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writes:Right! i been wiv my bf for nearly 3monthshes 19 n am 16 n we get on really really well as friends and as much much morei'm his longest relationship since he was 13 hes brilliantbut last night we were chattin online n he was sayin how much he loves me n how hes nearly done silly things bcoz of itso after a while i got him 2 explainon atleast 2 occasions he told me tht hes wanted 2 get down on 1 knee n purpose but hes managed 2 talk himself out of it because of how long we been together etc.i dont know what to do its really sudden - i did tell him this but when i saw him today things were weird - i dunno what to do i dont want to loose him Reply to this Question
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reader, little miss helpful +, writes (18 September 2007):
 right first of all dont get engagaed just cos you dont want to lose him. if he really loves you he will take things slow.
second 3 months is really soon and thrid your only 16. go out enjoy yourself have fun its what people your age do!!!!
you said its the longest relationship hes had? this will mean its like puppy love again hel be thinking its the longest one so she must be the one for me etc etc im not saying your not but you wont tell in just 3 months.
tell him that you dont want to ruin things by moving to fast and that your happy with the way things are for now tel him your not saying no forever but just for now like a rain check if he doesnt understand he doesnt love you as much as he says if at all.
hope i helped hun
dont feel presured into it!!!!!!!!
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reader, towapa +, writes (18 September 2007):
 To tell him to wait for a few months, and then see how it goes. I think what you and your boyfriend are going is what's called a 'honeymoon period'. Both of you are going to feel completely in love and never want leave each other sides! So I say wait, and see how you feel about each other. Remember, you're both only young.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 September 2007):
Tell him you would like him to wait until you are 18 before he decides whether or not propose.
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (18 September 2007):
 i really think you two are moving a little quick and hes feelings for love maybe mistaken as the way he acts,
hes probly hurt and feels as a fool for bring it up as it may seem to him like you shut him down
but give him and the relationship time to sort things out
good luck and take care
oh by the way dont jump in anything just cause you like him and care engagement isnt to be tooken lighly and can be very hurtful if tooken back over fast answers
marrige is post to be forever,
your mr. right not mr. right now because our feels can be confussing so do be careful
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