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Is it ok for us to masturbate together?

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Question - (17 August 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2008)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I've been wandering whether it would be alright for me(male and my cousin(female) to masturbate together? We're both the same age and are really close.

Please reply,

Thanks

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A female reader, bluntasaspoon United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2008):

bluntasaspoon agony auntok then i personally think that it is a bit wrong especially if u dont want a relationship. but if u are both consenting the why not? i'll tell u why.... u are both a bit too young and should realy think about how it will affect your friendship with each other. ie- will u both feel uncomfortable, will it lead to more, will ur parents find out? there are a lot of questions to ask yourself before u do this so think first and act later as u may well regret it for the rest of ur life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008):

its ok to masterbat wean your with your love but its weaird to do it with your frieands lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008):

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Thats pretty much what I meant. It's kind of like an enjoyable practice.

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A female reader, graciie; United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2008):

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

no.

just no.

find a girlfriend and have fun with her.

not your cousin.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

I think as long as she wants to do that with you, it's ok. You could even masturbate each other, that might be more fun. I have read about cousins, and even brothers and sisters, who have done a lot more than that. Like, I have read posts from girls who said they practiced giving handjobs and blowjobs on their brothers so that they could learn how to do it. So if you are just gonna masturbate together, or masturbate each other, and not have full sex, I don't see anything wrong with it. It's just like you were doing it with another girl that you're close to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

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I dont want to have a relation with her, this is just, you might say, curiosity and harmless fun that could be tried?

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A female reader, MidtownToDowntown Ireland +, writes (17 August 2008):

Honestly, I think it may be best that you don't. Better you do it with a girl who isn't related to you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

um no , idon't think so to be honest, she's still your cousin!

get a non relative girlfriend to do that with.

XxXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

Cousin relationships are not necessarily wrong. They have been accepted in most societies, and by most religions, throughout history. But they are not normal in our society and so you and your cousin can't openly be together. Sounds like you have a great friendship which means a lot. It's better to keep it on that level than create a 'dirty little secret' and most likely lose each other. By all means keep confiding in each other about sex - friends are great for that- but find other people to physically experiment with.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

No, although it is natural for you to want to experiment, cousins are out of bounds! Don't go there, it is wrong!

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A female reader, n00dl35 United States +, writes (17 August 2008):

n00dl35 agony auntuhm... why would you want to do that? that seems really wrong. and you may be tempted to do something together and remember it is your cousin. please be smart. take care xx

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