He didn't offer to take me home first, that is rude right?
Q. I met this guy at a club. I am not his date,he invited me to come over his place to watch movie together. so I came to his place and had a small conversation with him suddenly he invited his friends and left me alone. he ignored me and just h...
A. 8 August 2012: The guys sounds like a jerk, end of. I'm not trying to be unnecessarily harsh, really, but I wish that I had someone be straight up with me, and me listen to them, everytime some jackass comes my way and I try to justify his actions. Sometimes a guy ... (read in full...)
What do you do in your bedroom? I need some idea's!
Q. Hi! So im just curious about how others or what others do in their bedrooms. I wouldnt say im trying to spice my sex life, but i would like to try something new that i havent thought of. I dont get much out of dressing up so its more for him. But i ...
A. 8 August 2012: I'm all about the foreplay. Some days you feel more adventurous, other days not so much. It all depends on how comfortable you are.
My ex and I were really terrible on nights out. We would always touch one another under the table while the othe... (read in full...)
I just don't know what is going on with me?
Q. since me and my boyfriend broke up everything has been going downhill. i was depressed for a couple weeks after but i've talked to a lot of people and they've made me realize it's time to move on. so i guess i got over that. but now i just feel like ...
A. 7 February 2009: Getting back to your usual self after a break up takes time and the longer you were together the longer it takes. Just because you talked to some people a few weeks afterwards doesn't mean that everything should be back to normal. What you need to ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? Or just want to touch me?
Q. I Seriusly Need Help =(.. Im 14 Years Old And My Bf Is 15 We Have Been Together For 1yr 6months.. I Love Him Loads He Loves Me Too.. But For Me I Feel As If He Is Just With Me For Touchin Me.. Whenever Were On The Phone Talkin He Says Things Like...
A. 7 February 2009: Well firstly, only one thing is on a guys mind when he is 15 and I'm afraid to say that it is all about physicality with them. This guy seems to think that because the two of you are together all this touching is a giving. Dump him. You talked to ... (read in full...)
My friends say he likes me but I'm not sure?
Q. hi there is this guy i know through a friend and we have recently got to know each other better. we mostly talked online but have now gone out together with friends etc my friends say he likes me but im not sure, and i can't really tell! ...
A. 7 February 2009: I think your friends may be right! My boyfriend and I were friends for years and about a year ago he started acting like that (sending me joke messages and stuff) If you want to persue anything with him maybe you should start replying to such mes... (read in full...)
I want to get him a special gift for our 1-year anniversary, but I am short of money! Any ideas?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. we arnet engaged or anything but it is pretty serious. its coming up to out 1 year anniversary so i wanted to get him something special,, only thing is i have financial prblems and so dont really ...
A. 23 August 2008: At this stage I'm sure he'd appreciate something with more sentimental value. What about getting him a nice frame with a picture of you two back when you started dating? Or maybe make him a mix tape?... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex today, what to do now?
Q. So..me and My Girlfriend Had Sex Today..It was good and all..Problem is..we did it Six Times...Nother Problem..they were all unprotected..and I know there's a possibility that she might be pregnant..I'm not scared or anything just worried..cuz my ...
A. 23 August 2008: If you want to wait until you're 18 to have a baby you should really start being safe about sex. Condoms are faaaar cheaper than a kid but talk to your girlfriend about going on the pill as it can be more convenient.
If you don't want to be a pare... (read in full...)
Depressed about my acne, am I using the right products to sort this out?
Q. hi so i have spots and i am really depressed by them i hate them i am currently using a moisturizer and clenzer and exfoliator is this the rite thing to do if it is not can u plz tell me wot t do to get rid or help them improve plz ...
A. 23 August 2008: Simple is the best product you can use because there's o perfume in it hence it won't irratate your skin. Exfoliate gently twice a day and add moisteriser at night time.
If it doesn't improve you should see your GP, he'll perscrive you some crea... (read in full...)
My question about this girl is how to ask her out?
Q. ive known her since 9th grade and now im in 11th i missed 10th grade with her because i was out of state in school we say like hi and bye everytime i see her in the hall i like wave and act like im going to tackle her and she jus laughs and says ...
A. 22 August 2008: You def don't want to rush things with her, relationships last longer when you've been friends for a while before hand, plus you'll be able to find out if she has a boyfriend or if she likes you etc. You should arrange for a few friends, both boys ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 15 year old to like a 18 year old guy who likes her back?
