Why do I miss someone who cares for me so little, and is always very mean? Or better yet how can I fall out of love?
Q. Hey all. I have been in love with the woman of my dreams for a while now. But we also have broken up and been separated for a while now too. She has been with many an me few.... and yet my feelings for her are still strong. She shows no intrest in ...
A. 5 October 2008: it sounds like shes enjoying the chase of still been wanted by you but it also sounds like your obsessed with her. The feelings you are still having for her are common as it sounds like she was your first love and trying to get over your first ... (read in full...)
How can I make her feel comfortable having oral?
Q. this girl of mine is quite religious and she believes in sex after marriage and i respect that..however whenever we make out that includes sucking her nipples *she loves it..but when it comes to playing with her pussy i can see she like it loads but ...
A. 22 September 2008: Shes doing his because shes enjoying it so much that shes going to give in to her frustrations and have sex which to her means betraying her religions. Try and talk to her about and ask her how she feels this might help your situation.... (read in full...)
What causes water to come out of my vagina?
Q. Hi all. Well, here's my case. I visited my bf for the week end and we started having sex from that night. I never had a problem until Sunday morning when it felt sore when he enters me, i actually felt like his penis had grown bigger or my hole has ...
A. 22 September 2008: sounds as if you have cystitus which is caused by alot or too much sex its best just to let it heal with some cream from your doctor on which he will advise to let the vagina heal before you have sexual intercourse again... (read in full...)
Am I just causing myself a headache to believe in the stars?
Q. Oh, this is kinda like an astrology question. I'm a Virgo and my boyfriend is Libra. I've had a lot of readings everywhere and people saying that the two are not a match made in heaven. But what me and my boyfriend have seems to be totally real and ...
A. 22 September 2008: well im a libra and my boyfriend is a virgo and we get on fantastic we have been together for two years now and things couldnt be better. It sounds like you two are very much in love so just ignore what people say and enjoy your lives together.... (read in full...)
I'm worried my stretchmarks will wreck my relationship with him.
Q. I have a problem, i have stretchmarks on the top of my legs. my boyfriend doesnt no about it, but i dont want to have sex with him incase he does see them. i am worried that it is going to wreck the relationship. Does anyone have any advice on what...
A. 22 September 2008: If your boyfriend cant accept you as you are then what kind of relationship are you in? Ask him what his thoughts are on stretch marks before you decide to sleep with him you might find that it will put your mind at ease especially if he loves you. ... (read in full...)
Should I wreck their relationship so I can have him?
Q. ok so there is this boy and we are both 13 he is my nextdoor nieghbor! I really like him and he flirts with me all the time. even my parents like him but he has a girfriend and i want to go out with him so bad it makes me feel so sad when i see them ...
A. 22 September 2008: no because your going to cause alot of hurt and you will be the one to blame. Its best just being his friend for now and just see what the future holds but if you decide to go ahead and break them up YOU will be the one he will hate in the long ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend going to propose? He took me to see wedding rings, booked us at a very nice restaurant, etc.
Q. Hey it Just2Love...but i changed everything to Made2Love... What should i do if Vincent asks me to marry him? The first ring was out of love and surprize. Days ago he took me out to look at more rings... but i kept looking at other stu...
A. 20 September 2008: How nice, it sounds like hes definitely going to propose to you . Hes doing everything that matches to proposing my friends boyfriend done exactly the same. The question is have you recently argued if not then its a proposal alright. Good luck ... (read in full...)
He got drunk and made out with another girl. Do I give him a second chance?
Q. My boyfriend and me went a bar together. Well he end up getting drunk off his a$$ (I don't really drink.) I went to the bathroom. I get back and he was making out another girl. I did took him home before he do something more stupid. My question is...
A. 20 September 2008: If i were in this situation i would probably give him another chance if hes never done anything like that before. I think its best if you sit him down and talk it through because it really needs to be resolved first before you even think about ... (read in full...)
What do I do if I want to marry my fiance but he's technically married to someone else?
Q. What do I do if I want to get married Now to my Fiance but he is still techinally married to someone else? ...
A. 20 September 2008: You will have to wait until his divorce comes through because if you marry him while hes still married he will be commiting bigamy which means if he gets caught he could go to prison for a long time which means you will have to wait even longer to ... (read in full...)
What classifies as an "active" sex life? Just curious?
Q. How much times do you have to have sex in a week to have an active sexual life??...
A. 17 September 2008: To have an active sex life its roughly 3 times a week. An active sex life means you have lost your virginity which means you are sexually active... (read in full...)
How do you find a decent man? One who doesn't just want you for sex?
