My boyfriend accuses me of flirting when I was at an industry networking event! Will this type of man ever change?
Q. I am an event management student, and our teacher organises frequent visits to exhibitions and conferences. this is a great way for us to network with industry professionals. today was the australian event business expo and was a great opportunity ...
A. 22 July 2009: Yea Im the same way as this guy. He probably cares a lot about you and doesnt like thinking about you talking to successful attractive guys all the time. I think I would just let him go though because he probably wont change. Although if you do ... (read in full...)
Is all as it really seems between us?
Q. A brief outline: I met a guy online last year and we got talking pretty seriously straight away about pretty much our whole lives (we just seemed to click). We moved over to talking on the phone a few months later and talk every night. We're due...
A. 22 July 2009: yea he doesnt sound that great...... (read in full...)
Stages of getting over a break-up, can you tell what stage I am now?
Q. I am still not completely over my ex. I know it will take time but when will that be? I can't wait for the day that he becomes a name I would just remember and the feelings like it was a part of a dream I had before. Right now, I can say I am don...
A. 22 July 2009: well you’ve made progress apparently from what you said, so I guess you just need to more time to accomplish the things that havent came yet. Maybe since you said you almost got back together last week you still talk to him? If you do asking him ... (read in full...)
Will he contact me or will the male pride stop him?
Q. My boyfriend and i broke up over a month ago but decided to remain friends. A week later we had a row via email which resulted in me saying that I didnt think he cared enough about me and therefore I was saying goodbye. I explained that I hoped one ...
A. 22 July 2009: Well itd be really great to know exactly what the argument was about.... (read in full...)
She is having cyber suggestions with her ex
Q. I have been married nearly 2 years, together for over 4. We have always got along famously and with the exception of some normal (or abnormal) issues, always seem to be a great match. A few weeks ago she said she had some validation from her ex ...
A. 17 July 2009: True, very true. That is what would be nice to be happening right now. That youre overreacting and nothing's wrong. But that little idea "why does she have him in her friends list. She should be blocking his emails or im's. I would." Its those kinds ... (read in full...)
Why he reacts like that when other guys flirt with me?
Q. A guy at work, he likes to flirt with me and seems to hit on me sometimes, he looks at me and likes to be near me and stuff. But, I´ve notice that when other guys from work tease me out and play jokes on me he keeps quite and only smile but no like ...
A. 17 July 2009: Because he obviously doesnt enjoy you being hit on by other guys because he likes you. Simple as that.... (read in full...)
He cheated, we haven't discussed it, he hasn't called.
Q. I recently discovered that my boyfriend cheated on me. I found last night and me and him haven't really discussed it yet. I can't help but wonder if we ever will. I'm hurt and completely disgusted that he would do this to me. This is the lowest of...
A. 15 July 2009: Yeah I just got out of a relationship like that myself. It is really for the best to just not talk to him again unless he comes to you. I mean, if he didn't even call to ask you you threw all his stuff back in his house in the first place he ... (read in full...)
It took me all night to get the truth out of him and now I'm wondering if there's more!
Q. Fiance came home an hour late from work.He told me he had to work late. I didn't believe him and questioned him all night. THe next day he told me a co-worker just broke up with bf and didn't have anyone to talk to so he stayed late to talk to her ...
A. 15 July 2009: Well, it could have been what he said. Although youd think he wouldnt have lied about it if it was only that. Ive been lied to like that and it turned out things were what I thought. But thats just me.... (read in full...)
Why do I put up with him?
Q. I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for 1 and a half year. Nearly broke up once before. He has a lot of baggage. When I met him, all was fine. He seemed mature and like he knew what he wanted in life. It has been a emotional rollercoaster ...
A. 15 July 2009: Yeah this doesnt sound like a good situation. If he is only making time for you when its time for "that" then he is apparently not prioritising you. I cant believe you've stayed for a year and a half, although Ive been there before myself I guess.... (read in full...)
She is having cyber suggestions with her ex
Q. I have been married nearly 2 years, together for over 4. We have always got along famously and with the exception of some normal (or abnormal) issues, always seem to be a great match. A few weeks ago she said she had some validation from her ex ...
A. 15 July 2009: Yeah I just got done with a girl like this myself. We were only dating but still about the same situation. Id do what The Old Man said and just monitor her messages and behavior. I f she cuts things off without being caught it will hlelp with the ... (read in full...)
I told her what she tried on made her look like a fat pig
Q. My girlfriend dragged me to the mall to go shopping with her (it was really boaring). We were there for probably an hour of her trying stuff on. She tried this dress that made her look fat when she asked me what I thought about it. I said it made ...
