How can I prove to him I won't kick him out again?
Q. Hello! I was dating my fiance for a year and we lived together until I looked on his myspace and saw that him and his co worker were messaging each other back and forth with questionable content and it clearly pointed to him being involved with he...
A. 13 November 2008: I was going to say the same thing. Even if he didn't act out a physical relationship with the co worker just talking about it on myspace is very wrong. Especially since she is someone he works with. So my question to you is why do you ha... (read in full...)
Does the fact I can't stop thinking about my "anal experience" mean I'm gay?
Q. Dear Cupid I am a man in my fifties and I had sex with a few women which I enjoyed a lot but I would love to receive anal. Sex with a male friend of mine we tried it before but it was not a sucess but I can't stop thinking about it does this mea...
A. 10 November 2008: There are men that like anal sex. When the man is straight and not gay he will have a woman he trusts and has an open honest relationship with give it to him with a device made for anal sex.
When a man has another man give him anal sex I beli... (read in full...)
My relationship with my brother in law
Q. I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as ...
A. 1 November 2008: I agree with the first poster. You need to refuse his advances toward you if its anything other than an encouraging hug. You should tell him how you feel and how you respect him but do not want to be sexual in any way with him. Tell him how it will ... (read in full...)
Am I jumping to conclusions here?
Q. Should I jump to conclusions? At my job, everything is computerized. Everyone has a login and password to access information about patients. Personal information such as work schedules, residence, pay rate, etc is also stored on our web page. No...
A. 1 November 2008: Why didn't that co worker come to mind as soon as they called you? You should have told them that he was pressuring you and now he must be the person that called them.
Its actually cause for investigation. I can't believe they didn't press the ... (read in full...)
Am I jumping to conclusions here?
Q. Should I jump to conclusions? At my job, everything is computerized. Everyone has a login and password to access information about patients. Personal information such as work schedules, residence, pay rate, etc is also stored on our web page. No...
A. 31 October 2008: Why didn't that co worker come to mind as soon as they called you? You should have told them that he was pressuring you and now he must be the person that called them. Its actually cause for investigation. I can't believe they didn't press th... (read in full...)
I have a funny smell coming from my vagina.
Q. Heya, this has only just started but me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and just recently after we have had sex and got up the next morning I have got a really funny smell coming from my vaginal area. What's wrong with me, help it's ...
A. 31 October 2008: Could just be a slight bacteria infection.
Most times your body will fight it and cure itself with in a week or so. Drink lots of water and be very clean.
You get this if he has some bacteria on his member or if he inserted a finger insid of... (read in full...)
I'm a newlywed and I can't seem to get aroused by my wife! Advice?
Q. I am a newlywed and I can't seem to get aroused by my wife. I never had a problem with that before we were married. she is gorgeous, and sexy, and I truely love her and enjoy my time with her, and yet I cant seem to get hard, I can however, when i ...
A. 15 October 2008: Maybe you can't get hard because you watch to much porn. Read up on it. Usually when a man watches porn a lot it desencitises him from the real thing.
Could be that you see your wife as perfect and fragile and you don't want to taint her. Th... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife or not?
Q. I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...
A. 1 October 2008: You know at first I thought she may have lied about the entire thing.
Since you got her drink and then started interigating her about Chris maybe she knew exactly what you were doing and wanted to piss you off to no end.
I have done that to my bo... (read in full...)
Can a kerb crawler stop for good?
Q. Please could people who know kerb crawlers and if you have enough confidence a kerb crawler help me with my problem... My husband is a kerb crawler, OI found out christmas day 2006 his as he says last successful meeting!!!!! So my question to you ...
A. 30 September 2008: Please explain to me what a kerb crawler does? I am not farmiliar with that term. I may be able to help you. I have done a lot and seen a lot and been around all types of people. If you wish to give an update please do so. Thanks ... (read in full...)
He's hot but I think he may be gay! What should I do?
