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reader, Richard92  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 umm ok well your only 14 and i cant be telling you that you have done the wrong thing here but two weeks is a bit short and your 14.. i was 15 but i was with my girl for like a year.. i think before anything else happens and you guys have sex again i tihnk you two need to sit down and thik about what you two want. dont listen to everyone saying that its too early and stuff becauise in the end its what both of you want and if thats what you two want to do then dont let others stop you..
hope that helps mate
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Damn, having sex after two weeks of being in a relationship?
Don't be surprised if it ends soon too.
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reader, lotsofgiggles123 +, writes (20 August 2008):
 inless you in love with her no but if not yes
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reader, bluntasaspoon  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 i think that u may well be moving to quickly. just imagine if it was your daughter who had had sex with a 14 yr old? how would u feel?. i also think that u know that u are moving too fast or u wouldnt have asked.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): What is your parents saying about this?
Do they feel okay with it?
Are they ready to support you if this girl falls pregnant?
NO, I am sure they don't know about you being sexually active!
I hope for everybody sake you have used protection.
Unprotected sex might have you a "daddy" very fast and might cause you being infected with STD'S and/or AIDS.
You want to keep your self occupied with aldult activities, I hope you are responsible and be cautious.
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reader, MidtownToDowntown  +, writes (20 August 2008):
Yes.
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reader, SuperSammie +, writes (20 August 2008):
 if you'r only 14, how old is she? if she's older than 16, then that's illegal.
but if your both under 16 then its not illegal.
i don't think your moving to 'fast' if you both really like each other and were both ready for it, but if youv only been together for two weeks thats a bit bad, but only cause of your age.
if you were like 17, and had been wiv a girl 2weeks and had sex, noone would have a problem with that it's just because your very young and maybe you don't really know what you want yet.
i suggest just take things slow from now on with her, experiment with roleplay or something, but only have sex again if you are both sure its deffo what you boht want and you are both deffo ready.
hope this helps x
S x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): YES
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): Not necessarily too fast, but maybe too soon?
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Did you ask for sex or she - mate, make your questions a bit more descriptive - it won't kill you!Jellyxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): you're only 14?!?!?what were you thinking!i hope you realise that the legal age for sex is 16, AND considering you've only being going out with this girl for 2 weeks, you are definitely moving too fast...So basically, yes. you're moving way way wayyy too fast.
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reader, Onlyofyou1039 +, writes (20 August 2008):
well how can you be moving too fast if she said yes to sex?
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