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*uaris
writes:My gf and I have just split up after 5 1/2 months. I'm 16 and she's 15 and we're the most serious partners we're ever had for each other. We broke up becuz I wanted to have sex and she didn't want to. Actually she told me no and I said ok then she told me right before I brought her home that she wished we would have and that sparked the argument for the breakup. We have been arguing a lot lately and I kept bringing up the topic of breaking up which she always disagreed with. Well this time she didnt and she said she wanted to "take a break". I said no lets just break up. I DID NOT MEAN THAT! She cried and said "there will always be a little love in my heart for you" and then we got off. I called a few hours later telling her that I was going to start going to counseling for my depression sometime soon (which is why we had been arguing a lot before this happened). Even tho this was maybe 2 hours after the breakup she just kinda blew me off and said "well see" in a happy tone. Now she just gives me dirty looks at school and avoids me. I desperately want her to know that even if shes not mature enough to make up her mind on sex that I will stay patient until then with her. I just dont want to turn her away by begging her to come back and looking needy. I dont want to lose all the good from the relationship becuz of some bad that I mostly caused.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 It sounds like the damage has been done mate. But if you want to win her back chase her with a bunch of flowers and tell your your really really sorry and get on your knee, even at school sometimes you have to make an imbarrasement to win her back its the best thing you can do, she might laugh and think its really cute and then forgive you.
If you leave it too long, the longer you leave it the worse it becomes. So, do it now! if it does not work then im sorry to say but you may have lost her for good.
Why would you say someting you didnt mean? Those words were probably very hurtful to her and its not a game at all. which is how she would likley see it if you suddenly said you did not mean it.
Go get her back!
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reader, Luaris +, writes (13 January 2009):
Luaris is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok! Literally 30 sec. after I posted this she called!!!...just to ask me if I had called her a superbitch today and to ask if my friend said I wanted to get back together. I told her I did call her a bitch for a reason she agreed with and that I did talk about getting back together but I wasnt pressing for it. So she just went quiet then said real quick "i gotta go, bye" and got off. What does all this mean? I think she must be interested if she wants to know if I said I wanted to get back together but when I said that I HAD mentioned it to my friend she just got off real fast. Im so confused!!!!!
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