Q. hi i met a guy how is hot and i think he is half gay. i really like him and we make each other laugh. i tried calling him but he wont answer or even txt. he is on to drugs and were the same age 13. the other day 9/27/08 i was asleep at a sleep over ...
A. 30 September 2008: Hi. Did he do anything when he got ontop of you? He could be gay and just not sure of it yet. He might have been testing out the situation and seeing if he got any feelings from being ontop of a girl.
You sound really young. Why would he be slee... (read in full...)
What can I do to maintain his erection longer?
Q. For a few weeks my boyfriend cannot get hard with me and when he does its when I am giving him head and he tries to put it in me and can't get it in on the first time and goes limp.What can I do to keep him hard long enough to have sex?...
A. 28 September 2008: From expireance and having my own questions answered here I can tell you that he needs to relax. Its probably his fear of failure that he can't pleasure you well enough that causes his rerection to go away. Which is in its self a deviatstion and ... (read in full...)
I want to tell her that I'm not interested...but how can I do this in the nicest way possible??
Q. Alright, so I'm wondering if there's a nice way of breaking it to a girl that you're not interested. Back in June I hooked up with this girl at a party, and all we ended up doing was kissing, because she said she wanted to take it slow, which I th...
A. 26 September 2008: Hi even though I'm not liking the fact that you called her again and made out with her again but you have no intention on having anything with her. Ill answer your question. You can tell her exactly the truth. You don't want a relationship but you ... (read in full...)
Would it be right to leave my daughter to go abroad with my girlfriend for work? But would in turn be right to stay and leave the girl I love?
Q. Hello Cupids, I have a problem. A extremely life changing problem. My girlfriend is moving to Australia for work next month and has asked me to go with her. We've been seeing each other for 2 years and we are deeply in love. But the prob...
A. 24 September 2008: Hi I have a story for you and its true. I have a 12 year old daughter and I haven't been with her father for over 6 years. He lived in the same town as is all her life. He was dating a woman he was in love with. They were in love and she ask... (read in full...)
She did upset me for a bit, but it made me question myself and my penis...Any thoughts?
Q. I just had a random conversation with my ex and the topic of sex with her new guy haphazardly came up, and she said that he annoys her all the time and if it wasn't for how big his penis was, he would've been gone a long time ago. She also said that ...
A. 23 September 2008: She totally said that to hurt you. How insensitive of her. We all know how hard it is to hear about sex with a new partner being the old one.
Don't talk to her anymore. Really!
She probably doesn't even have a man right now. Or if you know she... (read in full...)
My girlfriend orgasms thick white fluids, is this common?
Q. I'm in a relationship which my girlfriend orgasms thick white fluid. Its unusual since I've never come across a woman that orgasmed thick fluids. The best way to describe it is as thick as lotion. What information can you tell me about this and is ...
A. 22 September 2008: Sometimes I get that too. i take it as a beginning of a yeast infection which is nothing to get freaked out over.
My mom told me its just a build up of yeast in my body.
It doesn't happen all of the time just once in a while. If its like every da... (read in full...)
My husband's a miserable asshole who only discusses the prospect of us getting a threesome on, so he can boost his self esteem!
Q. I have been married to my husband (we'll call him steve) for less than a year (we've been a couple for over 9 years) but i have been cheating on him with our good friend (we'll call him rick) for nearly a year and a half. Rick and his wife (cal...
A. 19 September 2008: Wow. Sounds like Steve really can't handle seeing another man have sex with you and that seems to be the final issue.
He can watch a woman and you get it on and he can do another woman in front of you but when you threw Rick in the mix he seem... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend acting so strange? I'm confused, help please!
Q. Hey guys, i just want to let a few things out about how i feel and basically whay my girl is making me feel like (if u get me).. Just to let you know it is a long story, so if you dont want to read i understand. Ok, i met this girl literally l...
A. 19 September 2008: Aw how sad. You need to not be so sad ok. Its going to be ok. Your both very young and its more than likly not going to be a good outcome. But hey there are so many girls out there and you will find another one and probably another one and another ... (read in full...)