A. 28 June 2009: Im not sure if the pig part was necessary, also it is a lot worse if there were other people around who heard you say this, and also the way you said it. I could see myself saying that to my gf and it not being a big deal, but its only cuz weve been ... (read in full...)
What the hell is her ex trying to accomplish?
Q. My girlfriends ex told her that he likes her. They were together maybe 2 months and nothing serious. We're together 7 now. He told her 2 weeks ago or so. Recently then, he was talking to her friend and said to her "i want to tell her again incase ...
A. 28 June 2009: Wow dude I have the same problem. Im only 16 but the same problem word for word. I however eventually went down the road of seeming protective, clingy, etc. and repeatedly brought things that she would do up in arguments. All she would say is "Its ... (read in full...)
Would you talk to the girl you liked?
Q. So I've liked this guy all year. I've heard from multiple people that he likes me too. We have had the same class together all year, but he won't speak to me. Even if I say something to him he will give a short answer, but he won't look at me. He's ...
A. 17 May 2009: Some guys, I say this from personal experience, are too shy to even talk to you in these situations. He most likely does like you, hes just too shy to talk. Hes probably a really nice person tho as most shy people are so Id just keep doing what ... (read in full...)
Do men like independent women?
Q. I'm very independent, I know so many people but I dont have a group that I regularly hang out with. I like being by myself and sometimes spending a lot of time with certain people bugs me. Dont get me wrong, I'm not a misanthrope lol but I can take ...
A. 17 May 2009: Absolutely, I hate women who are too social. They're always snobby and bitchy. Independent girls are more down to earth and decent. Loner is exactly how I'd describe the perfect woman, for me anyway.... (read in full...)
He always makes me feel second best...
Q. I'm so miserable. My boyfriend loves me but always makes me feel second best compared to his ex. They were together for about 2 years and says now it was all just superficial. He makes me feel bad by rubbing in the superficial part. He says she was ...
A. 7 April 2009: yeah I agree next time he says she was beautiful ask "and Im not?" and then I would have a serious conversation with him to see if he really is over his ex. Ive kinda been through this sorta situation with a girl and it turns out she did kinda have ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to worry that this is a more one sided relationship, or maybe he's just got too much in his life for room for me.
Q. I really need some help and I really don't have anyone to turn to :( I have been suffering from some horrible symptons recently and to cut a long story short I'm having tests to find out what's wrong. The doctor thinks it's endometriosis. I...
A. 7 April 2009: That really isnt right. I would flat out ask your bf about this. Ask him how come he doesnt have money to come see you but he does to go out with his friends and tell him how shitty it is you have to even ask questions like that when your going ... (read in full...)
What to say on a first date?
Q. Okay so I'm asking out a girl but if she says yes I have nothing to say after so can y'all give me some ideas???...
A. 23 March 2009: Take her to the movies so you can spend time together without having to speak a word. Except for the ride there and before it starts and stuff but ask things about her. Dont worry about things for you to talk about, worry about giving her ... (read in full...)
I still can't get my ex out of my head!
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend split up 3 years ago and I still cannot get over him. I've been with other men, but in the back of my mind it's always him. We still talk, and lately he's told me he still has feelings for me, but then after telling me he ig...
A. 23 March 2009: He ignored you to test out your feelings toward him! Tell him you like him back, tell him youve always kept him in mind, ask him out.... (read in full...)
All my friends have boyfriends and there is no one for me.
Q. i broke up with my ex around 3 months ago, he hurt me severely and left me messed up emotionally for a long time. Then i found someone ( his friend) who i genuinely had strong feelings for. We had a thing,he acted as though he really liked me, then ...
A. 23 March 2009: What do you mean he screwed you over? That would really be helpful. With what youve wrote I would say his friend most likely told him things about you (a lie or the truth) that made this new guy turn on you. Thats my guess but I dont know ... (read in full...)
Do I hope the girl that I knew comes back?
Q. My Gf and I had been going out for over two years and everything was great, we did everything together. Shortly before our second anniversary her friends all went single all at the same time and it began to put a lot of stress on our relationship ...
A. 20 March 2009: Its totally understandable to be offended that her loyalty shifted from you to her on again off again friends. My guess is she probably went out one night and while thinking "Girls first!" cheated on you. Thats why she wants to break up because she ... (read in full...)
Is it time to call it quits? Or hold on?
