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male
age
36-40,
*raig c
writes:Hey all. I have been in love with the woman of my dreams for a while now. But we also have broken up and been separated for a while now too. She has been with many an me few.... and yet my feelings for her are still strong. She shows no intrest in me or even how im doing at all anymore and yet she is still every other thought in my head.... what she's doing, wearing, if she's happy or sad, smiling or frowning... etc. She does not say I love you any more an we haven't spoken in 4 days. Several times she said she does not want me anymore quite literally and yet I still miss her with all of my heart. Why do I miss someone who cares for me so little, and is always very mean? Or better yet how can I fall out of love? I've busied myself, exercised, even dated, an yet nothing works. What's wrong with me?
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reader, miss know it all  +, writes (5 October 2008):
it sounds like shes enjoying the chase of still been wanted by you but it also sounds like your obsessed with her. The feelings you are still having for her are common as it sounds like she was your first love and trying to get over your first love takes time it doesent just happen over night. My advice to you would be get back out there with your mates and go clubbing just try and enjoy life and slowly but gradually your feelings towards her will start to disappear and before you know it you will realise that you are not thinking about her as much as what you used to be. Good luck i know you will get there in the end. x
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