My husband being a night owl is causing problems in our marriage
Q. My husband is a night owl whilst i quite like my sleep! But the difference is annoying not only at home but socially. Like we were at a wedding yesterday and i had work the next day - i said maybe we could go home around 12. But we agreed o...
A. 26 May 2013: Being a night owl myself, I had to put myself in the other person's shoes for a moment to answer this question...when I was in a relationship my ex always had a set time that he went to bed most nights unless, there was something going on to prevent ... (read in full...)
What are the chances he'll come back home?
Q. Need advice please..sorry it's a bit long but l prefer to explain fully..... my husband and l have been married 14 years this year, back in 2007 he had an emotional affair with a woman who was supposed to be my best friend..(all 3 of us worked t...
A. 17 May 2013: I absolutely understand how you must feel..I have been through very similar minus the marriage & geographical distance between ex & mistress. As much as it may hurt to hear this, this guy is just using you to pass the time while his mistress gets ... (read in full...)
This guy has a girlfriend,Is it bad that I have feelings for this guy?
Q. Early in February, I was seeing a man who is about 8 years my senior and I like him a lot. We hit it off very well. I felt that we were on a road to a relationship. I guess he was thinking otherwise. We were seeing each other for almost a month and ...
A. 3 May 2012: I realize you really like this guy but, you need to look at the whole picture here. Have respect for your self first of all...this guy is a loser & he is just using you. You need to sever all ties with him.
Put yourself in his gf's shoes...... (read in full...)
We were so in love, it's a year later and I still can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Why do I still love him after all these time? is there something wrong with me? I miss my ex boyfriend so much. I loved him so much, I never stopped loving him. We were so in love. We did everything together. He introduced me to his family and...
A. 25 March 2012: First off, I'm so sorry that you are hurting & I also, know exactly what you are feeling. I too, am still hurting over the loss of my ex & it's been well over a yr. I know that I should just move on as you should but, I still have not come to that ... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex, who hurt me or wait for him to contact me?
Q. I'm curious if any men out there ever wished they could get their ex back after leaving them for someone else and then a yr. or so later realized you had made a huge mistake or the one you hooked up with ended up dumping you? Were you too much of ...
A. 4 March 2012: I thank all of you for your honest responses...they were all valid answers to my dilemma. I have made the decision to wait for a while longer & see what happens. If he really feels he has made a mistake & wants me back then he needs to come forth & ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue my ex again? I cant live without her yet a part of me says its a huge mistake
Q. Hello I am in a lot of pain. My ex broke up with me after a 4 year relation when I immigrated to USA in Feb 2011. She was my life. She ended up with a sorry ecard and the reason being our lots of differences. The whole 4 years were a period of const...
A. 13 February 2012: I certainly understand how you feel about your ex as I too would give anything to get back with my ex but, deep down I feel like maybe we both would be making a big mistake. After a long period of time it is easy to romanticize our relationships ... (read in full...)
On again off again, now he's seeing someone else.
Q. What does he keep hurting me like this? was I wrong for telling him how I feel? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought he loved me too, but he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. We've broken up 4months now. But he al...
A. 10 August 2011: Not sure what you are asking here, either but, I think maybe you need to hear some cold hard facts about this guy-he is a player & just using you. I know it hurts to hear that & I know you really feel for the guy but, trust me, you can do better & ... (read in full...)
Humiliated betrayed and heartbroken by my ex fiance!
Q. I've been horrribly humilated, betrayed, and heartbroken by my ex fiance of over 2 years . Every time we had an argument, he would give me the cold shoulder until I would cave in a week later and ask him to discuss the problem. I have been married ...
A. 7 August 2011: Addictions of any kind usually, lend hand to an addictive personality, in general thus, his overwhelming need for control over your life. It is obvious, he didn't care much about what you were doing as long as it didn't affect him. His wants ... (read in full...)
Married ex had my name tattooed on his body.
Q. I am in a serious pickle and I'm afraid I've got myself into it. I was seeing a married man for a few years and broke up a few weeks back. He's been asking me to take him back since but I'm adamant to move on and make something of myself. Hoever ...
A. 14 June 2011: I guess you have to give him E for effort as lame as it is but, in my opinion he gets an F for FAIL. He should of put the money he spent on that tatoo towards hiring a lawyer although, I hardly doubt he has any intentions of divorcing. If he did, he ... (read in full...)
Am I throwing my heart to the wolves again?
Q. Okay, my question is complicated. And, I don't know where to start, as it's a long story... So, I will backtrack a bit and start from the beginning. *deep breath* In 2006, I fell for one of my best friends (who was a friend of mine for almost ...
A. 27 April 2011: First off, I would like to say how sorry I am that you had to endure such treatment from a person you loved deeply and I certainly know how you are feeling - I too am 1yr. out of a 7yr. relationship and still have not been able to move on ... (read in full...)
He's been ignoring me for 7 years now...
Q. So here it goes...it happened 7 years ago. I was in the same city as the guy i liked(my dad was in the army) and he promised to meet me . . .we were supposed to go out for a movie or something. Well, he never turned up. I was stood up...and t...
A. 27 February 2011: I'm sorry to say this and I'm sure you are hurting but, unfortunately, you are in love with a figment of your imagination - a fantasy you have built up in your mind. The red flags were starring you in the face years ago. A true indicater of futu... (read in full...)
Want him back... my ex!
Q. Hi, My partner of 9 months recently broke up with me. I lived out of home and he stayed every night from the day we started seeing each other then he moved in we decided to move somewhere else together so we did then we got engaged. all of ...
A. 3 February 2011: I hate to say this & I know this is not what you want to hear but, you both are still very young & both your ways of thinking will change many times in the next few yrs. That is life. I think you both moved too quickly without really getting to know ... (read in full...)