Am I a terrible boyfriend, or is she just being manipulative?
Q. My partner and I have a huge fight. It is the third time we fight this way. It happened because of a simple misunderstanding. She dropped me offline messages in instant messenger. That day, I login to see if she left me any message then I l...
A. 19 September 2008: Sounds to me like she is being manipulative. That's just what I think when I read your question. Two adults should give each other respect enough to listen to what the other person has to say. If she won't speak with you then she is being difficult ... (read in full...)
I know my fantasy's are wrong and I need help....what can I do??
Q. I got a major problem. I am the unfortunate member of the male species that had this great idea not to have sex until i was married. And now I'm 28 and still unmarried. I have been having these sexual desires for my 15 year old female neighbou...
A. 19 September 2008: Hey. You seem to be in control of your situation and that is good. I read your story and I have a question. Say your neighbor was a beautiful woman your age with an amazing body dressed the same way and doing the same things. Coming onto you.... (read in full...)
Any idea what this lump could be?
Q. I have this hard bump on the inside of my vagina. Like, near the top, not near the opening. Near the clitoris I think. I am not sexually active and just want to know some ideas before I consult my doctor....
A. 18 September 2008: If it was never there before or if you check a photo of detailed picture of a vagina and do not recognize this bump you have in it then you should totally go to the doctors.
It could be a number of things.
Allergic reaction
Ingrown hair
Cyst ... (read in full...)
He is insecure about having sex. How can I help him? What if we never do it?
Q. i've recently stared a relationship with a guy who i feel very strongly about. He's the first one in a long while that i've thought i could really stick with. The problem is a few weeks ago we shared a bed and to which i thought we would of had sex....
A. 17 September 2008: This may sound very shallow but I have to say it. And don't take my advise you will get much better advice on this site but I must add my 2 cents since I had this same issue. I waited on an inexpiresnced man to get over it and give me what I w... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend and I agreed to repair our relationship, but he got angry and won't talk to me.after he broke a date,and I got uposet with him, I saw him, and he wouldn't even speak, why is he reacting this way?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I are in the process of rebuilding our once really close friendship and had agreed to see each other Thursday. He cancelled on me Thursday and I got upset because I had rearranged my schedule around for him. So we stopped speak...
A. 17 September 2008: This is just my opinion but maybe he wasn't sure things would work out between you two again and when he said he would go out with you Thursday he wanted to but then tested you by canceling on you to see your reaction. If you didn't make a big deal ... (read in full...)
I'm a teen cheating on my boyfriend with a man in his 40's. Is this wrong?
Q. ok well this is kinda supper coplicated so i'll try to just keep it simple. im 15 and i have a bf thats 16 i live in florida but hes now moved all the way to oregon. but i still love him. now theres this guy that ive known for a while and really ...
A. 15 September 2008: Hey your still acting like someone that doesn't think clearly. I know its hard to come to terms with the fact that you were fooled by a man but you got to realize this.
Your getting pissed at us and were trying to help you. Is this how you trea... (read in full...)
I'm a teen cheating on my boyfriend with a man in his 40's. Is this wrong?
Q. ok well this is kinda supper coplicated so i'll try to just keep it simple. im 15 and i have a bf thats 16 i live in florida but hes now moved all the way to oregon. but i still love him. now theres this guy that ive known for a while and really ...
A. 14 September 2008: Oh my god child. Don't you see his lies and his manipulation? You probably don't because your a child. You don't know what he is doing to you but he knows. He knows exactly what to say and exactly what to do to make you have sex with him.
On top ... (read in full...)
If his wife was taking care of him, he wouldn't have to lean on his female students. He isn't 'traditionally' attractive but should I flirt with him?
Q. A few months ago, I couldn't help but fall for my much older principal. Sure he isn't TRADITIONALLY attractive, but looks aren't everything. He has a big.....let's just call it a 'beaver'. I just know it. He also has a really cool voice, kind of ...
