are filling in applications for college, and since he's been putting off doing his personal statement for a few weeks now, I offered to do it for him... I looked up some things that might be important to mention and asked ...
A. 24 April 2009: I think it is pretty immature.
Just let him do his personal statement, if you really want to help, tell him.
But dont make a big deal out of it.
... (read in full...)
He has hurt me once and now I feel like I want to hurt him too
Q. Hi, my boyfriend cheated on me last year, and looking back over things i feel as though i have been the biggest fool. At the time of finding out i was devastated and just could not imagine living without him, so i ran after him and talked him i...
A. 24 April 2009: Well, If he wouldn't even fight for you, like you said then why bother staying with him in the first place?
Love makes you do crazy things, there is no need to feel like an idiot. But do fix things now (read: Break up, like an adult.)
But let... (read in full...)
Worlds apart but too close for comfort
Q. I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. However, I have known this other man for 6 years over the internet. We've met up before and it was amazing, although nothing happened, I feel like I've betrayed my boyfriend. I...
A. 22 April 2009: Hey there,
quote; 'He said that he wants me to be happy and if that means I stay with my boyfriend then he's happy for me.'
Do you really believe this? I think this is jut a man trying to get something he wants (you), and targeting you wh... (read in full...)
Its all the same but we're not in a relationship?
Q. Question. My bf of about 4 months broke it off about a month ago. He said he was feeling guilty about not always being there and he felt he wasn't doing his duties as a bf. He was having a hard time balancing his personal life/business an...
A. 22 April 2009: Its very confusing, and people can get hurt. I was in the same situation with my girlfriend, she broke up with me but then this happend, she ended up 'cheating' on me, but acording to her; it was not cheating, we were only friends. Dont... (read in full...)
She seems to have time for friends and other strangers, but not for me...
Q. Hey guys, I not sure about a thing here; Am I being too jealous? My girlfriend seems to have less interest in me. She didn't call, or send me a message on facebook for 2 days. Usually we talk every day, But she messages this other guy; Finishing ...
A. 21 April 2009: I dont know, She turend me into a pushover.
I sometimes I try confronting her with stuff like this, She once called me an jealous a-hole, because i asked something about her going out with friends. (turned out she and her friend went out somewher... (read in full...)
How do I know if its true love?
Q. WHat do i do my Boyfriend always tells me how much he loves me and people always says he means it but how exactelly do i know its TRUE love i mean he does spent alot of time with me and is really protective and treats me like his girlfriend but i ...
A. 17 April 2009: let me get honest with you; You will never know for sure.
The main thing in a relationship is trust. You need to trust your boyfriend, if he spents alot of time with you and tells you he loves you, why do you question this?
I think your boyfr... (read in full...)
She broke up with me because of something my mom said!
Q. my girl friend just broke up wit me cus my mom said somthing to her but i love her she is my world nd now i just wnt to die cause i cnt haver her i hate my life now wat should i do ...
A. 17 April 2009: I don't know what your mom said. But if your mom did not say anything inappropriate, then sorry to say mate, but your girlfriend is a bitch.
However, if your mom told her something like; that you were dishonest to her in any way, then its the othe... (read in full...)
I love her but she makes me jealous - How do I fix it?
Q. I was walking with my girlfriend of 4 months now and we have gotten pretty serious. We love each other and I tell her that as much as i possibly can (not in a... creepy way). So she is beautiful and has tons of guy friends... I am not that jealous ...
A. 4 April 2009: Yeah I am in kind of the same situation here. My grilfriend has alot of guy-friends too, she talks about them sometimes. But anyway I know she loves me, and I offer something her guy-friends cant.
And besides, if she wanted to cheat, nothing ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to tell her that I'm sexually frustrated?
Q. Hey guys, I want to ask one question; Is it disrespectfull to tell your girlfriend that you are sexually frustrated? Well I am 17 years old, and my girlfriend is 16. We are dating for like 10 months now. I haven't ever foreced her to have ...
A. 3 April 2009: Well actually , we have been physical few weeks ago, We are like once every month or so, maybe even more. I just wanted to talk to her about this, but she got mad instantly.... (read in full...)
Unwanted but eager to be in a relationship
Q. Anyone out there is having the same problem as mine? I'm terribly depressed dat i'm still single.Frankly i am really yearning to be in a relationship so much.Well,i'm still very young i know(i'm just a teenage girl),but my friends around me are invo...
A. 3 April 2009: I found it funny that you mentioned; Why guys wont choose you to fall in love with.
First of all, We dont choose to fall in love, it just happens.
And like jezebele said, if you feel self assured, This will show on the outside too. Get a littl... (read in full...)
Is it ok to tell her that I'm sexually frustrated?
Q. Hey guys, I want to ask one question; Is it disrespectfull to tell your girlfriend that you are sexually frustrated? Well I am 17 years old, and my girlfriend is 16. We are dating for like 10 months now. I haven't ever foreced her to have ...
A. 3 April 2009: Actually , we are not having 'sex', as in intercourse. When we are alone, she often doesnt feel like making-out or doing sexual stuff.
I am kind of upset that i hurt her feelings, but on the other hand i was kind of honest with her, she often te... (read in full...)
It still haunts me, because I am very insecure.
Q. Hey guys, Lets start my story with a brief history of my problem; My girlfriend cheated on me about two months ago, i was devestated, but she claimed it was a big mistake (she made out with somebody at a party.) Anyway she is never in touch w...
A. 19 March 2009: I agree jessica, I cant controle her, if she decides to cheat on me, she will no matter what. But i think she knows what she will lose.
I do love her, and I am very willing to giver her another shot.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has anorexia. How do I help her?
Q. Hello guys, I've got a big issue here. I don't have a clue how to deal with it, my girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, we had a break once and she kind of cheated on me then, Anyway I got over that part, she really needed me...
A. 2 March 2009: First of all thank you all for all your advice, I really felt better when i read it all. So everyone, including me agrees that she should see a therapist. But i dont know how, her parents dont know either. They want to put her at an eating disord... (read in full...)
What does she want? Are we FWB? Are we dating again?
Q. Dear Cupid, My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago, but two days ago she texted me how much she misses me and stuff, then she came over at my place. We cuddled and just talked in bed, no sexual stuff. We didnt talk about us getting back tog...
A. 28 January 2009: Thanks evereyone for the advice, I ended the FWB relationship. I love that girl so much, but it felt like she was using me like this. It just felt like breaking up again. I veel very miserable now, but i think this is the best way out. Im stil... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always seems too busy to talk with me these days...
Q. Me and my girlfriend are together for over 6 months now. I am 17 years old and she is 15 years old. She acts very diffrent towards me these days, and I'm very insecure about it. I can't stop thinking that she is cheating on me or something like ...
A. 6 January 2009: Thanks for the answer. I got exams coming up next week, so i have to focus on school right now, ill just leave her alone for a week or two, and then hopefully we can talk and see whats going to happen.... (read in full...)
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