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writes:Heyy :) Can anybody tell me what to do or give me some advice ?I was goinng out with a boy for almost 2months i no its doesnt seem long but i liked him so much. its been almost 3weeks since he finished me, he said his reasons was because he didnt like me as much anymore and he would rather us be mates. i saw him 2days ago for the first time since we stoped going out. i went on bebo that night and he worte on the friends story 'i miss you' and i wrote back 'i miss you to, quite alot' then he said same. the next night i wrote 'i still like' you and he wrote back 'i kinda do but i like other people to' i just wrote back 'ohh ok'. then he came on msn to ask waht was wrong with me because i seem'ed upset,i just acted like nothing was wrong.i like hims so much, i cant seem to get him out my head, i speak to other lads and aranged to meet them but its him i want.Please answer this, it will help me alot, Thanks in advance:) Xx
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reader, MidtownToDowntown  +, writes (14 August 2008):
My first was boyfriend was when I was 15. We had been together for five months when he broke up with me; I was absolutely devasted. You can't eat, you can't sleep, the very thought of them with another girl makes you want to cry. So, please, trust me when I say that only time can make it better. Just treat him as a friend, don't waste your time with 'what ifs' and false illusions of getting back together. I know it seems like nothing will ever be the same again and I know you miss him like crazy but soon you will look back and you'll feel...nothing. There'll be no twinge in your stomach, no racing of your heart, nothing. Don't go on the rebound because you may end up regretting it.
Just tell him that what you had together was special and you value your new friendship but you just need a little space, a little time to gether your thoughts and get your head together. Being around him and talking to him so soon after breaking up is a BAD idea
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Honey, you are young, and this will not be your last boyfriend. There will be many more to come throughout the years, trust me on that.
I know for now, it may seem like the end of the world, but in time, your wounds will heal. I have been through this plenty of times myself, so I am speaking from experience.
Try to occupy yourself with other things. Like friends, hobbies, sports. Because if you are sitting by the wayside with nothing to do, it will be harder to get past this.
Take care honey.
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