Q. My boyfriend has had many female friends, yet I am his first girlfriend, he is 22. So, most of the problems we face are first timers and never happen again, he is very good about learning what not to do. This may seem odd to most other people, but ...
A. 20 March 2009: Neither of us can say what has happened in the past (recently or otherwise), but he most definitely has lied to you. Maybe hes doing this because something is going on? but at the same time maybe nothing's going on and he only lies so you dont go ... (read in full...)
I'd really like it if you could give me advice on how to get over her or at least not make my life a living hell????
Q. Hi, I'm 15 years old and I was in a relationship that last a long time and it ended for some very good reasons and some very stpid ones as well. My gf (ex) was great to me she meant the world to me and she stil does. The night we broke up we decided ...
A. 1 March 2009: I take that back its from february so go there... (read in full...)
When is it right for a man to be emotional in front of a woman?
Q. When is it right for a man to be emotional in front of a woman? I'm not the kind of person that wears my personality on my sleeve, nor do I open up to my own family. In fact I can pass things off quite easily with a straight face and the thought ...
A. 1 March 2009: No one wants other peoples pity, but we all need to be consoled sometimes. We all have pain and we all, at some point, suffer pain that can only be lifted from us through the help of others. I don't say you should go around crying in front of your ... (read in full...)
I'd really like it if you could give me advice on how to get over her or at least not make my life a living hell????
Q. Hi, I'm 15 years old and I was in a relationship that last a long time and it ended for some very good reasons and some very stpid ones as well. My gf (ex) was great to me she meant the world to me and she stil does. The night we broke up we decided ...
A. 1 March 2009: It is so scary how very identical you are to me. somewhere fathe down on this page is a question "Why would girls chase guys instead of be with them?" or something read it so you know how odd this is. Im 16 (even tho my profile says 22) and I can ... (read in full...)
She's the one. How can I keep her if she's not ready?
Q. hello I'm dating this girl almost 2 month now, before anything happened she had boyfriend for 2 years and they broke up 6 month ago. we got closer and right at the time when i asked her out her ex boyfriend come's up from no where and i think sh...
A. 1 March 2009: shes better than my ex. Mine just dumped me for the guy. at least yours is being open with you.... (read in full...)
She's sent a photo to him but says she loves me but there's things I know that she hasn't told me
Q. Ok, Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 6 months. I love her i really do and i understand that females have guy friends and thats cool. She tells me she loves me all the time but i found a letter from one of her friends in prison and he ...
A. 27 February 2009: Wow I just got out of a situation just like that! The girl says she loves you and youre the one but still feels the need to do things behind your back and keep things from you. It sucks man, its like you love her which is the easy part but you've ... (read in full...)
I just realized I really didn't treat my husband the way I should have
Q. Afew days ago my husband told me he wasnt happy anymore. I was completely devestaded, and all of a sudden started thinking of all of the things I had done wrong. I asked him why, and he said he didnt know and that he had been this way for a few ...
A. 27 February 2009: Thats really one of the most convincing proclamations of love Ive ever heard. I think the way to fix this would be as simple as showing him what youve wrote on here. Knowing that that is genuinely how you feel I know he will understand. Good luck... (read in full...)
How can I be accepted in this group and what can I do to make my wrists look more manly?
Q. I have a couple of questions that I'll just pile into this so it doesn't get annoying. 1) I have small wrists (width I mean) I'm 17 and I wanna be manly, and well... this aint doing it for me what can I do to get em bigger/better size? 2) I'm ...
A. 22 February 2009: I have that problem too! I hate not bein able to wear those rubber wristthings that they sell for charities. Thats the worst part for me...Other than that who cares...work out and get bigger arms and shoulders and stuff. After that who cares how big ... (read in full...)
My friend's girlfriend threatens to harm herself if he leaves her, what can he do?
Q. My friend is in a bad bad situation. So im here to ask your advice that i can pass onto him because no matter how many times i tell him to come on here hes like... stubborn. lol Ill cut this down so its a long story short but i hope you understan...
A. 22 February 2009: I agree with everyone else. Its not his fault shes like this and he should tell her parents.... (read in full...)
Is my long distance boyfriend just "friends" with this girl or is there more to it?
Q. Hello readers! I have this problem with my Bf. He's been keeping such distance from me, reason being he's working extra hours and has very little time... Which obviously doesn't prevent him from contacting his Gf. Well, that's what I'm also trying ...
A. 22 February 2009: How do you know they were talkin online and that they met? However you found out use that source to find more out (if its a reliable one) theres nothin wrong with snooping. Even if you get caught its win/win. If he is cheating who cares and if he ... (read in full...)
