Not sure what it is!
Q. I Have Like A Little Bump Right Next To My Vagina But Im Not Sure What It Is! It Really Hurts When I Touch It And Sometimes Goes Red! And By The Way In Only 13! Please Help me...
A. 8 October 2007: i think you should go to your doctors you dont have to feel embarrased you can ask to see a female doctor it may well just be a ingrown hair but as it is a lump its better to be safe then sorry.
take care hunnie x ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that I showed another guy my nipple ring?
Q. Dear Cupid I have been going out with my adoreable boyfriend for nearly a year now and things are brilliant however, I tend to get a bit too drunk when i am out with my girlfriends and last weekend I showed some random guy my nipple ring. ...
A. 5 October 2007: no you dont need to tell him you havent cheated and you didnt want it to go any further did ya? its just a bit of harmless fun!
dont worry sweetie just think of it like some models always have there boobs out dont they and they have nothing to feel... (read in full...)
My daughter said my partner of 7 yrs tried to take a photo of her in the shower. He says he "walked in" texting me not realising someone else was there. I want to believe both!
Q. I have been with my partner for 7 years and thought evrything was great after being in a bad marriage. Tonight my 19year old daughter sent me a txt saying he tried to take a photo of her in the shower . When i challenged him about it he said he was ...
A. 5 October 2007: i think you should believe your daughter. She's your child, for goodness sake you don't pick a bloke over your own flesh and blood!!!!!!!!! when people text they normally don't hold their phone up. think of how you text, do you walk around wit your... (read in full...)
My boyfriend abuses me
Q. ok my boyfriend has a problem he's constantly physical with me. actually he hasn't been recently, but in the past he's severely injured me. well injured me enough to where even weeks and weeks had passed i still had marks and my skin where i've had ...
A. 4 October 2007: ok there is nothing wrong with you mentally or physically. your skin is still senstive because he has hurt you that bad. have you been and got you hip checked out? he could have done more damage then you think so please just get checked over!
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An old friend of mine is very sick..what should I do?
Q. I know this is a very difficult question to answer but I would appreciate people views. We’re both 18 almost 19 now. All the way through primary school form age 5 to age 13/14 I was very close friends with this girl Ann we never had a falling ou...
A. 3 October 2007: i think you should deffenitly go see her lifes to short to think about what ifs and maybes. i think she would be really happy to see you and you could talk about the old times to try and cheer her up.
its not as if you feel out because of a argu... (read in full...)
I can't have this baby..my bf is an alcoholic and an angry person! Help!
Q. I am 7 weeks pregnant and can't have this baby because of being in a really bad and progressively worse relationship. My boyfriend is an alcoholic and overall an angry person and so is his family. He wants to have this baby but I don't want to ...
A. 3 October 2007: i think for the sake of the child you shouldnt have it i no its sounds wrong but everything you have just told is deffenatly not a good enviroment to bring a child into.
i would always say never lie but in this situation i think it would be a goo... (read in full...)
Is there any way to get our relationship back on the map?
Q. I think my boyfriend broke up with me last night and cried until 4:00 a.m., and then had to get up at 6:30 for work. I wish I could say our conversation was a bad dream. We had a misunderstanding over the telephone and he needed some spac...
A. 25 September 2007: i think if it was a arguement over smoething stupid like that things will soon be fine. tell him that your sooo sorry and that you is a bad mood and toke it out on the person you care about most (him). ... (read in full...)
I'm pushing my boyfriend away and cause silly arguments, but why do I do it?
Q. i tend to pust my boyfriend away and cause silly arguements i really love him so why do i do it?...
A. 24 September 2007: i think its because you have alot of feelings for him and your scared of getting hurt. have you ever been in a relationship where someone has really hurt you like broke your heart? ... (read in full...)
Do you think we are ready for sex yet?
Q. help i am 14 and me and my boyfrind love each other so much but we do oral things but we dont know if we are too young 4 sex please help and also there is one more thing my bf is poor and he has no money so i land up paying for everything but we ...
A. 24 September 2007: right at the age of 14 you are to young and if he feels bad about you paying why doesnt he get a weekend job or you could just have quiet nights in watchin tv or you could go to the park and have sumthing to eat youy dont always have to go out and ... (read in full...)
How can I make sex better?
Q. i lost my virginity and im happy with it but im kinda sad that now since i lost it i dont have the chance to live my first time again but actually i want to have more sex because it made me feel so happy with my boyfriend and we both enjoyed it but ...
A. 21 September 2007: practise and its a really good excuse to try all the diffrent positions and doing more often!!!!!
ur b/f will be fine with experimenting all the diffrent positions trust me. ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??
