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writes: I was talking with one of my best girlfriends, Lindsay. She went out with one of my best boyfriends Ray. She claims to of left him because he was "pervy". I dont get it, what did she mean. I've known Ray for over a year....im soo lost, some one help me!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts just he's the kind of guy that will love you, kiss you, and hug you until your happy. He would try anything else. Since they were a LDR He wouldnt ask her to do anything sexual, or something like that...atleast he doesnt seem like it..i dont know, i'll ask Lindsay and see whats up..once i know i'll update.
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (10 September 2008):
 I think her comment comes from self-esteem issues.
He may have told her that she is actually beautiful and she took that compliment negatively. Like I told you, a lot of girls will misuse the word "pervy" and a lot will use it for guys who will make the slightest sexual reference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAll 3 of us know each other from the interent (Lindsay met Ray because me kinda oops)...Anyays we live no where near to each other either. But i mean he doesnt seem like he would be that type of guy. Everytime Ray would compliment her, she would say thats he's lieing about it. I dont know im lost in this, and cant cope.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (10 September 2008):
Pervy= perverted.
She could have based that from a lot of things. A lot of girls your age misuse that word and apply it to guys who shouldn't deserve it.
On the top of my head, she may have based that from:
-He probably watches porn and he told her or she caught him
-He probably asked her to feel her up and she disagreed.
-He wanted a kiss and she didn't
-He made a vague sexual comment about someone.
-He may like a teacher.
If you know Ray for years and you know that he's not a pervert, then just don't pay attention to your friend. You take your judgment based on YOUR experience with your friend Ray and disregard what she said.
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reader, miss know it all  +, writes (10 September 2008):
she said this because shes jealous of the relionship you and ray have which means she obviously still likes him,try and ask her what she meant by saying something awful like that, i think this girl needs to grow up and realise that she will end up losing 2 friends hope everything works out for you
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