A. 14 September 2008: Does your father have a relationship with you? Is he in your life and active as a father?
From your post I would say not and no and no and not.
I'm sorry for you because your post screams daddy issues. You are young and one day you will realize ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have advice regarding job seekers allowance?
Q. I am claiming Job seekers Allowance. In April, i moved out my moms an moved into my girlfriends, however my girlfriend is in a relationship with her husband. I haven't told the Job centre that iv moved in with my girlfriend, i have told the h...
A. 14 September 2008: It depends on how much they look into your situation.
If your gf is married and with someone else legally and your concidered just a room mate to them in the household then I wouldn't think you need to say she is your gf to them.
If you and her ... (read in full...)
I am more attracted to naked men but want to date girls...will I grow out of this phase??
Q. I am 14 and i wanna know why am i attracted to naked men before naked women. I have absolutly now feeling for men at all i just get horny to sum of them, i look at gay porn and masterbate to it but after that gayness takes a left i don't have fee...
A. 14 September 2008: I think you may actually be attracted to men but are to young to understand the feelings. You probably think you want to be with a girl because its what is so called normal.
Plus girls remind men of their mothers. Safe soft and smell good. Its secu... (read in full...)
My cousin wants to have sex with me! How can I stop her?
Q. i am a 23yr old guy.my problem is that my cousin who is 17 loves me very much she wants to have sex with me, i have told her about the consequences of it. But when ever we are alone she trys very hard to have sex, when i refuse she says that she ...
A. 13 September 2008: You need to tell someone in your family that you trust and that will believe you over her. You have to let people know what she is doing to you before she lies to people and they believe her over you.
Telling people is your best way to do it beca... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my old boyfriend, even though he might want sex?
Q. ok there is this dude "j" i liked alot last year in school bur we never hooked up we were alway sfuck buddys even though i wanted it to be more than that well this school year he asked me out and we were dattinq everythinq was goin well intill...
A. 13 September 2008: I have to say when I read your post the first 3 sentences and I almost gasped out loud. Are you really for real? You have a F buddy at your age? Holy cow girl what the heck are you thinking?! You don't get those type of friends till your an adult... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to get rid of ingrowing hairs.
Q. This is a bit gross, but I have ingrown hairs on my vagina as I shave down there, they look disgusting and I need to get rid of them. Any ideas?...
A. 13 September 2008: Hi. This might work. I sometimes get in grown hairs on my underarms and soaking a tea bag in hot hot water and then letting it rest on the area usually draws the hair out. Make sure you don't burn your self. Especially in that area. Just allow the ... (read in full...)
I am the other girl and I want him to get caught cheating because I hate his girlfriend! How do I get caught on purpose?
Q. I am the other girl. Slowly i'm realizing that he's a complete jerk and this all might not be worth it. I do enjoy being the other girl because I hate his girlfriend. How can i GET caught on purpose?? I want her to know, I want him to get caught. I ...
A. 12 September 2008: Did you ever think that your just so hurt your self and that's why you hate his Gf? That's why you want to get caught. You probably want this guy all 4 your self and he won't leave her for you and now you want revenge. In the end when your called n... (read in full...)
How do I pick one of these two men? I'm crying buckets of tears trying to figure this out!
Q. I am responding to the others who seem to be in the same boat. I fell in love with D at age 18 he is 30 years my senior he was my first and only...he has protected me urged me to go to school and many other pos. things He is also married. 18 years ...
A. 12 September 2008: I agree. Hearing your story it seems only logical to try things out with j. But I also see that this is going to be hard for you. Its the devil we know. Meaning we stay because its just what we know rather than take the jump over board into ... (read in full...)
I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this. There are three girls that I like...
Q. I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this. There's one girl who I barely know, only talked to her a bit, but from the times I have talked to her, and from talking to her cousin, I know that she does in fact like me in a more than just friend...