Q. okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...
A. 21 September 2007: you need to tell him!!!!!!!!
fair enough he might be mad at first but if he really cares about you then he will calm down and except it.
tell him when you lied to him you didnt expect to get into a serious relationship with him but your gla... (read in full...)
My step father pushed me into having sex, should I tell my mother? It could give her the strength to leave him.
Q. I have a serious question that needs your opinion. Was I raped or sexualy abused by my step father? It started when I was 15. He and my mother were dating for just a few months at the time and he sorta slept over alot. One day It snowed so much ...
A. 21 September 2007: your mum wont disown you hun yes you was raped by him im affraid to say and he was him that did this to you. your mum will alaways love you and i think she has a right to know your right it will give her strength to leave him it will be like the ... (read in full...)
My hubby has a low sperm count, I cheated and got pregnant! Do I tell him the truth?
Q. hi, me and my husband are married for 3.5 years we have been trying for a baby and we found out he has a low sperm count, the doctors say there is always that maricle baby 1% percent chance of having a baby, both me and him really want a baby, we ...
A. 21 September 2007: you cannot lie to your husband if you do and he finds out he will resent you and the child he thought was his. you really need to rethink your marriage as only 2 weeks and you slept with someone else! no offense but i wouldn't really say that was... (read in full...)
Am I straight or a lesbian? I'm confused. Help!
Q. hi, i recently lost my viginity to a male, but i didn't enjoy it at all. i have always thought i was a lesbian but people told me i just needed a decent bloke. i've snogged girls before and i enjoy it more than snogging men. when i was younger ...
A. 21 September 2007: hi. i can see why your confused but a lot of people go through this been confused about there sexuality. in time you will know whether your straight or a lesbian but don't try and make the decision it's just who you are. don't be in a hurry.... (read in full...)
We're used to seeing each other every day but now it will be only once a month, until college. How will this work out?
Q. I need help I'm moving away from fl and I love my gf she is 18 and I'm 17 we have been dating for about 6 months we had sex a lot and we both love each other. This is both of ours very first relationships that we have ever been in. I have to move ...
A. 21 September 2007: i think it will yeah my b/f works away and i dont get to see him for 4 months maybe 6 at a time but it just makes you appriciate them more and its more special when you finnaly see them. if you love and care for each other stick with it trust me it ... (read in full...)
I am 18, she is 15. Is it ok to date her?
Q. I've recently left my old job of which I got quite close to another person who worked there. I'm 18 but she is still 15, is it wrong if I try to make something happen- not having sex; but just having a good time together?...
A. 21 September 2007: yeah its is fine to date her. you cant help who you like and care about. as long as you wil treat her rightits fine. its ok people saying no! but it would be diffrent if you was 19 and she was 16. 3 years is not a big age gap at all there is 4 years ... (read in full...)
I am a male but like to be dressed as female, how can I fulfil my desire?
Q. I am a male but like to be dressed as female, how can i fulfil my desire?...
A. 20 September 2007: easy you could become a cross dresser like do gigs and stuff like that they are really popular!
sorry i dont get what you mean by fill your desires do you mean in the bedroom or?
private mail me and i might be able to help. ... (read in full...)
She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...
A. 20 September 2007: get rid of her if she really cared about you she wouldnt have done that she is bang out of order. dont stand for it get rid and find someone who cares for you not just what you got. good luck oh 1 more thing its not the size that matters its ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I wont be big enough to satisfy my girl!
Q. HI IM 15 AND IM ABOUT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY GF MY PENIS 5'5 INCHES LNG IM SORTA CONSCIOUS ABOUT THIS COZ I HEAR HER GOING ON ABOUT BIG PENISES SHE IS A VIRGIN IM SKILLED IN BED AND I KNOW MANY WAYS TO PLEASE A GIRL BUT I DONT KNOW IF ILL BE ABLE TO ...
A. 19 September 2007: hey i have private emailed you with your answer from you last question. ... (read in full...)
Am I being stupid?
Q. Am I being stupid? I have a great wife, who is a great mother with our children and in 12 years we have never had bad problems. My problem is that she had a couple of relationships in high school and as she says she was "forced to have sex". ...
A. 19 September 2007: she didnt have to tell you this but she did cause she trusts you.
she wont be lieing about it they way she explained it to you is exaclty how it happens. and it is true when they say they wiont do it you want to belive them as your vunerable.
an... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too busy to see me or call - He says he is not the phone type of guy!
Q. my boyfriend is too busy to see me or call. He goes for a week without calling if l dont call him he doesnt call and when l call he says l tried your number and l failed to get through. He also says he is not the phone type of guy. Tell me if he ...
A. 19 September 2007: you needd to ask no demand the truth you need to ask him if he is happy in your relationship and tell him if hes not nows the time to say.
if he says he is happy then he wil be you have offered him a way out and he dint except so you wil be happ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had a good relationship w/ their affair and/or w/ someone who is already attached?