I have just found out that my ex was seeing another woman in the months before he left me, how do I deal with this?
Q. I'm not sure why I am writing this but, somehow I feel if I write about what I am feeling right now it will help. My ex fiance left me after 7 yrs. together basically for someone else. When he first ended it with me he told me after a huge argument ...
A. 3 February 2011: I thank all of you for your enlightening & insightful words. I know deep down there will be no going back- I know myself & although, I still love him I would never be able to fully trust him again. What he did to me would eat me alive as the day is ... (read in full...)
My ex is already moving in with someone else but I want him back
Q. Hello, i was just wondering if anyone could offer me any advise as to if its possible to get my ex back. We have been together 4 years and im not just saying it but we had the best relationship. we were best friends aswell as anything and had...
A. 28 January 2011: I'm sorry that you are going through this but, you need to look at this realistically. How do you know for sure he didn't know her before he hooked up with her- because he told you that? I know this isn't what you want to hear but, even though they ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy? Or is she?
Q. Hey there Dear Cupid, im here for my third and probably final time. This issue is about me and my mental state more and my worry, I also need your intelligent thoughts on whats going on. As of two months ago my girlfriend and I broke up. Her pa...
A. 25 January 2011: I'm truely sorry you are going through all this & I'm sure it is very frustrating to sit back & watch someone you care for being so destructive. Unfortunately, there is not a whole lot you can do about it at this point- the more you pressure her the ... (read in full...)
There's too much water under the bridge
Q. I currently want to split up with my boyfriend , but its becoming harder and harder each day, he keeps sayin i refuse to accept it. The other day we had a massive arguement because his mam had found out that he takes drugs. She asked me, and i ...
A. 24 January 2011: I'm truely sorry that you are going through all of this but, what I have to say is probably not what you want to hear. You have basically answered your own question. Things do not feel right to you & from the sounds of it they aren't. This man is a ... (read in full...)
Now I feel as if our whole relationship was a sham...
Q. Hi Jo I split up with my ex-boyfriend at Christmas 2009 after 2 1/2 years and have never really got over him as there was no official split as such - I thought (mistakenly it turns out) that we would work things out but he never responded to me so...
A. 23 January 2011: First of all, I would like to say that I'm very sorry for the way things have worked out for you & that I certainly know how you must be feeling. I too have gone through something similar in the past few mths. with a few variations being that I was ... (read in full...)
He left me and now his family tells me that he still loves me
Q. My ex left me 8 mths. ago after 7yrs together basically, for someone else. His reason although, vague was because he wasn't happy. We had our ups and downs like anyone else but, for the most part we got along well. I really had no clue this was ...
A. 12 January 2011: I thank all of you for responding to my question & as one of you pointed out- your right, I DO deserve better! I know his family means well & I also, know that although he is thier relation they have never approved of what he did to me nor have they ... (read in full...)
I left my wife for another woman but she chose to get married, what do I do next?
Q. This is a story about doing everything wrong....it is a story about two people and their partners. One of those people had a new marriage which is now at an end. The other was engaged and is now married. The story begins at the place where I wo...
A. 10 January 2011: First of all, it is human nature to want what you can't have. With that said, you are in love with a fantasy of what you think this girl is all about. The only thing you both have in common is that you both fed the voids in each others life in one ... (read in full...)
I still love him, am I fooling myself for thinking their relationship will end?
Q. My ex and I have been split up for 7 mths. after 7 yrs. together. We were engaged when he ended it. He basically left me for someone else although, they were not involved until after he broke it off with me. 3 mths. later they became engaged which ...
A. 6 December 2010: I thank everyone for your answers & you are all right. I do need to move forward somehow & stop obsessing! It's going to be a long hard struggle for me to do that but, I need to find a way. My biggest mistake is the fact that I allowed myself to ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but is still engaged
Q. Hey guys I need advice so desperately!I met this guy in may!he is from germany I am from uk.he had lived in america for 5 years...we started off really casual,but then things got more serious!I found out he had a girlfriend because I read his ...
A. 21 November 2010: What concerns me the most is the statement you made about his character- He is not the kind to cheat! Be honest with yourself- do you really believe that nonscense? He is not only a cheater but, so much more. First of all, he is cheating with you, ... (read in full...)
If he's engaged to his new girl, why isn't he shouting it from the rooftops??
Q. My ex fiance left me 6 mths. ago after 7 yrs. and immediately became involved with someone else. He broke it off with me a mth. before we were to be married and still claimed he loved me right up to the end. There is no doubt in my mind that he ...
A. 21 November 2010: I realize that I need to move on- what I am really curious about which I stated in my question was the fact that since he is engaged to someone else why is he still coming around my place? I am not hoping to take this as a sign that he wants me ... (read in full...)
Can you find true love in your mistress? should I leave my wife and marry her?
Q. i have been dating my mistress for 3 years. we decided that its time to take the next step. i am in the middle of a project abroad that will be completed in march 2011. i decided to file for a divorce then. in three years we have seen good times an...
A. 21 November 2010: Your life is for you to do as you see fit but, as a woman who was betrayed & blindsided by my ex I have to say what you are contemplating is self-indulgent, immoral & cowardly to say the least. You have No idea the devestation you will cause your ... (read in full...)
How could he be engaged so soon after our break up?
Q. What are the chances that my ex fiance's new relationship will survive? He left me after 7 yrs. 5 mths. ago and became engaged to her after only 3 mths. I know it seems like they were seeing each other before he left me but, that is not the case. ...
A. 25 September 2010: I appreciate both male & female responses- I have to agree with both that I have my doubts they will work out & I'm not just saying so because I wish it to be! You are right, my ex is a very insecure person with very low self esteem. He would always ... (read in full...)
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