A
female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:What does he keep hurting me like this? was I wrong for telling him how I feel?I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought he loved me too, but he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. We've broken up 4months now. But he always comes back to me. No matter how long we go without contact for. We always end up talking again. But fall out again cos we always fight about why he dumped me.This time I really thought he was trying to win me back again. He's been ringing me everyday, takes me out to lunch, shopping etc: holding hands.But I spoke to him and he said Thursday we went to see some girl and he had sex with her and he'll be seeing her again on tuesday.. It really hurt me. So I told him how I feel last night and he got really angry, called me stupid, immature, he hates me, drama queen etc: He said he was trying to be nice. Be my friend. But he doesn't think she should talk anymore.Thanks..x
View related questions:
broke up, immature, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, MaryB  +, writes (10 August 2011):
Not sure what you are asking here, either but, I think maybe you need to hear some cold hard facts about this guy-he is a player & just using you. I know it hurts to hear that & I know you really feel for the guy but, trust me, you can do better & you also, deserve better. He comes around & calls because he can...you have allowed him to walk all over you. It's obvious he contacts you when nothing better is going on & when he doesn't like something you are saying to him about it he verbally abuses you. For your own sake cut this guy off cold & kick him to the curb. He isn't even worthy of being your friend...seriously, would you accept a friend who treated you or called you names like that...I think not. You will never have what you want in a relationship with him. I have no doubt that you are a beautiful & bright young lady who will someday meet a man who is worthy of your love & respect...believe me when I tell you, this guy is NOT that man. Take care!
A
female
reader, VSAddict +, writes (8 August 2011):
 What's your question exactly? Whatever it is, you need to leave this guy alone. He's stringing you along and you're letting him. If he cared about you, he would really be serious about seeing you and wouldn't be seeing anyone else. You can find better men out there, so do so. He's not worth your time.
...............................
|