Q. How do you find a decent man? who doesnt just want you for sex? How do you know when they are telling the truth and not just trying to get into your knickers? coz I dont have a clue, and neither does anyone else I know. Please help, Im starting to f...
A. 16 September 2008: First of all dont look for a decent man cos it will take longer let him come to you and it might happen quicker than what you think.
From previous experience if he tries to get you into bed DONT because if you do that some men find that unattrac... (read in full...)
Being cheated for 3 years, want out now. What type of financial support can I get from my husband for me and my child?
Q. I found out my husband cheated on my when our son BeBe was just 4 weeks, he is going to be 3 this Oct. The other woman just gave birth to my husband child 3 month ago. After almost three years of sharing my husband with the other woman, there is n...
A. 16 September 2008: I would suggest that you go and see someone who will help you get child maintenance because thats one thing you are entitled to and what he has to pay as the father. Ask him about it first of all and see if you can come up with some kind of payment ... (read in full...)
She hasn't spoken to me or returned any of my calls since she found the porn mag!! What can I do?
Q. My girlfriend is an ardent feminist who strongly advocates that all women should be totally independent, financially and otherwise. I agree with her but difficulties have arisen lately. Two weeks ago, she found a Playboy magazine in my room and went ...
A. 15 September 2008: This girl obviously has insecurities about herself and that is why she is acting this way, she is acting like an immature little girl its not like you have cheated is it. You are going to have to reach some sort of agreement about this as its going ... (read in full...)
My ex has me utterly humiliated by revealing intimate details about me and our sex life to... anyone who will listen! How do I get revenge?
Q. I recently went through a messy break-up with a girl who I'd been dating for two years. After the break up, she started revealing certain intimate details about me to members of my family and pretty much anyone else who'll listen. She's divulged ...
A. 15 September 2008: The best revenge is not to respond to what she is doing and totally ignore her she is only trying to strive on the attention she thinks she is getting, im sure everybody thinks shes a sad little girl deep down inside. I would go out and look for a ... (read in full...)
If you are happily married, how can you fall for someone else?
Q. How can a person be happily married, yet fall for someone else? If the person is happily married then they wouldn't have committed any acts to have fallen in love with someone other than their spouse to begin with, right?...
A. 15 September 2008: This is a case of where you have to work out if you are really happily married because it is normal to have feelings for someone else but not to fall in love with them if you are happily married. I suggest you sit down and really figure out if you ... (read in full...)
I can control the orgasm but the problem is that when I'm ready my penis retracts, is this normal?
Q. Hi, I can maintain my erection but the problem is when I'm ready to explode my penis retract or becomes small while inside the vagina and this is according to my gf. I usually notice this with my fast rhythm but my penis is fully erect and big wh...
A. 15 September 2008: Do you worry about doing this before you feel yourself getting ready to ejaculate? If you do then this could be causing the problem. Whenever your making love next time dont think about it and see if your penis does the exact same thing if it does ... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend realise that I'm more important than anything else and to quit smoking?
Q. my boyfriend likes to smoke but i dont want him to smoke.every now and then so i permitted him to smoke once in 2 months..but he cant wait...for him smoke is more important than me..i said him that i dont need him if he cant live without ...
A. 15 September 2008: you cant keep giving him ultimatums like this cos in the long run he will get sick of you keep nagging at him. If he wants to quit smoking then the best thing for him to do is limit himself to a few cigarettes a day and that will really help him ... (read in full...)
They'll only be able to see each other every other weekend, can this work?
Q. Hi just a quick question about distant relationships, iv got a friend who has met a really amazing girl who lives about 1 hours 30mins drive away, and they see each other like every other weekend, will this work? and can they work if any one is in ...
A. 12 September 2008: of course it can work if they have very strong feeling for one another then they can make it work. Im sure they can keep in touch by texts, phonecalls and e-mails etc. If it all goes well and after a while they might even want to move to where the ... (read in full...)
Do I have to live with this guy, or should I dump him? There's a baby involved...
Q. My boyfriend,is cheatiing on me with different girls, i tried to accept the fact that he is cheating. but the other time he wrote one of the girls im working with a love message. it real hurt me, i tried so hard to put it behind me and told him that ...
A. 12 September 2008: you should dump this guy immediately because you have let it go already which means he thinks he will be able to do what the hell he wants and he will because he doesent care about hurting your feelings. This so called man does not deserve someone ... (read in full...)
I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?
Q. I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...
A. 11 September 2008: sorry about the situation you are in but you really are going to have to tell your parents as you cant go through this by yourself hunny. Theres a chance they will be mad and it might take them a while to adjust to the fact that you are pregnant ... (read in full...)
