Am I enough for my porn-addicted boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend won't stop watching porn. He said it's not the girls or sound that turns him to it but the story of how they got their (Blackmail, bribe, etc). The problem is in my past relationships a lot of bad things have happen with porn. It hurt...
A. 21 April 2010: I wouldnt give him the courtesy of a real conversation in contrast to the poster before, play hard ball
Walk away from him for a week stop somewhere else minimise contact, and then go back to him and say, i know you felt like nothing when i walked... (read in full...)
How can I accept my boyfriends past when he has given me an STD?
Q. I've been having a lot of trouble in dealing with my fiance's past. He is 28, and I am 20 and he was the first man that I had ever been with sexually. However, he has had sex with almost 40 other women in his past, including 9 one night stands. I do ...
A. 21 April 2010: He's playing you love, no one sleeps with that many at the age of 28 and keeps it in their pants during a long term relationship.
The past is the past i agree but the past is also a good indicator of the future
Move on to a better sort of guy... (read in full...)
Obsessed with my housemate!
Q. I'm not one to usually share but am slowly driving myself crazy with this problem. I moved in to a house share about 2years ago and it was great except I soon fancied one of my housemates. Despite getting on great he never showed any obvious signs ...
A. 21 April 2010: Be straight with the guy... tell him plain and simple or ask him what he thinks of you and just before he answers the question spill the beans, this will catch him off guard encouraging the truth and also take the pressure away from you
Good ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared that my life is going to be ruined!
Q. I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now and almost a month ago we did it one time without a condom; he pulled out.. I'm so scared. I haven't started and am almost a week late. My periods are irregular tho so ...
A. 21 April 2010: This is what you get for irresponsible actions at a young age im afraid, its a learning curve that i wish many people didnt put themselves through but there you go, such is life.
Grow up and get a pregnancy test... (read in full...)
Is it the weed or what?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now .. And we've tried to have sex 3 times .. And every time the condom goes on .. He just loses his erection .. However .. When we're doing our lil foreplay (masturbating .. etc) Everything is fine .. He do...
A. 21 April 2010: Well the likelihood is is that its neither the weed nor you, although from my recollection of biology at school weed and other drugs can effect blood circulation, and the hormones/stimulants in the brain.
But, the likelihood is, id feel inclined... (read in full...)
My boyfriend forgot my name at an important event
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. His best friend from childhood was having a birthday party. I haven't met his best friend prior to the party. My boyfriend told me it was a big deal to meet his best friend. It was ...
A. 20 April 2010: At the end of the day its probably the over excitement of him introducing you to a part of his life that you've not seen, he was probably nervous and excited. I wouldnt take offence to something as small as that unless my girlfriend forgot my name ... (read in full...)
Waking up from a dream crying?
Q. So, just a quick question. Have any of you ever had a really odd dream and woke up with a jolt and found yourself crying? I cannot remember many details in this dream. The only thing i do remember is a voice speaking to me very softly. And then...
A. 20 April 2010: I havent experienced it myself but it those types of dreams if they have a deeper meaning will re-occur and maybe when it re-occurs you will be able to remember more of it. Without getting too Freudian, it is believed (whether you believe or not) ... (read in full...)
I don't trust my girlfriend now she wants to video us having sex...
Q. My Girlfriend has been insisting on to video tape us having sex....I refused. She is kind of mad now. Yeah I asked her why....she said just for memory. I didnt buy that idea. After a couple of months or years I might be on porn sites. pls if u have ...
A. 28 November 2009: Soon2b PPD - im guessing your video made it onto the internet?
Same as all things sexual, dont let anyone tell you what you want to do.
Because only you know whats right for you... (read in full...)
I've had bad luck with guys - any tips to keep this new one?
Q. So here's the story: I'm 24 and have been in several small relationships (a few months or less) and one 2 year relationship about 3 1/2 years ago. Our relationship ended very badly, he cheated on me several times, and broke my heart. I though...
A. 28 November 2009: If you do anything other than be yourself at some point your guard will slip, your charade will falter and he will leave you because you appeared to change
so just be yourself and if the relationship isnt right for you it isnt right
simples... (read in full...)
How do I act when my girlfriend gives me a blow job?
Q. My girlfriend wants to give me head or bj (i think there the same thing but whatever) because she wants to make me "happy" and she is persitant about it so when she does how am i suppose to react?...
A. 28 November 2009: That said, she may feel rejected if you dont act like you like it
Its true though, its not for everyone and theres only one way to find out... (read in full...)
Sex with husband is just getting bad and he won't change his technique!