Q. Just wondering, has anyone ever had a happy ending out of having an affair, with a married partner or with someone who is just attatched? I'm just curious....
A. 19 September 2007: it is possible that someone can love two people at once by the way.
and i never had a happy ending with mr affair he promised me the world (all i wanted was him) and when it came to it he backed out.
if your having a affair just be carefull... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going over-seas soon... How will I cope with loss of contact and worry?
Q. Hi aunts My boyfriend is in the army and going over-seas soon Im so scared for him and worried how ill cope not having a lot of contact Someone suggested blueys but i dont know what these are can anyone tell me please Thank's...
A. 19 September 2007: they are drugs dont do them!!!!!!!!! my b/f is in the forces aswell and goes away alot i know how your feeling. it is hard the first couple of times but the times you finnaly do get contact you talk loads lol and its true what they say abs... (read in full...)
He sent me a text about another woman by accident! I'm gutted.
Q. Hi. im 24 and have been with my boyfriend 2 years. last sat night he had a boys night out. i was at home alone when i got a text message from him saying "she can't be more unreal than you..ha. are you settin me up. ha". He obviously meant to send it ...
A. 19 September 2007: i think he has got a gulity conciouns and/or he doesnt want to be in the relationship any more other wise he would still be begging. when my friend broke up with her b/f he sat outside her house for 3 days til she toke him back.
this is going to s... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity with a lad and I haven't bled. Does that mean there is a problem?
Q. Well ive just recently had sex with a lad i met and ive had sex with him 3 times but i did'nt bleed.Is this normal or have i got a problem ? ...
A. 19 September 2007: No, this is not a problem. You're one of the lucky people that don't. I wish I was like you!. Don't worry, you're fine. You're just really lucky!... (read in full...)
I want to remain a virgin so how do I satisfy him sexually?
Q. 8 September 2007 (F) - What can I do to make my boyfriend satisfied and make him enjoy during sex activity? I wanna remain a virgin, and I don't wanna act too sophisticated, please advise me!!! thanks a million... (34 words) (please andrew dont ...
A. 19 September 2007: well you can give him oral pleassure.
that will satisfy him and also keep you happy. also you could dress up once in a while ask him about his fantisys and act them out. ... (read in full...)
Okay my problem is that I'm 14, and a freshman at high school and I'm terrified of sex.
Q. Okay my problem is that I'm 14, and a freshman at high school and I'm terrified of sex. I recently ended a relationship with my boyfriend, although he did not pressure me for sex I am constantly hearing girls my age losing their virginity. My sister ...
A. 19 September 2007: yes it most cases it does hurt and in most cases you will bleed however since you are going to wait for mr right not mr right now it will be fine. some people arnt very good the first time and some people have a nak for it lol but since you wil be ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I wont be big enough to satisfy my girl!
Q. HI IM 15 AND IM ABOUT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY GF MY PENIS 5'5 INCHES LNG IM SORTA CONSCIOUS ABOUT THIS COZ I HEAR HER GOING ON ABOUT BIG PENISES SHE IS A VIRGIN IM SKILLED IN BED AND I KNOW MANY WAYS TO PLEASE A GIRL BUT I DONT KNOW IF ILL BE ABLE TO ...
A. 19 September 2007: can i just tel you one secret: most girls go on about large penises but most of us dont want them as we are scared it will hurt (especially our first time). because your her first she will think your great anyway all girls do its something they rem... (read in full...)
Recently lost my viriginity and still bleed after sex. Help?
Q. i have recently lost my virginity and i still bleed after sex. i have had penetrative sex about 3 times now and there is still alot of blood. is there smfin rong with me?...
A. 19 September 2007: hi hun
no there is nothing wrong with you some people dont bleed at all and some people bleed alot. i was like you the first 6 times i had sex i bleed but it eases up and stops. dont worry about it honeslty there is nothing wrong with you at all. ... (read in full...)
Her family forbids her to see me, but we make each other so happy!
Q. what do i do? DONT JUDGE ME BASED ON MY AGE! shes 16 btw yeah im gonna try to keep this short to avoid any confusion basically ive been with a girl now for around 6 months and it was unofficail until about 4 weeks ago her parents h...
A. 19 September 2007: youve just answered it you will both be happy together. carry on seeing each other yeah you wil get in trouble but her parents will soon see you are both serious about each other. she needs to tell her parents sheis 16 and old enough to make her own ... (read in full...)
The attached woman I'm seeing doesn't seem to make any decisions! Should I let her go?
Q. Hello a lil advice needed. I have broke off loads of contact wiv my affair after it started getting to heavy on my part wantin her to leave her fella. I know she does care stacks for me too but has no balls and i wish the sex had been crap cos we ...