Q. sorry its really long..but this has been going on for about 3 years now.. so help me please! hi i'm a 15 year old girl and I go to a christian school, my best friend is a guy and is 18 i've liked him basically for 3 years and we jut now cam...
A. 22 August 2008: Honey, there is absolutely wrong with liking an 18 year old at fifteen. At seventeen I have friends who are going out with twenty-one year olds and their parents don't mind in the slightest, because the guys are nice and respect their daughters. T... (read in full...)
Am I moving too fast?
Q. i am 14 ,15 in december and i had sex wif my girl friend i have only been goin out wif her 4 2 weeks am i movin 2 fast...
A. 20 August 2008: Yes.
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Small bump + big baby = CONFUSED!
Q. heya :) well I'm 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby - a lovely little boy! :D Although everything has gone ok so far my bump is pretty small for the stage I'm at =S...alot of people have commented on how small it is in fact, some saying i will pro...
A. 17 August 2008: When you fall pregnant with your first cgild you generally are pretty small as this is the first time you've been stretched this way.
My brother and I were my mother's third pregnancy (we're twins) and she didn't show with us until she was five mont... (read in full...)
The condom came off inside me, no leaks, but am I at risk of pregnancy?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex last night, (we use condoms) and when he pulled out, the condom stayed in side me. There didn't seem to be any leakage, it was all in the bototm of the condom where it should be, and I didn't appear to have any sperm ...
A. 17 August 2008: I doubt that you're pregnant but maybe to be 100% sure you should get the morning after pill.
Better safe than sorry... (read in full...)
Is it ok for us to masturbate together?
Q. Hi, I've been wandering whether it would be alright for me(male and my cousin(female) to masturbate together? We're both the same age and are really close. Please reply, Thanks...
A. 17 August 2008: Honestly, I think it may be best that you don't. Better you do it with a girl who isn't related to you... (read in full...)
Is this really love or do I just pity her?
Q. I love with my gf of two years now but I can't forget her past. She told me that she has 20+ partners before me. Worst I know some details of her past. It really bothers me a lot, thinking how many dicks have fucked her. When we got arguments, I ...
A. 16 August 2008: It appears that you don't have an issue with her but with yourself. So she went out and got about a bit-it's not as if she was cheating on you.
You only ever bring her past up when you two argue which shows that you're just looking for a way to hurt... (read in full...)
What do women find attractive in a man???
Q. What do women find atractive in a man? I want your opinion, thanks to those of you who answer, its well appreciated....
A. 16 August 2008: Every girl has different tastes. Personally, I love a tall guy, brown/green eyes and a good smile :D
Aside from looks, though, a good sense of humour is a MAJOR turn on for me. That and a good personality. Oh, and he must be able to nerd out with... (read in full...)
We've been dating 2 months and now it's over! Should I wait around or find a rebound guy?
Q. he is away and can't talk much ... i told him i wanted a break through voicemail ... then he wouldn't talk to me so i took it back ... and days went by and he texted me he wanted a break and we needed to decide if we could "handle this" meaning the ...
A. 16 August 2008: I know this isn't what you want to hear, but even though you appear to really like this guy, he's no good for you, you deserve better.
He comes across as very immature. If he was serious about your relationship he would A) be TALKING to you, like... (read in full...)
Any tips on my first kiss?
Q. Ok. well as you know by my name im a youngiin to be accurate im 14. And yea i do have a bf of 2 months now (( today being 8/13/08 )) but i still havent had my first kiss, cuz i wanna have that with someone i truly care about and i really do care abo...
A. 14 August 2008: Most of it comes pretty natural.
When you're leaning in tilt your head to the opposite of him and gently let your lips land on his. Just follow his lead and you'll be okay, most of it comes pretty natural.
Oh, and remember, breath through your nos... (read in full...)
We broke up, but I miss him. He said he just wants us to be mates.
Q. Heyy :) Can anybody tell me what to do or give me some advice ? I was goinng out with a boy for almost 2months i no its doesnt seem long but i liked him so much. its been almost 3weeks since he finished me, he said his reasons was because he didnt...
A. 14 August 2008: My first was boyfriend was when I was 15. We had been together for five months when he broke up with me; I was absolutely devasted. You can't eat, you can't sleep, the very thought of them with another girl makes you want to cry. So, please, trust ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble getting closer to my girlfriend and communicating with her properly.