Q. [Mod note: I'm guessing this person is not actually 14.] I'm not enjoying sex with my husband and this is getting worse over the past 5 years. It is not that I don't enjoy sex (I have had some other 'engagements') or that I don't love my husband....
A. 28 November 2009: Maybe you should explain your frustrations in a soft approach, men can take it very personally if they think they are doing something wrong
You could maybe introduce a toy into your relationship/sex life so that while he gets himself "ready f... (read in full...)
Sex in the car didn't feel right to him...what's going on?
Q. ok, so heres alittle backround..i have been with him for two years, and we had sex for the first time a year and a half ago. We have never had problems with it, and it has never interfered with our relationship. However, we have done it in ...
A. 28 November 2009: Maybe he said he enjoyed it last time just to please you it wouldnt be the first time someone has told a white lie for the benefit of a loved one... (read in full...)
I'm proposing to my wife that we "float" our relationship. What do you think?
Q. My marriage is in serious trouble after 15 years. We have 2.5 years old lovely daughter, which naturally makes things more complex. I am considering proposing that we would "float" our relationship. Here's how I think it could work: We continu...
A. 28 November 2009: All i will say is what a stupid idea!!!!!!!!
Is it just me
I tthink you just want her to be faithful to you without you having to worry about it in the other direction
If you dont want to be with her
divorce her and get custody for... (read in full...)
How can I satisfy myself without having sex with someone else?
Q. hello everyone. i am 14 years old and well I have been experimenting with my body. I touch myself, finger myself, use the shower head... but i dont feel satisfied - and im not going to have sex. What is something i can do to satisfy myself? PLEASE ...
A. 28 November 2009: I would recommend a vibrator too,
Maybe ask a friend to see what they do... (read in full...)
Is this abnormal?
Q. I was just wondering if this is rather weird. I think it is. I was raped when I was younger, but that was nearly 6 years ago now. Now with my boyfriend we like having roleplay sex games (that alone may be considered weird, I don't know) and for so...
A. 28 November 2009: My girlfriend was the same,
Raped 4yrs ago, and for ages we couldnt have sex due to the bruising and other things
But in the last year or so she has very much liked to take on the submissive role, she likes to be pinned down, and have her leg... (read in full...)
I'm craving a threesome, with me and two gorgeous men. How do I make this happen?
Q. I've always had very intense sexual fantasies about being with more than one man at a time (a threesome)... I think about it whenever I masturbate or have sex, it's the only thing that can push me over the edge into orgasm. Unfortunately in my real ...
A. 28 November 2009: Remember.... as good as fantasies are... some fantasies should be left as just a dream... (read in full...)
Forceful sex!
Q. im 16 and ive been hooking up with a guy who's 26 for the last 5 months. it has been good, we just have sex, no dating. we have really good sex up until the last time which was a week ago. he really hurt me and left bruises all over me. he came ...
A. 28 November 2009: I some senses that could be perceived as sexual assault, he did something you didnt want him to do
I think its fair to say you wont be seeing him again
I wont hand his details over to the police and say well clear in future... (read in full...)
Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?
Q. if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?...
A. 28 November 2009: that was definately sex and im sure as much aas hes telling you it wasnt he is sccreaming from the high hills to his mates that it was... (read in full...)
He's in a gang, but a sweet guy. Is he using me for sex?
Q. I met *John during the summer in the middle of July through the internet. We have already met in person and after about 2 and a half months of knowing each other, we began dating, which lasted for about 2 weeks. The reason we broke up is because ...
A. 28 November 2009: Its these 13yr old gang members who steal old ladies handbags, and blame the council their parents the police, david beckham, there brothers mothers cat, that they have nothing else to do but smoke weed commit crime and drop out of school
Dont ... (read in full...)
I'm only 14 and he wants to have sex with me even although he has a girlfriend. Am I being played?
Q. I am fourteen years old and last year I had this "thing" with this guy. He has had a girlfriend for the past six months but now he wants to have sex with me. I really do want to have sex with him and have him be my first but I don't know because he ...
A. 28 November 2009: Not only are you being played but your too young
what is it with this generation, they get to 10-11 and think they can be the next world leader with all the knowledge they have
dont make a mistake your going to regret for the rest of your lif... (read in full...)
I thought my life was full of love. I cherished every moment with him - now that is all destroyed.
Q. I have only married once in my mid 20's. It lasted 6 months. I never remarried until 17 years later. I have been married for 7 years, I thought I was careful with whom I married. After we married I found out I was wifie #6. I have just found out in ...
A. 28 November 2009: It wont make you feel emotionally better in the long term, although taking him for everything he has may make you feel better in the short term.
