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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeey im back, well i've been back for a few days now. It was lovely...cold, but lovely. Thanks Diovan.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): Congratulations Made2love.. I hope you have a lovely holiday.... I wishing you and Vincent all the happiness in the world..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh wow.......he asked..i said yes! but i had told him i would really like to wait, and he is fine with that. Well im going to the coast the 28th and wont be back until....sometime in October.... i dont think i will have any more questions...But thank you for everything!
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reader, babewithbrains  +, writes (21 September 2008):
 Just say youre not ready, babe.
It's a simple ennough request. "Lets not get tied down with sprogs until we can afford it and are sure we're ready."
My Parents were engaged for 5 years before my Mum agreed to marry Dad. it's good because they have been maried for 18 years this month and barely argue. Unfortunately it means they do uterly revolting stuff when they think I'm asleep even though I have warned them I'll move out if they make me the deprived middle child. Thank god we're not catholic...
All I can say is that at this point you cn't take it too slow. Good luck.
Jelly
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes we ive together...i wanna say 2months? i lot track. What can i say that will convince him to slow down?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008): Theydo live together...says so in her column.
best wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI will say yes...just what do i say after i do? I'd like to wait a year or maybe two years after the engagement.
Diovan...Remember my question about the baby? We're waitting until im ready. But its not me rushing.....its him...i love Vincent very much... but sometimes he cant slow down... Do you have any advice to me to get him to slow down...i've told him he needed to, but nothings happend. Im afraid if i say a little to much to be slow, he'll post pone everything. I dont want that, hes worked hard for what he has done this past week.
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (20 September 2008):
He is probably scared witless that you might say know if he does...
I would recomend that you get engaged for a long time and live together to make sure you are ready.
Jelly
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): Hey Just2love, you know Vincent cares about you very much, and a proposal seems like it is on the table. However you know how I feel about how fast things are going between you two. If he dose propose, you could say yes of course. You love him and he loves you, there is no problems there. But please babes, make your engagement very, very long. You and him barely know each other and a quick marriage whilst you still are so young might actually spoil the good relationship that you have developed. Remember what they say, marry in haste, repent in leisure. You haven't been together long enough to think of babies or marriages yet. If he loves you now, he will still love you next year. Wait until your both a little older and you've been together for at least a year before you start thinking about marriage and babies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): Say Yes!!!! lol x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): if you are asking us as to weather you should accept his proposal you are clearly not ready to get married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo we havent argued... not recently...last time we did was a while ago...but thats been taken care of.what should i say to him if he does!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): Aww...so sweet....he might...hope he does...thats so sweet
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reader, miss know it all +, writes (20 September 2008):
How nice, it sounds like hes definitely going to propose to you . Hes doing everything that matches to proposing my friends boyfriend done exactly the same. The question is have you recently argued if not then its a proposal alright. Good luck and hope everything works out for you. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): How long have you been together? Because if you guys are ready then surely thats ok? I reckon he'll take you for a romantic dinner then propose on the beach, or maybe he'll propose at dinner and then have a romantic stroll along the coast!? Do you want him to propose? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want it so bad...but im 18...not really sure though...no arguements...He came back home from his parents 2 weeks ago. he wouldnt do anything i wouldnt be happy with. ...im just sooo happy right now! I dont know when this will happen. Like i said...he wont tell me much... do you think he'll ask at dinner? and the coast is the happy get-away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): Aww..it certainly sounds like he will! Have you guys recently argued or been through a rough patch? He might just be seeing where you both stand. However from what you're saying it really does sound like he's thinking about proposing soon! Would it be what you want? x x
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