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writes:What do women find atractive in a man? I want your opinion, thanks to those of you who answer, its well appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): i like when guys arent afraid to be themselves and they try to look not the best but just them.[but try to look good]
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reader, Frostygirl +, writes (19 August 2008):
 A smile. Act naturally, and let a lady know you look at her when she isnt looking, and if she catches you pull a smile, not cheesey though, a nice smile that shows care and admiration.
Looks matter ((in some people but everyone is different and prefers different things)) but not as much as personality. Show an interest in what the lady likes, and LISTEN -- you really should listen. And talk [[not too much]]about yourself, balance it out.
Ask her what she wants to do but not all the time. Dont be obsessive.
sorry its quite long but hope it helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): Confidence. Confidence is the key my friend. A confident man is a chick-magnet. We feel protected and at ease. Just make sure it doesn't border on arrogance. I suppose you can't fake confidence but you can certainly build it! Good luck!
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reader, MidtownToDowntown  +, writes (16 August 2008):
Every girl has different tastes. Personally, I love a tall guy, brown/green eyes and a good smile :D
Aside from looks, though, a good sense of humour is a MAJOR turn on for me. That and a good personality. Oh, and he must be able to nerd out with me; nothing beats a night of dancing in the sitting room while watching Star Wars lol
One thing that really attracts a woman though is if you just be yourself. No need to start changing yourself just to impress us(we'll just see right through it :p
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): :)
i like tall men with either dark looked after curly hair (like danny jones or luke from the kooks) or with dark scruffy ish hair but not greasy or dirty lol
i like men who wear skinny jeans and roll the bottom up and wear long coats with big buttons :) andd i like men that are mysterious but not complete twazzocks and sporty guys are always good,not too fat or hairry but not really thin and it helps if the guy can ride and has either an irish or a bolton accent:)
not too bothered about personality really aslong as i can sort of talk to him
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reader, scorpio123 +, writes (16 August 2008):
 This is like if I asked you what do men like in a girl?
You would probaly know yourself that it varies from boy to boy.
This is the same, everyone has different tastes.
Though if you're friendly and nice, smile alot and make girls laugh you'll be off to the right start.
Oh and pay them compliments; even just "you look nice today" or "i like your hair like that", it'll make girls think you're the sweetest guy ever, because you noticed.
In looks, well look clean and tidy. Wash your face, shower daily, brush your teeth at least twice a day, wear clothes that look good on you, wear deodrant and body sprays;
The girls will be queueing at your door ;) lol
Hope this helps!
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reader, SOLVEIG29 +, writes (16 August 2008):
Intelligence, sexual and body confidence (regardless of shape/size) passion and inner fire - ambition, dreams, goals - empathy, kindness, patience, romantic, self respect, independent of mummy (!) financially sensible, spiritual awareness. If that all important natural chemistry/attraction is there the man described above is my ideal!Jx
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reader, thats_not_my_name +, writes (16 August 2008):
 well, looks wise i like all sorts of guys! i don't mind blond or brown hair or whatever colour eyes (though i do have a soft spot for blue!) i don't find really big muscles or six packs particularly attractive tbh..though i like fairly slim guys. i'm too tall to demand a boy taller than me and tbh i don't mind if they are shorter. but if there is one thing i hate it's long fingernails on a guy, i think it's so gross lol! personality wise, a sense of humour is a must, i love funny guys who can make me laugh and are fun to be with, a bit of immaturity is ok but not too much, but i'm often attracted to guys who i can tell are genuinely nice ppl (such a cliche i kno!) but guys who are genuinely kind and caring win me over! ;) self confidence is fine but i hate arrogant guys who think they are better than everyone else.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (16 August 2008):
 I don't actualy know what it is but i find some men more attractive than others but don't know why
I like a boiz smile and i love boiz with bright blue eyes :)
Also, i like brown hair, not too long and not too short but the MUST is that they HAVE to be taller than me
If he can make me laugh then i'll fall in love lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): confidence is extremely important. it's very hard to be attracted to someone if they don't have confidence in themselves. and ambition. I don't think men necessarily have to have a great job or a lot of achievements as long as they are interested in something, have goals of some kind and invest their time into something that's important to them. on dates, you should show interest in what your lady has to say. and keep doing this throughout the relationship! pay attention to her needs and let her use the remote once in awhile.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): Women are programmed to find attributes which signal status and power attractive as they naturally want someone who is going to be able to support her and any offspring.
Today, most women are able to support themselves financially but would still find certain personality traits which indicate
success or the potential for success such as, confidence, maturity or a posh/well spoken accent attractive.
Besides the above, women generally find a sense of humour very attractive... someone who makes them laugh and feel good.
If you can make a girl feel special by giving her lots of attention and genuine compliments, you're halfway there. Remember not to obviously ogle other women in her presence, as that will definitely put her right off.
Looks can be important to some women but most are willing to compromise on appearance for the sake of the above attributes. Both males and females find things/people who look nice attractive but this instinct is far stronger in the male who respond to attractive women as a sexual cue.
Women are more turned on by what they hear than what they see. Men, on the other hand, are very visual. Most men make the mistake of thinking that the male form has the same inpact on a women as the female form has on the male but that's not the case at all.
You are still very young, so concentrate on enjoying yourself and building self esteem through interests and hobbies, as this will help you attract friends and girlfriends. Eat well and exercise as this will help you feel and look better.
Hope this helps and good luck
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reader, O Connor +, writes (16 August 2008):
 well i know it sounds cliche but i love a guy who can make me laugh and who is fun to be around!! im just attracted to guys that are confident, fun, friendly and not arrogant.
its not all about looks, the hottest guy with an awful personality would completely put me off. i hope this helps. email me if you want xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): Well,what I find attractive in a man is honesty,humor,and
his ability to listen to me and be really in tune and when
he shows me that I can tell him and talk to him about
anything.Those are some of the things I find attractive.
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reader, tierani417  +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Well...What I look for in a guy, is well first off, you can't be extreamly ugly, looks do take part in it some what, and then someone who just makes me laugh and smile a lot and doesn't care what i look like, he just wants to be with me.
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reader, Missappletree +, writes (16 August 2008):
It really does depend on the woman/girl. But in general a nice guy. For me- good sense of humour,listener, kind, sweet, likes the same kinda stuff as me-music/art, but still has his own interests, who had good morals too-no cheating/lying etc and most of all, can be himself with me and vise versa. He shouldnt have to pretend to be anyone.
A really good friend, with added romance.
Hope this helps (:
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reader, Spiffeh... +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Personality wise? Or looks?..
I like tall guys, hate big muscles, nice smile, nice eyes, can always make me laugh and cheer me up, clean.., a bit goofy and nerdy and a bit scruffy looking =] x
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