What are the chances of deformity??
Q. well i am in love with my moms cousins youngest son.. is that wrong and can we be and what are the chances of deformity?? STORY i know what you guys think your too young to know what love is but one of my fa...
A. 11 September 2008: I cant believe a young girl like you who 13-15 years of age is thinking about children and marriage already you should be concentrating on your school work. It is not wrong to be thinking that though and you are allowed to be in love with your moms ... (read in full...)
My boss's sister is recently giving false reports about me, which is affecting my professional life as well as my terms with my bosses! Please help!
Q. I have been working in this office from past 7+years. I worked hard and proved my skills to my bosses during my tenant.But now from few months, my boss's sister has started coming to the office. She lacks practical knowledge but trying to beco...
A. 11 September 2008: im so sorry you are being put through this but this so called girl is probably jealous of the way you work and that you are good at what you do so shes trying to destroy that by mking false accusations aboout you to make herself look better. Shes ... (read in full...)
I'm too afraid to stand up to her because I don't want to lose her! How can I do this without appearing 'bitchy'?
Q. I first met this woman through a close relative, we started talking over the net and then met up a few times for a couple of drinks. We've been getting to know each other for a couple of months now, she's not quite ready for a relationship yet ...
A. 10 September 2008: but you will have to say something because you cant stay in a relationship while you feel like this you will have to talk to her and just explain how you feel. It sounds like shes a very impatient person and doesent like it when anybody else puts ... (read in full...)
My period is late and I'm scared. Help please!
Q. Please help me. Im 15, 16 in early november and I recently had sex for the first time. Now I have done it around 3 or 4 times, but my boyfriend only came twice out of those times. Of course we used condoms each time, and at the end he said he ...
A. 10 September 2008: your period could be late because your stressing yourself out about being pregnant. After a month i had very sore breasts and by the 2nd month i was getting awful morning sickness thats how i knew i was pregnant, if you give yourself another week ... (read in full...)
Why fret so much on appearance?
Q. Honestly...i dont get it...So many people fret about thier appearence, a lot. Understandable, but i mean the "Im not pretty enough for him" or "There are better looking guys" ect. ect. Why do looks matter. Cant we love each other as we are? Im a bit ...
A. 10 September 2008: there are alot of people out there who are very shallow,this means that they have very high expectations of how a person should look. People just dont realise whats inside which mean this person could not be very handsome but will know how to treat ... (read in full...)
She said he was "pervy"-What did she mean?
Q. I was talking with one of my best girlfriends, Lindsay. She went out with one of my best boyfriends Ray. She claims to of left him because he was "pervy". I dont get it, what did she mean. I've known Ray for over a year....im soo lost, some one help ...
A. 10 September 2008: she said this because shes jealous of the relionship you and ray have which means she obviously still likes him,try and ask her what she meant by saying something awful like that, i think this girl needs to grow up and realise that she will end up ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to feel that "someday" I will be with him when I'm already married?
Q. I have been married for 6 years. We have 5 boys (from different marriages). We love each other. Recently I met up with a past love and rekindled feelings, plus more. We know that I can't and don't want to divorce, but I really love this other ...
A. 9 September 2008: not at all but do you really love your husband if you love your past love aswell? Its so important that you think about this very carefully because if you decide to throw away your marriage away for a past love then it could backfire because this ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that if I choose one of them, the other one will get hurt! What can I do?
Q. This boy says he realy likes me and i realy like him but this other says he likes me and i like him aswell i dont know what to do!!! if i go out with one boy its going to hurt the other boys feelings!!!! what shall i do??...
A. 9 September 2008: i think you should just stay friends with both of these boys until you discover which boy you really do have feelings for its not good to destroy a friendship over the feelings you are feeling for both of these boys. If you choose one boy over the ... (read in full...)
Are my lack of emotions getting out of hand?
Q. Is my lack of emotion getting out of hand? I'm younger and in the military, no I have not been to the desert, but I was in the meditteranean if that helps. But ive been married for about 5 months now, I knew my wife for about a year. Im still ...
A. 9 September 2008: maybes you feel like this because you have been through thiseperience before when you were younger or maybes theres alot on your mind right now and you cant deal with everything been thrown on top of you at the same time, why dont you sit down with ... (read in full...)
Should I give him the time he asks for although I really want to marry and have kids??
Q. I have been in a relationship for just over a year. We have known eachother longer for nearly a year and a half, but came together just a year or so ago. Although the relationship was long distance at first, we made time to see each other always, ...
