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writes:I want to trust my man but for whatever reason I decided to check his cell phone. I found that he is still texting other females. He sais there is nothing going on with them but I am not so sure of that. Why would he need to text other females to say goodnight or goodmorning? This one female in particular knows he has a girl but she continues to engage in text convo's with him. I don't know her and I really just learned of her. He says they used to play ball together...not sure if I believe that but that is all I have to go on. Am I overreacting? This may same lame but I guess I am feeling more uneasy because last night he text her goodnight twenty minutes before I got home but I think that is just where the convo ended for the night and may have been going on a lot longer. What makes it worst is he didn't say goodnight to me last night at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): i would also b so suspicious if my bf told a chick good nite
unless u noe for a fact and evidence tat he isnt flirting wit her but just saying good nite as a friend then its ok
but y do then talk every day/nite? tats not normal
ho probably harbors feelings for her
and she for him
watch him.see for ur self if he is flirting wit her
its sort of obvious tat he is probably flirting with her
and later it might get worse
if for fact u know that he likes this other chick
leave him..u dont need someone who thinks about another girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): Rather than him texting other women it's more about him keeping it secret from you that makes it suspicious. If the texts are only friendly then there is likely to be nothing to worry about as they could be just mates however if they become flirty or suggestive then there might be something going on. I know that you have mentioned that you trust him so learn to trust him more otherwise you could destroy your relationship with him.
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reader, mr motivator  +, writes (28 November 2009):
Maybe he is playing away
Maybe he isnt playing away
but ask him the question would he like it if you were texting other men behind his back
i think we all know the answer
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