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Boyfriend has jealousy issues

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Question - (27 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2009)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Hello, everybody!

Most of my friends are guys, ages 14-17 (I'm 15) and my bf (14) seems to dislike it. I don't think it's that he doesn't trust me--he doesn't trust THEM. My ex and I are very close, and I know of a few of my friends that just broke up with their gfs and seem interested in me.

Maybe I'm being conceited, but I'm not sure.

My bf is clearly jealous sometimes, but he won't ever admit it. How do we get around my other friends, and how can my bf overcome this denial-of-jealousy issue?

Thanks so much!

-GG

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009):

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Thank you for the responses, that was fast!

No, I don't think the jealousy is a good thing--our relationship is in a healthier place than that, I think. I get jealous easier than he does, but he has more reasons, I think.

And, ya, I definitely think that reassuring him is the best way to go, but how do I do that? I'm kind of a natural flirt by nature. I don't act like this on purpose, it just happens, and then I feel guilty for something I can help.

Thanks again!

-GG

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A male reader, MrBrightside90 Netherlands +, writes (27 April 2009):

You are a sweet girl, my girlfriend just tells me to shut up when she is meeting boys and I am jealouse.

Just reassure your boyfriend that he has nothing to be worried about, be sweet to him for a while, he might feel more love from you and then he will be less worried about other guys.

Good luck :)

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (27 April 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntHe has to admit he has a problem before he can overcome it. The question is though, do you thrive on that jealousy?

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