A. 19 September 2007: you cant wait around for this pearson soundslike shes happy with the way things are even if your not!
if you did get in a relationship whats to say she wouldnt do to you whats shes done to her current partner eg cheat/brake your heart.
i say c... (read in full...)
How do I get back together w/ my ex? I don't want to sound desperate and scare her off!
Q. I want to get back with my ex, I think she wants to as well, I'm not sure (you got to take risks in life though!). What is the best way to do this (I dont want to sound too serious and desperate so as to scare her off)?...
A. 19 September 2007: tell her that you have missed you and her. ask her how she feels about having a relationship. dont tel her what you want just bring it up in a normal conversation eg: i was watching this film the other night and everyone was in a relationship and... (read in full...)
After 2 years, he dumps me in a disgusting restaurant, and leaves like nothing ever happened between us!
Q. I acknowledge this is a long and possibly confusing post. I've been heart broken and think I'm losing my mind trying to rationally think about my situation! My boyfriend and i had been together for almost 2 years. Earlier this week he arranged...
A. 19 September 2007: hi hunnie well i know its a stupid question but i hope you're ok? there are lots of reasons why he did what he did some of them you may not like but you asked: he could have found someone else he could have got with you on a rebound and just relis... (read in full...)
My bf slapped me b/c I was nagging him when he wanted to sleep! I feel it's all my fault.
Q. My boyfriend of 3 yrs slapped me in the face yesterday just because I was nagging him very late at night when he wanted to sleep. Is his action justifiable?? He blames me for provoking him since I didnt respect him in letting him sleep. Now, I feel ...
A. 19 September 2007: no his actions are not justable at all.
fair enough he might have been angery but he shouldnt of done that to you at all.
its not your fault at all and you need to tell him he was in the wrong not you he could have just told you you was making h... (read in full...)
I figured if I could have sex with a few women, then I would be able to see passed her past. I cheated on her 5 times, but only ended up kissing.
Q. A while ago my girlfriend and I had a rough going of separate ways. A little over a month ago we began seeing each other again. Before our breakup, I was head-over-heals for her, and when we began dating again started off the same. While...
A. 19 September 2007: first of all sorry but 2 wrongs dont make a right.
now ive got that out the way you are right you 2 sound likeyou shouldnt be together its making you unhappy and relationships shouldnt be like that.
you just need to tell her how your feeling ... (read in full...)
Am I being stupid?
Q. Am I being stupid? I have a great wife, who is a great mother with our children and in 12 years we have never had bad problems. My problem is that she had a couple of relationships in high school and as she says she was "forced to have sex". ...
A. 19 September 2007: what she needs from you is love and support not for you to act like a arse with her its not her fault!!!!!
i wil have happended the way she said and it will be hard to fight of onelad let alone more than that. you have to remember us girls arnt very... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and want to have sex! I'm scared but I want to. Should I???
Q. i am 12 i want to have sex with my boyfriend. what should i do? i am so scarde but i want to, so should i have sex with him ...
A. 19 September 2007: NO DONT DO IT you wil regreat it when your older trust me. your body isnt developed proply so it could cause complications. please dont do it if your scared about it it proves you ant ready for it. alot of people your age dont now what they want so ... (read in full...)
Is it best to stay friends after a break up or better to sever all ties?
Q. is it best to stay friends after a break up or is it better to sever all ties? my ex and i were very close and he often said i was his best friend as well as girlfriend! We broke up amicably and he said he wanted us to be like ross and rachel i.e ...
A. 19 September 2007: i think it is better to stay friends than nothing at all. and yeah you're right - he will move on, but when things dont go right it will be you he will come running to and that will make you closer and stronger. if you really care about him you ... (read in full...)
Some friends say I have changed because I don't smoke pot anymore. They say my boyfriend is controlling me.
Q. I have two specific friends who believe that my boyfriend is "controlling" because he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who smokes pot. this is fine with me because it is not something that i am attached to so im not doing ...
A. 18 September 2007: first of all it is them that is being controlled by drugs and can i just say well done for not giving into per pressure.
you havent changed at all they could be jelous cause they cant stop maybe?
your boyfriend isnt controlling he is just looking ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, he's 19, and he says he's wanted to propose to me!
Q. Right! i been wiv my bf for nearly 3months hes 19 n am 16 n we get on really really well as friends and as much much more i'm his longest relationship since he was 13 hes brilliant but last night we were chattin online n he was sayin how m...
A. 18 September 2007: right first of all dont get engagaed just cos you dont want to lose him. if he really loves you he will take things slow.
second 3 months is really soon and thrid your only 16. go out enjoy yourself have fun its what people your age do!!!!
you... (read in full...)
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