We want to be together but are pulled apart by different goals and plans for the future, what do you suggest?
Q. My girlfreind and i have been together over four and a half years. We both love each other dearly but there are problems in our relationship.We both want different things for the future. I want us to both live together, do some travelling then start ...
A. 22 February 2009: Is she aware of what you want? If shes not tell her. If she is but you two are arguing over it then I would suggest that since you said you wanted to live togehter and travel why not LIVE WITH HER...and her mum and sis...and TRAVEL to Turkey to ... (read in full...)
Can my parents relationship affect mine?
Q. I was wondering if anyone else thinks that the type of relationship your parents have can affect the types of relationships a person has as they grow older. Like if your parents argued a lot when you were a kid if that will make you more prone to ...
A. 22 February 2009: thank you all for your encouragement. Especially Mrs. Mom, it sounds like youve been through the same thing I'm going through now.... (read in full...)
Do guys orgasm each time they ejaculate?
Q. mainly for the guys out there: do guys orgasm each time they cum?...
A. 22 February 2009: I have, and I think the rest of us are that way too. But still keep in mind even though we have to cum to orgasm doesnt mean we have to orgasm to cum. Stuff can kinda leak out if we've been in the mood for a while.... (read in full...)
Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners?
Q. Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners? For instance a guy in my gf's class (Im a junior shes a freshman) told me she flashed him on a bus in junior high and this bothered me. FOUR different times it came up and I asked her if ...
A. 22 February 2009: well mimisoph3 she did it a year ago way before we got togehter. I mean id feel that way if she did that now. I've just kinda lost a little respect for her that she did that in the first place before we got together and I've lost a litle trust that ... (read in full...)
Am I covering their affair by remaining silent?
Q. Hello dear friends, I am facing a dilemma right now and I don't know what to do. At my workplace, there is an affair going on between a male driver and a female officer both married.Everytime I tried to talk to her, she justified her act, she says...
A. 22 February 2009: Definitely tell her. Id say in an anonymous letter that way the point gets across and you dont get in anything crazy. P.S. If you do tell her please post what happens Im kinda interested.... (read in full...)
I have trust issues and think men are horrible...
Q. I am turning 32 next month and hence have been thinking about relationships a lot. I have had three boyfriends and they all hurt me and dumped. I have trust issues and think men are horrible. I also blame myself for not being beautiful enough for ...
A. 16 February 2009: As a guy it seems like you would be an ideal girlfeiend. From your past experiences you are eager to connect with someone and as long as you find someone who truly cares for you it could make for a very fulfilling relationship. Once you find a good ... (read in full...)
I'm really scared and worried
Q. I have had 2 bad dreams lately waking up in tears when the dreams were about me and my partner splitting we've been talkin about buying a house and all of a sudden he has turned around and said that he is scared to buy a house cause he's worried we ...
A. 19 January 2009: Ask him why he thinks you two will break up. Im assuming since your buying a house together you've dated a while so Id imagine he will be honest with you. Also I wouldnt get too upset over dreams either. Those just show whats on your mind and what ... (read in full...)
I gave him a bj, haven't heard from him, should I text him?
Q. ok so.... this is my problem... on new years eve i was really wasted and texted this one guy ive crushed on for a few months, it was like 1:30am and i told him to come up because i didnt feel well.. suprisingly he came up and we somewhat hungout,...
A. 19 January 2009: Acting like that is NOT the way to get a guy to really like you. Yes you got him to notice you and be intimate but I think you have no chance of being in a loving relationship with a guy who would accept something like that and not follow up on you. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose what we had because of what I did...
Q. My gf and I have just split up after 5 1/2 months. I'm 16 and she's 15 and we're the most serious partners we're ever had for each other. We broke up becuz I wanted to have sex and she didn't want to. Actually she told me no and I said ok then she ...
A. 13 January 2009: Ok! Literally 30 sec. after I posted this she called!!!...just to ask me if I had called her a superbitch today and to ask if my friend said I wanted to get back together. I told her I did call her a bitch for a reason she agreed with and that I did ... (read in full...)
Am I making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I right in having doubts about what he said?
Q. Dear all, When I first started a relationship with my boyfriend, he told me that he had dated before. Like any other couple starting out, we tried to be honest about what happened in the past. Of course, being younger then, we didn't really do...
A. 4 January 2009: It was weird but if he really hasnt had a gf before I can 100% see why he would have such a maverick way of going about those kinds of things. Also, guys do worry about seeming attractive or experienced in relationships so I can also see why he ... (read in full...)
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