A. 12 September 2008: Hi. I say just be there for all 3 girls and see what happens. Only time will tell. The third girl, do you like her at all? How do you feel about being with her? If she was single would she be first on your list? I am thinking you really need to just ... (read in full...)
I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this. There are three girls that I like...
Q. I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this. There's one girl who I barely know, only talked to her a bit, but from the times I have talked to her, and from talking to her cousin, I know that she does in fact like me in a more than just friend...
A. 12 September 2008: Hi. I say just be there for all 3 girls and see what happens. Only time will tell. The third girl, do you like her at all? How do you feel about being with her? If she was single would she be first on your list? I am thinking you really need to just ... (read in full...)
Am I actually blacking out?
Q. ok so my mom and me were talking about school and i told her that i can't remeber most of my math class because i was tuneing out. she asked me what i was day dreaming about and i told her that i don't know. see when i tune out i mean i tune out i ...
A. 9 September 2008: Hi. I do the same thing. I'm not sure what it is but it is some what allarming. The only thing I can say is now that I am older I can control when It happens. When I was your age It happened even when I wasn't trying. People thought I was crazy. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok if an eight-year-old masturbates?
Q. I been babysitting all my life since i was 16. I baby sit this 8 yr old girl she's Always wanting Privacy. One Day I was Baby sitting Just her cause the other went to spend the night with grandparents. well One Day i was down stairs Doing some ...
A. 8 September 2008: Hi. All children do it at some point once they discover it.
If its excessive I would worry. Like if she does it all of the time.
I know a child that was molested and she did it all of the time. Everywhere and anywhere.
But if she isn't doing ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend masturbates to porn and then says, "it's not you". Why does he choose this over me?
Q. Hey everyone, I really badly need to get this off my chest (no pun intended). I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 years and when we first got together, things were great. Then I found out he watches porn. One night, I was feeling ill, and...
A. 5 September 2008: Hi. I know how you feel. It may be normal for men to do it but when they do it and try to pretend not to be doing it then its the sneeky part that gets us. I had the same issue with someone I was dating for 3 years. He would do it right there in... (read in full...)
I clearly prefer sex with a girl but I can't see me in a relationship with one, so am I lesbian?
Q. For some reason when i have sex with a guy...it does not feel good...but when i do with a girl i like it mor...am finding myself looking at girls now and feel more attarcted to them...but at the same time to see me in a realtionship with a girl....i ...
A. 30 August 2008: Hi. I don't think you should worry about it either.
Your still young and haven't found the right person be it a woman or a man. You may find you are attracted to a woman and you may love her so so deeply that you couldn't think of spending your... (read in full...)
I clearly prefer sex with a girl but I can't see me in a relationship with one, so am I lesbian?
Q. For some reason when i have sex with a guy...it does not feel good...but when i do with a girl i like it mor...am finding myself looking at girls now and feel more attarcted to them...but at the same time to see me in a realtionship with a girl....i ...
A. 30 August 2008: Hi. I don't think you should worry about it either. Your still young and haven't found the right person be it a woman or a man. You may find you are attracted to a woman and you may love her so so deeply that you couldn't think of spending your lif... (read in full...)
Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?
Q. Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...
A. 30 August 2008: Abbysmom. You have a great point. This is exactly why he becomes upset. Thing is he is asking me please love me. Please be with me. Why don't you want to be with me? Why did you like me before but now you don't seem interested?
That is why we talk... (read in full...)
Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?
Q. Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...
A. 30 August 2008: Abbysmom. You have a great point. This is exactly why he becomes upset. Thing is he is asking me please love me. Please be with me. Why don't you want to be with me? Why did you like me before but now you don't seem interested? That is why we talke... (read in full...)
Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?
Q. Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...
A. 29 August 2008: Ah yes. Thank you. I knew I would get some great feed back. Thanks a million times. I know that not everyone is this way. Not every mother does this to their sons. I know there is a very self sufficient...mentally stable man awaiting my presence... (read in full...)
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