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anonymous
writes:I recently went through a messy break-up with a girl who I'd been dating for two years. After the break up, she started revealing certain intimate details about me to members of my family and pretty much anyone else who'll listen. She's divulged every embarrassing sexual matter relating to me she can think of and it's causing me huge trouble because I live in a very small community and now more or less everyone in my social circle knows the most intimate -and frequently embarrassing - aspects of my sex life and love life. She's left me utterly humiliated and I want to find an original way of getting revenge on her. Any suggestions? Something novel would be welcome.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Turn it round. Laugh it off and tell anyone who will listen that you must be soooo hot if she cant stop talking about the sex. At the end of the day you are no longer together and for some reason she is bitter about this. Move on and forget about her there will be some new gossip in a few days and everyone will forget all about this x
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reader, miss know it all +, writes (15 September 2008):
The best revenge is not to respond to what she is doing and totally ignore her she is only trying to strive on the attention she thinks she is getting, im sure everybody thinks shes a sad little girl deep down inside. I would go out and look for a hotter girl and prove that you are really over her because she will get so jealous but dont rub it in her face as she will know you are responding to what she has been doing to you all this time. Shes probably still in love with you and is doing this because she thinks it will help her get over you. I hope everything works out for you and when shes realised that she is not getting to you she will stop. Good luck
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reader, Mark25 +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Don't try and get revenge. It usually backfires and makes you look as pathetic as the person who's telling everyone. Don't bring yourself down to their level. Hold your head up high and deny everything saying that she's making these things up because she's a sad individual. Gossip's only gossip for five minutes. People get bored with gossip very easily and sooner or later there'll be another piece of gossip about someone else that'll get them talking and you'll be old news. Just sit it out and it'll be forgotten about.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Frankly, the best revenge is living well and holding your head up high. Don't get me wrong, if the opportunity came up (through kismet) and you could get a lick in, I'm sure that no one would find fault with you. BUT, wanting revenge and plotting and planning it is just "hating" and a big waste of your time. It will just make you dwell on things and expand your hatred of her and all of that hate will just sit and fester and eat away at your soul.
Forget about her.
She is the big loser here, by doing something so rotten and disloyal. I wonder who would even be interested in dating her after seeing how well she behaves if she is crossed!!! Yes? NOBODY! I'll bet if you live in a small community, she has damaged her future prospects even more by her vindictive indiscretion. What guy would want to risk dating her NOW and incur all of that wrath? She certainly has shown everyone in your community what SHE is made of!
Anyways, I am QUITE sure it would hurt her ego more if you acted like it wasn't anything and moved on to a new girl (and a hotter one...). I'm sorry, Hun, but trust me, not every woman is THIS bitchy. Good Luck!
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