Q. My girlfriend of 2 months is great! she's funny, stylish, and is full of energy. Makes me wonder why the hell she would even WANT to date me. The problem I'm having is: it is near impossible for me to talk to her or get close to her. I just wont let ...
A. 14 August 2008: Normally I'm like this at the start of a relationship (and you two are still in a sense a new couple)
After a while you'll soon forget about everyone else and realise that the relationship consists of you and her and no one else. Why should thei... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied to me big time. Should I break up with him?
Q. so basically my boyfriend lied to me. big time. for starters, i don't want to be with someone that does drugs or drinks. so he told me that he's never going to drink or smoke weed ever again. so i trusted him and believe him. but then his friend ...
A. 14 August 2008: When something like this happens the only thing you can do IS leave him. I'm sorry to say this but you're young and having been your age too I know that no matter how much someone nags you to change you're not going to; after all, you're 15, you're ... (read in full...)
We are both 16, and all we want to do is cuddle in my bed, my parents absolutely won't allow it, how do I get them to understand that we are not going to have sex, we only want to hold each other?
Q. im 16 and my gf is the same we want to cuddle in my bed but my parents wont even let her set foot in my room do u have any advice on how i can convince them dat we will jus be cudlin and not goin to have sex...
A. 14 August 2008: Hey, I understand where you're coming from; especially as I'm the eldest of four girls and have four older brothers!
I'm afraid to say that the only way you'll be able to have your girlfriend in your room without them throwing a fit is when you move... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?
Q. ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...
A. 14 August 2008: Firstly, you're under the age of consent.
Secondly, honey, you're far too young! You're not mature enough to deal with the emotional side of sex; it's more emotional than physical at the start.
And I know this is not what you want to hear but at t... (read in full...)
What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin?
Q. What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin. thats my situation. im not ugly or fat....
A. 14 August 2008: It's a turn on!
You're proving to us that there are males out there who don't feel the need to screw everything with a vagina!
No woman will think negatively about it!... (read in full...)
I started my periods and I don't know how to tell my mum.
Q. hello erm i dont really know how to put this but i started my periods. and i really dont know how to tell me mum! like she has a draw full of black pants and pads and things and i put on some of the black pants and put a pad on and yes im basically...
A. 13 August 2008: I was a late starter too so I'm just going to say this-No matter how much you plead or sulk she will make a fuss. She's your mother. But only for a short while. And trust me when I say that shortly down the road you'll be wishing that she'd make a ... (read in full...)
I'm only 14 and my friends's are saying it's uncool to be a virgin, so I'm hoping someone will help me please.
Q. I really like this boy, his names jack, and people keep telling me to ask him out. But im really nervious and i dont know what to do. My friends keep telling me to have sex with him and go on from there, but the thing is im only 14. and im stil...
A. 13 August 2008: This is the type of question where I kick into big sister mode and tell you what I tell my sisters and brothers.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Do you want to look back ten years from now and regret losing your virginity at forteen? What... (read in full...)
How easy is it to kiss a friend who is drunk?
Q. never really got drunk, so wonderin at a club how easy is it to kiss a friend who is drunk? Nothing more just a nice kiss? :) coz i'm goin out soon. Thank you...
A. 13 August 2008: Kissing someone who is drunk is pretty sloppy (especially when you're drunk too) and you may pull away with bitten lips or toungue, not to mention a fountain of spit all over your face.
If you're looking for a nice kiss then you should maybe g for ... (read in full...)
Talk is going round school about me having sex with my friend-what do I do?
Q. Im 13 and i have already had gay sex 9 times. i was making out with my boyfriend at his house and one of my classmates saw us through the window and is spreading it around. what do i do?...
A. 13 August 2008: I know how you feel to a certain extent (Being in an all-grils school can be very harsh and rumours do spread)
but the best way to go about it is...ignore it. If you and your partner have not have sex well then, at least you two know and that's all ... (read in full...)
Ex-girlfriend pushing me away, is she right?
Q. hey, It's been a month and a half since my gf and I broke up after 9 months. We were friends before we dated. We're still in contact but it feels like she's pushing me away. Whenever i text her i'll get short, vague replies if she replies. ...
A. 13 August 2008: She's not pushing you away, or not intentionally anyway. We woman do mad things that baffle males but make perfect sense in our heads.
You were together for nine months so there's going to be a lot of memories there for her and to see you and hang... (read in full...)
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