A. 9 September 2008: before the 2 of you moved in together you really should have sat down and talked about what the future holds because that would have saved you moving to a completely different country and not knowing that he wanted the complete opposite to what you ... (read in full...)
I want to move out and have a baby with my bf...how do I go about this???
Q. I am 15 years old, I live with my mom and 14 year old sister. I have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for six months now, and he wants me to move in with him and he and I want to have a baby. We both feel ready for this. And I know its a big resp...
A. 9 September 2008: i really think you need to think things through properly you definitely are to young to have a baby i had a little boy when i was 19 and it is very hard and if you do decide to have a baby you really need to look at what having a baby entails its ... (read in full...)
I met some sex people at a Cancun club and can't get it out of my head!
Q. So about a week ago while in Cancun on vacation with a friend I was at Cocobongo when this very attractive woman gave me a stare from across the room. This is when I should have known something was up, after all there were about 2,500 people in this ...
A. 9 September 2008: Que Rico means that something smells rich, this man gets off on watching his wife having sexual intercourse with other men, maybes her husband doesent like her having sex with him or she could have giving birth previously, there are alot of reasons ... (read in full...)
Is masturbation a sin?
Q. I am a christian who masterbates. I want to know whether masterbation is a sin or not. please help....
A. 9 September 2008: hello ive just been reading a few things to your question and to my suprise it doesent mention anything about masturbation for a christian. My advice to you is to try and dig out some research and take it from there but im pretty sure that there is ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway to have a secret relationship? all I'm worried about is her dad finding out!
Q. I have been seeing this girl for 4 months now and currently we have broken up cause of her parents. We love each other so much. Is there like anyway to have a secret relationship?All i'm worried about is her dad finding out....
A. 9 September 2008: awww that sounds awful, but if you both love each other very much then i wouldnt keep it from her parents because they wont see how in love you are and it will definitely affect you in the long run. If i were you i would prove to her parents how ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me some advice on teasing, please?
Q. I've got a girlfriend (I am agirl as well) And I'd like some tips on how to tease her, I'm afraid I'm a little inexperienced in that feild....
A. 9 September 2008: start by slowly undressing her, then give her gentle soft kisses around the neck area, you could also try slowly making your way down her belly using your tongue. Then when your near the vagina area give her little kisses on her inner thighs then ... (read in full...)
I'm always the bridesmaid but never the bride!
Q. i am in high school and i have never had a boyfriend, i have lots of guys who are friends, but i am always the friend and nothing more. please help..thanks....
A. 8 September 2008: most guys might just see you as a friend because of the way you dress act and some might not think your girlfriend material because you might act a certain way when you are around them. Why dont you try by dressing differently and acting differently ... (read in full...)
Should I send him packing after what's happened? Is this fair?
Q. Hi, I'm in my junior year of college right now in a three bedroom apartment. The problem is that I have a third roomate, my ex-boyfriend that I'd been seeing almost four years. Previously I had been living with him for the past two years rent-free ...
A. 8 September 2008: hunny im so sorry your going through this. This guy is a complete pig hes trwating you like a doormat he sees nothing wrong at all with what hes doing to you but he must be enjoying it if hes still doing it. You dont owe this pig anything he is ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to change his mind?
Q. The man i'm dating although he is caring for me and he shows his feelings he constantly refuses that there will be a serious commitment for us in the future. When we discuss this subject always he refuses a future for us. Is there a possibility to ...
A. 8 September 2008: in this case the man your seeing could have a dark secret meaning he might already be in another relationship and doesent want you to know and could just be stringing you along for the fun of it. If i were you i would dump this man and start living ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex. Could I still be pregnant?
Q. Hello. I'm a 17-year old female with a slightly odd problem (at least, i think it is..) Basically, I haven't menstruated since around July-ish (maybe... i can scarcely remember; but I did have two periods this summer). I'm about 110 lb, and I'm...
A. 8 September 2008: hello, because uve only done few sexual things and never been intimate with another man you can't be pregnant, the only way you could be pregnant is if sexual intercourse has taken place which in your case it hasn't and if you have only done ... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend want to have a threesome with another guy? Is he bisexual?
Q. my boyfriend of 3 years wants me to do a 3 some with him, but not with a girl, with a guy! when we werent' serious we had a threesome with my bestfriend he didnt have sex with her but yeah, we did. and now he's saying he wants me to have sex with...
A. 8 September 2008: not necessarily, some men like to see his girl with another man as it can really turn him on and other men like to see there girl with another woman for the same reason or they could just be curious as theymight not have done it before and want to ... (read in full...)
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