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*rBrightside90
writes:Dear Cupid,My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago, but two days ago she texted me how much she misses me and stuff, then she came over at my place. We cuddled and just talked in bed, no sexual stuff. We didnt talk about us getting back together, we just had a good time. I asked her what is up with us, are we back together? But she just told me she wants to be friends, 'a little more than friends.' Thats what she told me. Now this seems one of a male's fantasy; 'friends with benefits.' But I really love her and I dont know if i am into that kind of relationship. We go to college together, she kissed me at school, hugged and we smoked a cigarette. Just like the old times, like nothing happened.My question is; What does she want? It seems like we are back together, but she claims she wants to be friends with benefits, but still she makes comments like; your the sweetest, and all that kind of stuff. We were 6 months together, than we broke up for 2 weeks, and now, i dont know whats going on now. Thanks,
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reader, MrBrightside90 +, writes (28 January 2009):
MrBrightside90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks evereyone for the advice, I ended the FWB relationship. I love that girl so much, but it felt like she was using me like this. It just felt like breaking up again. I veel very miserable now, but i think this is the best way out. Im still not sure. Losing a loved one is always hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): I know the feeling mate, my ex did the same sort of thing.
She finished with me and told me she missed me a few days later. We ended up sleeping together a couple of times about two weeks after the break up and then a day or two later I saw her getting close to another guy at a bar and it hurt like hell.
I'd say talk to her about it. If she's after FWB and your not comportable with it, end it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): Thanks for that advice, i think you are right. She shouldn't play with my feelings if she really loves me. I guess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): im pretty sure she wants fwb again. talk to her about it if you are not into that. i had a fwb relationship and the guy did exactly what she is doing, cuddling with me, calling me beautiful etc. in hopes of once again sleeping with me. if that is all she wants, then you might as well end it now because it will hurt so much more in the future. trust me I KNOW!! good luck :)
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