Its pretty digusting thinking about how he left you and how long it was going on for, he really h... (read in full...)
He has one set of rules for me and another for himself!
Q. I am in a troubled relationship. I am 27 years old and my boyfirend of 3 years is 42. Everything was great in the beginning of our relationship, but now as time goes on he is getting more jealous, i cannot talk to men i can only hang out with 2 ...
A. 28 November 2009: Its called double standards, and its something that you either comply to, and spend the rest of your life under his thumb and his rule, or you stand up for yourself say what you want and if he cant accomodate it you go and find someone who can ... (read in full...)
I only found out his secret fetish after we were married and I can't handle it!
Q. I've been with my husband for ten years, married for 2, just after the I do's I found out his secret fetish and now I don't feel the same way about him. I was so in love but I started finding porn mag's and toys but what's strange about this is ...
A. 28 November 2009: Woooo
that is definately very creepy
i would reconsider my position if i were in your shoes also to be honest
maybe give him the ultimatum.... you or the transvestite scene... (read in full...)
Dating for 3 months and don't know what to get him as a present!
Q. Okay im 13 and my boyfriend is 12 we have been dating for almost 3 months now and i rly rly like him he got me real gold earings with my birth stone in them and i want to get him something just as special for christmas sooo wat do i get him i rly ...
A. 28 November 2009: your 13-15 im sure he would just appreciate a card and a kiss more than anything... (read in full...)
Which is better? Single? Or in a relationship?
Q. Hiya everyone! well basically i want to know what people think is better being single and free with out any commitment or being in a relationship? the reason why is because i have recently been single for the last like 18 months and i have r...
A. 28 November 2009: Im 21 and engaged, I have been having a great time, and I believe that if your with the right person you can have the time of your life until your well into you 70's and 80's
it all depends on who you enjoy being around
anyway whos to sa... (read in full...)
Need help with an English guy
Q. i'm an asian expat in china. i broke up with my ex 7months ago but we have a 1year old kid so we still talk but everything is just about our kid. now here's the prob. i met this english guy in a social networking site and we had been talking ...
A. 28 November 2009: You never will know his true situation and status until you meet him in the flesh
He could be married with a kid, and all of a sudden he has realised how much he has been neglecting his family.
Alternatively maybe he is short on finance at th... (read in full...)
Moving too fast?
Q. okay so i went to the movies with this guy that i really liked and he fingered me then asked me out... was that to soon?? should i take it slower??...
A. 28 November 2009: Your toooooooooooooooooo young??????
Have you ever thought about being more mature... (read in full...)
I know guys do, but do girls cum too?
Q. Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?...
A. 28 November 2009: Yes you ladies do cum, and us men love it when you do... (read in full...)
I have a list, but no woman to match it.
Q. I don't know what I do wrong? I am 21 years old. I graduate with a Bachelors Degree in 3 mo. Live alone in a nice apartment. I work out about 3-4 times a week. I am handsome a leader and usually decently confident. I have NEVER cheat...
A. 28 November 2009: It seems like your dressing yourself up for a dressing down, every man and every woman gets the urge to be romantic every once in a while, and every once in a while every man and every woman want to be damn right straight forward and functional (in ... (read in full...)
I drank, I kissed too many, now they call me a slag
Q. im so confused, im a girl of 16, i went out with a friend last night and had a bit too much to drink, i ended up kissing my ex's best friend and one of his friends,infront of each other, then my ex's friend kissed my best friend straight after. Then ...
A. 28 November 2009: Unfortunately at your age, gossip is gossip, and if you went off for a drive with another man after having a skinful to drink people will start asking questions, like one of the other posters said, you know what you did and didnt do, doesnt matter ... (read in full...)
If I say we can't be friends, will he then chase me for more?
Q. Okay so my ex and I went out for a year and broke up a year ago. I was the one to leave the relationship and he agreed. I tried to get back with him really hard a couple days after the break up but he didn't want to take me back. He also said he ...
A. 28 November 2009: maybe he likes the challenge of getting you back, maybe hes just chasing a dream
but whatever it is if you dont want him, instead of telling him to f**k off just simply ignore any contact he tries to engage in completely.... he will soon get bore... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting about his texts to other women?
Q. I want to trust my man but for whatever reason I decided to check his cell phone. I found that he is still texting other females. He sais there is nothing going on with them but I am not so sure of that. Why would he need to text other females to ...
A. 28 November 2009: Maybe he is playing away
Maybe he isnt playing away
but ask him the question would he like it if you were texting other men behind his back
i think we all know the answer... (read in full...)
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